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Don’t marry a Russian woman

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Don’t marry a Russian woman
Post by Relate on Jan 25, 2006, 10:32am

Looks like those looking for a foreign wife should stick to asia/latin america.

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Re: Don’t marry a Russian woman
Post by guest on Jan 25, 2006, 11:38am

I know a guy (blue-collar guy) who married a Latina (met through a service). While he was satisfied with the service and said he would use it again, his wife wanted a divorce within 6 months. She divorced him and then moved in with a 55 y/o guy. Court made him pay maintenance for 3 yrs unless she lived with another man. Guy took her to court to end maintenance b/c she was living w/ another man who was supporting her. Court wouldn’t end maintenance. Court said she was justified b/c man was her “landlord” and that was OK. I’m not sure that you’re safe with any women from anywhere. I don’t even think it is a gender issue. I think it is a legal system issue. Give any human being a chip and they will use it. Right now in the west, women have all the chips.
Re: Don’t marry a Russian woman
Post by Elf on Jan 25, 2006, 12:42pm

While you are on the subject of Latina women, I have read some of the posts here that suggest men should pursue Latina woman instead of American women. While I agree that American women are worthless as wives or girlfriends, I think Latina women are actually the same or even worse. Here in Miami, they are made up mostly of immigrants mostly Central & South America. They are extremely materialistic, arrogant, bullyish, and confrontational. They often come to the US , marry rich “white” guys then divorce them and take them for all they have got. These Latina women, behave as if they own the place down here, and the world has to wait on them. Granted they are very attractive women, but they think their looks entitle them to do whatever they want. It is not uncommon to see a Latina down here wearing clothes costing thousands of dollars, driving extremely expensive cars, refusing to speak English, and behaving as if she is God’s gift to society, while totally uneducated and basically ignorant. But she uses her looks to get whatever she wants. I wonder who the jackasses are that fall for these women? Not me.

Re: Don’t marry a Russian woman
Post by razor on Jan 25, 2006, 1:01pm

Basically, women living in the US are garbage. It’s not the women themselves, but the culture that corrodes (sp?) femininity and breeds skankdom.
Re: Don’t marry a Russian woman
Post by Richie Rich on Jan 25, 2006, 1:11pm

…I love Latina’s but it is true with many of them using exotic looks to acquire what they want.

Have you guys ever been to south Florida lately to see so many non fat women in one place?

They really do put the average AW to shame with their bodies and faces but incredibly enough, they are more materialistic due to the entitlement mindset of poor women!!!

I find the Caribbean Latina’s (Cuba, Dominican Republic, Puerto Rico) to be the WORST of all. I don’t make too much of a distinction between them and AW women (Black or white).

I guess the only solution is to really never marry after all despite foreign nationality!!!
Re: Don’t marry a Russian woman
Post by Elf on Jan 25, 2006, 1:25pm

I live in South Florida. I have lived in several parts of the US as well. I have never seen so many jaw dropping gorgeous women in any other part of the US like I have seen in South Florida. The Latinas are stunning, and even the “white” party girls that come down here from the Northern states are gorgeous. But party girl mentality is not much different from the Latina materialistic mentality. The problem young men face here is that the women are gorgeous, but they won’t have anything to do with a guy unless he is stinking rich. The women here all want millionaires who will give them instant celebrity lifestyles — expensive clothes, cars, yachts, mansions etc.. What is shocking is that they ALL seem to think they are entitled to it.

Re: Don’t marry a Russian woman
Post by Richie Rich on Jan 25, 2006, 1:42pm


Where there are many Latina women, there will be Many Latino men. I know very well big time drug dealers from all regions of Latin America are in the south Florida area. These men spoil these women rotten and thus ruin it for the average legitimate Joe. One reason why the broads hold out is the number of rich players in the area that WILL cater to them.

I have been to Los Angles and seen fancy cars and houses in Beverly Hills area but Miami was even more glamorous with expensive vehicles and designers clothes. I sure as hell could not and will not ever try to compete with the filthy rich just for some exotic broad.

