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Why Modern, Western Marriage Has Become A Bad Business Decision For Men

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Why Modern, Western Marriage Has Become A Bad Business Decision For Men

This writing seeks to educate men about the realities of what they may be getting into when they marry a Western Woman. An informed decision is less likely to be one that may be regretted later in the marriage. The intent is not to dissuade men from marrying, but to encourage them to communicate frankly their concerns and expectations regarding marriage with their potential spouses. The secondary aim of this essay is to enlighten women to a few of the reasons why increasingly larger numbers of successful, eligible, unmarried men, who would otherwise prefer monogamous long-term relationships, are turning their backs on marriage.

Society typically paints a negative stereotype of men who hesitate, delay, or elect not to marry.

They are labeled as either:

A) Womanisers who are unable to participate in a long term relationship, or
B) Selfish, childish or irresponsible men who can not take care of themselves or another person.

No other explanation is ever explored.

The cost of proclaiming your undying love

In University, in professional sports, in politics, in the workplace; women have the same educational and professional career opportunities as men. Contrary to commonly believed feminist propaganda, women do indeed get paid the same salary as men, given that they are willing to work the same types of jobs as men, and work as many hours as the men do. Despite this reality, many women come into marriage with very few assets, and often are saddled with substantial quantities of debt. In general, men are the ones who save and invest. Don’t believe me? Count the number of women of marrying age that you know who subscribe to financial services magazines or newspapers. A significant number of 20-something and 30-something women spend all of their disposable income on luxury rental apartments, upscale restaurants, frequent exotic vacations, leased cars, spa treatments, and excessive amounts of clothing, purses, shoes and accessories. Yet ironically, in the media, men are the ones who are portrayed as reckless, irresponsible spendthrifts.

When marriage enters the picture, double standards and financial imbalances leave responsible men to pick up the slack and fix the mess she may have made of her finances. Men are forced to spend their hard-earned savings, or take out an usurious loan, on a diamond ring. Women justify this relatively recent, mid-20th Century ritual, which was spawned by a brilliant 1940’s mass-brainwashing campaign launched by DeBeers, by insisting that a man wants to buy her a diamond and that it makes him proud to be able to proclaim his love and affection towards her in this fashion. Granted there are some men who may be inclined to declare their commitment to a life-long partner in this way, but there are plenty of men whom seek a lifelong partnership and commitment who have no interest in buying diamonds. What choice do these men have? None! To many young men, the ring, catered wedding, and honeymoon in an exotic locale at a five-star hotel is an unwelcome land mine on their journey towards adult financial stability and independence. To add insult to injury, he is now locked into a lifetime of insurance payments for this grossly overpriced jewelry. Contrary to popularly held belief diamonds are not rare at all, but instead are common and inexpensive. Their high price is due to their supply having been artificially manipulated. Some men are more concerned with realising their dream of owning a home and becoming financially stable enough to begin a family and responsibly provide for their welfare. Men worry about these matters, because, ultimately, it becomes their sole responsibility.

The purchase of the diamond ring is a predictor of things to come. Immediately after buying it, the man may be rewarded with bridal demands to finance all or part of a lavish wedding, depending upon the size of his bank account and the ambitions of his fiancée. The average costs of today’s Western Weddings frequently exceed that of a house down payment or, in certain parts of the world, the entire cost of the house itself. If a man enters a marriage having saved up a down payment for his dream home, it can suddenly be snatched right out from underneath him. Many men may object to spending such a large sum of money on what is basically a very expensive one-day, four-hour party. He also will be spending a year of his life planning it, when he could use the same time to further his career or education. However, what a man wants is really not of any concern anymore at this point in the proceedings. His wants, desires, hopes and dreams are ignored almost in their entirety. Her opinions regarding the wedding are frequently non-negotiable. A wedding is no longer an event that is equally for the bride and groom. As many of today’s Bridezilla’s will gleefully remind you, “Today is MY day!”. This gives her licence to become selfish, irresponsible, demanding and childlike. A man who balks at spending his entire life savings, or shouldering a five-figure debt load, for the ring, catered wedding and honeymoon in an exotic locale at a five-star hotel, can and will be labeled as a selfish cheapskate or not a “Real Man”. If a woman leaves such a man for him suggesting that they try to keep their costs under control, she would have the full support of everyone around her as she dumped him.