….I have heard the AW are not that different either!!!
Re: Don’t marry a Russian woman
Post by travis on Jan 25, 2006, 1:55pm

Quote:The problem young men face here is that the women are gorgeous, but they won’t have anything to do with a guy unless he is stinking rich.

There you have it. Women are nothing but expensive prostitutes.
Re: Don’t marry a Russian woman
Post by Willie Molson on Jan 25, 2006, 8:19pm

Which is why, in my opinion, escorts are more cost effective in the long run, even if you have to lay out some serious green upfront. The essence of most women is mercenary. It’s their evolutionary imperative to garner the male with the most resources at any given time. What’s beautiful about being a modern, moderately affluent male is that you can simulate for them that resource factor without all the other bullshit men usually have to go through to get the pussy.:)
Re: Don’t marry a Russian woman
Post by niceguy78 on Jan 25, 2006, 8:45pm


The purpose of this website is to NOT GET MARRIED IN THE USA.

The problem is NOT USA women, it is in fact WOMEN IN THE USA (regardless of where they come from).
Re: Don’t marry a Russian woman
Post by bernie on Jan 25, 2006, 11:38pm

I, too lived in Miami and I can relate. The women are very materialistic but that’s because of where they live. I think if you get a foreign girl to move to a mid-size American city, you’ll have better shot of her not being spoiled. I agree Caribbean Latina’s are the worst; loud, obnoxious and loose, I’d say they are worse than ameriskanks (ex: J.Lo 3 divorces) The real solution is not to marry or become an Amish. Those women sure know where they place in their society is, and some look cute with those outfits.
Re: Don’t marry a Russian woman
Post by bernie on Jan 25, 2006, 11:40pm

BTW I’d go Polish any time:)
Re: Don’t marry a Russian woman
Post by k on Jan 26, 2006, 2:58am

anyone remember grunt?
I miss that guy😀

always him and his ukranian wife

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  1. You’re kind is done, already, bitch. It would take us one generation to get rid of all self-serving male behaviour. You should bless your lucky stars that we women have shown patience with you enough so far. Many of us are patient and kind, and the male bitches have taken advantage of that in so many ways. no more! Tines are changing. A new day is coming!


    October 24, 2013 at 5:24 am

  2. Sorry, typo “Times are changing”. We will let ungrateful, braggart men go extinct, no female will breed with them and we will bring up our children carefully eliminating these male self serving ways and introducing a way of kindness and sharing and joy.


    October 24, 2013 at 5:39 am

  3. I married a Ukrainian woman, I know that’s not the same as Russian and it’s been great. Today is our 7th wedding anniversary and we have a little one. I do agree that it’s American culture that ruins American women which is why I looked outside the US.


    October 24, 2013 at 10:52 pm

  4. Yeah, sure, and I married a Martian man and I have to say he is so much better than the American…. Hehehe… Like one person is representative of a million others, yes?


    October 25, 2013 at 8:18 am

  5. Also, (I am not from the USA myself) but just as an aside on American culture… if it’s so dreadful etc then why do people from everywhere in the world try to emigrate there? Why don’t they stay in their own country instead? Why do the Americans have to build walls, etc to keep people out? With such a lousy culture shouldn’t people be trying to escape the States? Have you heard the saying, “The only good thing about democracy (freedom) etc is that all of its alternatives are so much worse.”


    October 25, 2013 at 8:26 am

    • There are many people from countries such as Australia who have no desire whatsoever to live in America.
      The problem with Americans is that they can’t see beyond their own basket case, gun flouting, crime ridden country.


      October 25, 2013 at 2:14 pm

    • MONEY!

      Richard Mierz

      October 18, 2015 at 11:39 pm

  6. So how are the women treated in Australia? My country, Canada, is considered one of the best places in the world for women, but I don’t know what was the criteria to come to that conclusion. Anyway, misogynistic, dinosaur patriarch-type men need not apply. Stay wherever you are now!


    October 25, 2013 at 2:23 pm

    • We put them over the knee if they talk too much.


      October 25, 2013 at 3:56 pm

      • You are talking about the boys, aren’t you?


        October 25, 2013 at 8:39 pm

        • Clever answer.


          October 25, 2013 at 9:40 pm

    • I didn’t write that. It must have been someone from the States.


      October 25, 2013 at 4:53 pm

  7. Well, I met some Australian chaps at Whistler during the Olympics and I have to say they were the nicest chaps. So yeah, I don’t believe they are red necks or what we refer to as room temperature IOs usually.


    October 25, 2013 at 8:42 pm

  8. There are a lot of country people down under, but somehow still mange not to be room temperature IQs….


    October 25, 2013 at 8:48 pm

  9. Surfers Paradise. You?


    October 25, 2013 at 9:41 pm

  10. Cool, yeah the Aussies were working as Mountain Safety on Whistler-Blackomb. I’m mostly in South Ontario, Canada, and partly in Lanikai, Hawaii (it could also be called surfers paradise, though the North Shore is where the competition take place).


    October 26, 2013 at 11:26 am

    • Just went to the site, then followed the link to twitter. Save as a fav.
      It looks awesome.


      October 26, 2013 at 3:39 pm

  11. Bad choice. Russian women are the most stunning women on this planet. There are no ugly Russian women, you know? I mean, Russian women are tall and in excellent shape. What else do you need from a girl? Hope it helps.


    November 22, 2013 at 4:39 pm

    • Pass on that.


      November 23, 2013 at 12:32 am

      • But!! ….
        Beauty of Russian woman is not everything! I I’ve meet with many of Russian woman & Europeans after all I can say that English woman is lovely, German woman is perfect, Swedish is beautiful & at General European woman is 100 % great behavior than Russians European or American is same way street!but you would afraid to let your children grow with a Russian woman she has no good experience on that not all Russian for sure but the most number of them! they’re really beautiful but incomplete in front of the Swedish beauty or Perfect Germany or wild Irish cats, Americans etc…Educations attitude & cultures is very important! at Our Quran & Profit Mohamed’s advises of how you chose before getting married is Women may be married for four things: for her wealth and lineage and her beauty and her religion!! end of conclusion I’ve meet the most beautiful Russian ever (Model) but !! she was the most worst behavior I ever seen truly! & repeated not all!! but nothing better than Europeans specially Germany!!


        December 18, 2013 at 1:55 am

    • Yes, I agree, Russian and Ukrainian girls are very beautiful. But unfortunately, the majority of them do not look after themselves with age. They dedicate thgemseves to their familes , children. It is sad that a lot of unattractive women from abroad try so hard to look like our women….Hope for the best for Ukrainian and Russian women…..The best looking kids are from our part of the world!


      March 19, 2014 at 1:14 pm

  12. Hello, I’m Eliana Brito, from Venezuela. I’m going to talk about venezuelans: According to 2013 Pew Hispanic report venezuelans have the best academic record of the hispanic community AND BETTER THAN THE AVERAGE AMERICAN ACADEMIC RECORD. (I could end the comment here…) For example, 68% of university students are women (in Venezuela). I am a professional, in july I will have a master degree, I am a researcher, I do not want to be “exotic meat” and then goodbye just because of my body or skin color. Many Latinas (venezuelan) give you three kicks on your white and tasteless ass with our academic and professional level. Finally… Generalization and stupidity is the same.With LOVE: Eliana.

    Eliana Brito

    January 31, 2014 at 4:35 pm

  13. i.m sorry for all these poor people. I mean women with no soul it,s nothing new,they just don,t know..
    but please don,t despair.when i say they don,t know, I mean they really don,t and what bugs them.
    their are real people on this planet so have faith and don,t be sucked in …

    Allan Dixon

    March 4, 2014 at 4:50 pm

  14. I live in Chile and think that Chilean women are not attractive at all. There are two type of them: kwikas (so called up class) who with all their money look like old dried out skinny ladies with little fake blondish hair (they like it blond as a sign of wealth) . they have maids and not capable to make thier beds without ayuda de la nana and so called lower class- they are fat, dark and ugly all together. Ther is a class of women called lansadoras- they deram of catching a gringo (mining young fellows) by getting pregnant…..Whatch out for them. You can get in deep sh…t. I would not my son to marry a Chilena.


    March 19, 2014 at 1:00 pm

    • It happen to me, Im from the US, I went to Chile 23 years ago and met a lansadora, she was pregnant within a week and I decided to stay with her and raise my daughter. She cheated on my, lazy and distant all the time. I divorce her after child turn 18, and I finally see the light now, what a relief.


      May 24, 2014 at 2:50 pm

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    June 25, 2014 at 3:32 pm

  16. Excuse me please, but how come Russian women have opposite stories about foreign men who treated them “not nicely” so these women had to, of course, leave these indecent men? And these men (who in real life lie, disrespect, violate physically or psychologically, abuse trust and love) go to the web to tell the stories how nasty these women are and how wonderful and just really saint they are…MY GOD! These virtual men will tell you anything to justify themselves! Guys, excuse me, but there are bad women (and men) in every culture, also as good women (men) in every culture.
    About these “stories” from the internet…you CANNOT take it seriously till you hear what BOTH sides tell. Agree? So please concentrate on the right partner for you personally, regardless the nationality, country, age, etc. Have your own head on the shoulders! Ok?


    June 27, 2014 at 10:01 pm

  17. Just read the book “Why not marry a Russian woman?” and it will all become clear.


    July 4, 2014 at 6:45 am

  18. i would never marry an american woman no matter what her background is for she’s a gold digger like women of eastern europe and they’re all bed hoppers. i’m married to a middle eastern woman who loves me and likewise and there’s much respect, going on 15 yrs., hope to make 50 some day.

    thomas moloian

    August 16, 2014 at 2:34 pm

    • You wrong man, in contrast to the Russian women, Ukrainian have kept such a thing as fidelity, honor, and devotion. Of course there are always exceptions to the rule, but “he who seeks finds”, just as I did.

      Paul Jusk

      August 23, 2014 at 4:45 am

  19. American “culture” is ruining everyone, not just women. But I agree with those who say that women nowadays, especially here in US, are becoming spoiled, materialistic…and in some states, like Florida especially Miami is much worst; have u noticed amongst the south americans, the brazilians?? it’s like miami has become a brazilian colony like los angeles wtf..,, and those women yep, are gorgeous, but damn filthy and so ignorant, spoiled and arrogant…ok, they’re beautiful women even majority is half plastic cause in brazil plastic surgery is one of the most effordable things. Them ppl are very materialistic, very very much. I went out with this girl form brazil, she was gorgeous but no manners, no education, no culture….they fool you with their look, cause they’re so free and all happy smiling but when i start dating them u realize how materialistic they are. They are arrogant and ignorant and their firends even more..cause u get to go out with all their ppl and girlfriends and when they’re together they get wild and so stupid…damn I remember how embarassed I felt. Plus they’re promiscuous and I didn’t feel like trusting. We guys get fooled so easily by appearances….I like beautiful women but no way dating these filthy ones especially if you plan a serious relationship and maybe a family. Who the hell marries a woman who looks like a soft core actress and has no manners and education/culture? I met many of those brazilians ppl and I am sorry, I know not everyone is that way, but majority they are clueless and try to use you. The good onsstay in Brazil. I got disappointed. I may say peruvian, chilean and argentinian are good people, better than brazilians…I had business and friends relationships with these south american and they are better than brazilians, brazilians have no values, they’re not professional at all. I travelled a lot and I must say that european ppl are definitely the best, I have no favorite ones cause they’re mostly all educated, with manners, professional and friendly in their ways that I appreciated all of them, and I have travelled to almost all cities and countries in Europe. Some might seem little bit “colder” but just first impression….I found Italian women very attractive and graceful….yep, Italian, danish and spanish women are the best…they’re elegant, with manners, culture, nice and family oriented…as far I could see and also heard from friends who moved there. American women have great qualities too, maybe they’re not the most beautiful ones but definitely better than brazilians/latinas/carribeans. These are skunk.


    November 10, 2014 at 5:56 am

  20. I dont know what the hell you all are smokin, but its probably strong stuff. You think these women you are bashing is terrible, but look at you, hypocritcal assholes! Stuck with the mentality of a damn animal! I pity you fools. Dont generalize women as a damn whole! Not all latinas are like what you say, and there are a good chunk out there that are the entire opposite of what you say, same with american women. You dipshits are what give all the good respectful men out there a bad name, and making women think men are like you fools, and such. Its okay if you say like you hate the certain latinas with that materialistic behavior, but dont think that all of them act like that, because they dont, same for men that dont have the prehistoric mindset like you assholes do. Think women belong in the kitchen as well? Well, you assholes belong at work. Equality for all!


    May 17, 2015 at 10:37 am

  21. A bit funny:) Do you really think nationality matters? I`m married to a charming and beautiful russian woman I met on . Nothing matters but our love! I believe that love doesn`t know any borders (race, nationality, age…). We are happy together and and that`s it!


    July 21, 2015 at 1:16 am

  22. to all american men, don’t marry women of eastern europe that includes russia and ukraine, their equal to or worse than american women:


    Thomas Moloian

    November 19, 2015 at 10:21 am

  23. Why is it men think they are entitled to hot women that are so subservient yet so not want to meet the standards of emotionally adopting a woman with respect? They want woman to stay home and do housework but want them to bring in money too. You men are sick and confused. If anyone is entitled it’s you commenting here categorizing all women of certain nationalities or races. Since when do all men treat all women with respect, they don’t. Most of you probably can’t romance a woman in a way that makes them feel as if you deserve the respect you so desire.


    December 10, 2015 at 12:00 am

  24. russian women the most beautiful and smart in the world, all other women just very gelous about us.


    January 16, 2016 at 11:16 am

  25. Different Types of Russian Brides

    So you are on a mission to find the love of your life or to start a romantic relationship with a beautiful Russian lady. For this, you have to attract a lady by your virtues and merits.

    Unfortunately, the task is complicated by the fact that Russian (Ukrainian, Belarusian) ladies are not the same.

    They all differ from one another; each of them has a different idea of her prince and different expectations from a man.

    Here I will try to describe the basic types of Russian brides you may encounter, how they are different, and what they expect from men.

    1. Age categories.

    Almost all Russian women that you will encounter on international dating sites fall into 3 age categories:

    – girls from 20 to 30 years old,

    – ladies from 30 to 40 years old,

    – ladies from 40 to 55 years old.

    Every age group differs greatly from the others in life experience, expectations from men, and (obviously) in looks.

    Girls from 20 to 30 years old are the most popular category among men. They are very picky; they are really demanding to a man’s appearance, to his social and financial status. They are whimsical and dreamy. They are the Putin’s generation, the generation of the ‘fat’ years from 2000 to 2014. They grew up in times when the country was flooded with oil money, when Russian society was captivated by the spirit of national pride and the idea of resurrecting the empire.

    The last two years of the powerful economic crisis didn’t change the life perception of these young ladies, and the majority of them don’t want to leave for a foreign country.

    This age group is starry-eyed and very demanding towards men. These ladies often have a degree of average quality as well as some working experience. Many of them already have a small child from their first unsuccessful marriage.

    If I tried to sum up the most popular demands these girls present to a potential groom, it might look something like this:

    Number one – good looks

    Number two – good attitude (the ability to treat a lady right and to love her)

    Number three – an expensive car and a house (external signs of success)

    Number four – the man’s character and his personality traits.

    Ladies from 30 to 40 years old – this is the category, in which most women have already been married or at least have the experience of domestic partnership with a man. 60-70 % of this category have a child or two.

    Many of them don’t receive alimony from the child’s father. They grew up in the tough 1990s Russia (Ukraine, Belarus) – the years defined by poverty and criminal outrage, the collapse of the country’s economy, the emerging entrepreneurs and the new oligarchs.

    The list of the requirements these ladies present to the potential groom would look like this:

    Number one – responsibility and reliability

    Number two – social status and wealth (money)

    Number three – the man’s character and his personality traits

    Number four – attitude to her child (if there is one) or the ability to treat a woman right and to love her.

    Ladies from 40 to 50 years old – the category who spent their formative years in the 1980s in the former Soviet Union. They received Soviet quality education. There were no rich people in the Soviet Union back then. The life was humble and the income relatively equal for everyone. Today, messed-up lifestyle and failed healthcare system are the reasons for high mortality rate among Russian men over the age of 40. Therefore, the sex ratio in Russia is shifted in favor of women – which turns out to be favorable to men from other countries! Ladies of this age category are not as spoiled as the younger ones, they are modest in demands and hardworking as they have been working for their whole life.

    Their list of demands to the potential groom would look like this:

    Number one – warmth, sincerity and mutual interest

    Number two – the man’s character and his personality traits

    Number three – the ability to treat a woman right and to love her

    Number four – social status and wealth (money)

    2. States and ethnicities.

    For most foreigners, all the former Soviet Union residents were ‘Russian’. The same perception lives on to this day, as many foreigners don’t understand that there is a significant difference between Russia, Belarus and Ukraine.

    Attention: these are different countries. They differ in the way and quality of life, presence of democratic institutions and ethnic make-up. In each of these countries there are people from all ethnicities represented in the former Soviet Union. Add to this a sense of patriotism and national pride, a sense of belonging to this particular country, its unique history and culture.

    It would be a funny and a stupid thing to say to a Ukrainian girl: “you, Russians”. On the one hand, that would demonstrate your ignorance, on the other – you may insult her, for she probably does consider herself Ukrainian.

    The former Soviet republics were home to more than 100 ethnicities; these people and their descendants are now living in Russia, Ukraine and Belarus. There is a high chance you meet a Tatar, a Jewish, a Moldavian, a Chuvash or an Azerbaijani lady.

    They all have different religion, culture, language and traditions.

    Be sure to clarify which nation your future bride belongs to, and what her specific expectations are.

    3. Places of residence.

    In Russia, Ukraine and Belarus there is a significant gap in living standards between towns and cities of different size.

    I will try to describe the way women in the cities of different sizes live and what they expect from men.

    The population of cities such as Moscow, Kiev or Minsk – the capitals of Russia, Ukraine and Belarus, respectively – estimates several millions. These cities are the most expensive cities to live in with the highest salaries. There are developed jobs markets, well-educated people and many business and career opportunities.

    Heavy traffic, high cost of real estate and high prices for everything are compensated by lots of opportunities. Big cities are inhabited by many successful men, and ladies from these cities are very demanding to the social and financial status of a potential groom.

    A significant part of women living in capitals weren’t born here. They came here from small towns to build a career. They rent small apartments or even rooms on the outskirts of the city and dream to find their prince. They have a strong character, are decisive and independent, they know exactly what they want from a man. It won’t be easy for you with such a girl – this strong personality is looking for even stronger potential husband.

    These ladies earn good salaries on a national scale, their average monthly salary in the midst of an economic crisis being about 500 – 1000 $.

    The cultural life in the capitals is rich, there are many theaters, malls and exhibitions, the night life brimming with events. Brides from these cities would expect from their man the kind of life they have been used to living in a capital.

    In cities with population over 1 million the cost of living is lower than in the capitals, but the salaries are lower as well.

    An average monthly salary for a working lady in such a city is 350 – 700 $. Such cities can boast of many available jobs in the market, as in capitals. There are many educated people and many opportunities for a career or a business.

    The demands to men get lower; the expectations from potential groom are more realistic. Women are concentrated less on their careers and more on their family lives.

    There is one more important thing about the population of large cities that you should keep in mind: there are many lonely people. People there are withdrawn and less sociable.

    As in the capital, there is intense night life here; there are many malls and recreation spots. So you will have to provide your bride the kind of entertainment she is accustomed to.

    Cities with population from 300 000 to 1 000 000 have lover costs of living than cities with population of over a million, but finding a good job here is not easy. The quality and the level of education is lower; here, people are simpler and more open-hearted.

    The pace of life is slower, ladies from such places are primarily family-oriented. Everybody who was eager to leave the town has already done so.

    A working woman’s average monthly salary in such a city is about 250 – 400 $. She doesn’t demand much from a man. Be nice, reliable and generous. If you, dear reader, are looking for a perfect mix of warmth and a decent cultural level – you are looking in the right place.

    Towns with population from 50 000 to 300 000 are in the heart of the country. Here you’ll find simpler people, simpler relationships, simpler education, culture and entertainment. Ladies from such places are very housewifely, calm and slow. The rhythm of life is slow, nobody rushes anywhere. Finding a good job is quite a problem. The cost of living is low – and so are the salaries.

    An average monthly salary for a working lady in such a city is 200 – 300 $.

    If you, dear reader, are looking for an unpretentious and thrifty wife – this is the place for you. Be open and sincere interacting with people here.

    In townships and towns with population of less than 50 000 life has been virtually frozen. The living is rather poor here. Most jobs pay meager salaries, and many people live on unofficial income.

    An average monthly salary of a working lady in such a city is 100 – 200 $.

    It is rather boring there with no real recreation. Many men have serious drinking problems; even some women abuse alcohol. In such small towns there is the phenomenon of ‘dacha’ – a small summer house with a piece of land. Russian people, especially in small towns, are very fond of farming. Get ready to take part in agricultural activities, too, with your future relatives.

    A lady from such a town is quite simple, shy and slow in decisions. But she is mostly a good housewife and has not many demands to her husband.

    If it is ok for you, dear reader, to have a wife with rural mentality – you have found the right person.

    4. Social status and career

    Education and career notably changes one’s way of thinking. I will try to describe the difference between various types of Russian (Ukrainian, Belarusian) brides in terms of their education and career.

    A business lady – generally, these are very energetic and decisive women with good education and successful career. They usually work in top management of companies and departments. They earn good salaries (depending on the place of living) and have a strong will. They expect from potential groom that he would exceed them in will power, decisiveness and career achievements.

    Beware dear reader, a temporary change in status for this woman does not change her essence. Wherever she is right now, she immediately starts fighting in order to get to the top. If you are much weaker than her in character or in capabilities – get ready for the lack of respect, for cheating and even divorce.

    Her typical demands to a potential partner are – decisiveness, good career prospects and professional success, strong character, responsible behavior, high social and financial status.

    Clerk, office worker (a white collar) – is the most probable visitor of internet dating sites.

    She has average expectations from a potential partner and a moderate education level. As any woman, she dreams of a prince for a groom.

    Typical demands to a potential partner: reliability, responsibility, social status and good financial shape.

    Factory worker, shop assistant (a blue collar) – is the least probable visitor of internet dating sites. This lady by nature doesn’t like taking risks and prefer stability. Only a bad financial situation and a strong sense of loneliness can set her on such an ambiguous adventure as meeting a foreigner and emigration.

    Typical demands to a potential partner – reliability, responsibility, warmth, no bad habits (alcoholism, drug addiction, gambling) or criminal past.

    5. Career versus family.

    It is very important for a man to understand the life goals of his future wife early on. Is she career or family focused?

    It is almost impossible to change a grown up person. It is much easier to find the one that fits you from the beginning. That is why you need to understand the type your potential bride belongs to.

    You can divide all Russian brides into two main groups: those who prioritize home and family over interesting work; and those who can’t imagine their life without an exciting job.

    It would be easier for you to deal with a family-focused bride – since day one, she is ready to follow her husband anywhere provided the family life is ok.

    A career-focused bride will always suffer from the lack of interesting work and this is going to affect your relationships.

    6. Presence or absence of children.

    Having a child greatly affects the life perception and the life goals of a woman.

    Thus, brides who already have children have different expectations from a groom than brides without children.

    Still, everything mentioned in the previous five paragraphs applies to ladies with children. However, they have additional expectations from their prospective mate – he must form the right connection with the child.

    Divorced Russian (Belarusian, Ukrainian) women mostly raise their children alone with minimum help or without any help at all from the child’s father.

    The bond between a mother and a child is strong. You will have to fall in with an existing system of relationships. A woman will judge you according to how you succeed in building a proper connection with her child.

    This will not be an easy process.

    Michael Shmilovich

    Michael Shmilovich

    April 20, 2016 at 2:02 am

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