“She can do better”, “Clearly, he doesn’t love her”, “He doesn’t deserve her”, and similar sentiments will be muttered in quiet circles just out of his earshot. This is a sign of her good self-esteem and healthy self-image, and a sign that she won’t settle for anything less. She is the poster girl for the Modern, Independent Woman.

Imagine if a man demanded equal treatment and asked that she buy him a new bass boat, and a two-week bear hunt in Siberia as a condition of marriage. This would be viewed as absurd, yet women do it every day. Modern Western Marriage is supposedly an equal partnership, isn’t it?

The injustices go from bad to worse when children enter the picture. If he can afford to carry the entire familial financial burden, the woman may now elect to stop working entirely. She will often make this decision regardless of how he may feel about it. The day she stops working is the day that all of her past financial baggage unequivocally gets tossed onto his shoulders. If the woman has racked up substantial credit card debts, these are now his payments to make; if the woman has not bothered to pay off her student loans, these become his responsibility; if she owes an enormous sum on her luxury car note, it is up to him to pay it off. Irony of ironies is that he is now paying for her degree and she isn’t even working anymore! Can he object? Can he say: “No Honey, you made your mess, and it should not be my job to clean it up. You knew that you wanted kids even before you met me, and you should have planned ahead.” No, he cannot. The payments can’t be deferred until she is once again able to continue repaying them herself, not if he wants to retain a clean credit rating to get a loan for their dream home. If he even suggested that she return to work to pay off some of her own debt load, he opens himself to criticisms of being an unsupportive husband and bad father who is endangering the welfare of his children. Now the noose tightens and the responsible husband compensates for the mother’s freewheeling and irresponsible past, and begins slowly to pay off her old debts. In the most twisted turn of events yet, the debt he is paying off may often be on credit cards used to finance Vacations, Hotel Rooms and Christmas gifts shared with previous husbands, boyfriends, fiancés and lovers. Caveat Emptor! This is the reward for today’s man who works hard, makes sacrifices, plans ahead, and invests wisely. By getting married to the typical Modern, Western Woman, the man is certainly susceptible to being railroaded into this situation, because it is completely acceptable within today’s gender roles and societal norms.

Marriage can mean career slavery

Anyone who says, “Slavery is dead” clearly has not contemplated the predicament of the average Western Husband, where a good paycheck can mean career slavery. Merriam-Webster’s English Dictionary defines slavery as “…(T)he state of a person who is a chattel (an item of tangible movable or immovable property) of another person.” If the husband earns enough to support both of them, he would be hard pressed to make an argument to preserve equality and have her continue working as he does. If the wife decides to stop working, the man who has been left holding the financial bag finds his options very limited. He may find himself working in a career that he hates, for abusive and exploitative management, excessively long hours, in a position that is physically dangerous or demanding, in an organisation that has no growth potential, far away from home. At this point, considering the corner he’s been painted into, he is often powerless to affect any positive, meaningful change in his own life. He may have been harbouring delusions that once his wife was able to return to work, he would be able to gain some flexibility to rectify some of the shortcomings in his own career. Perhaps changing careers or accepting a lower salary at a different firm in exchange for better hours, a shorter commute, or more fulfilling work. Nevertheless, the distinct reality is that he will continue to shoulder the financial responsibilities of his family alone. His reward for working hard and getting ahead is to become trapped into his career, and become a specialised beast of burden to an emotionally and financially dependent family. Does it really pay to work hard anymore and apply oneself to his full potential?

If she stops working, she may never work again.

There are many debates about the merits of a stay-at-home mother vs. a working mother. My goal here is to simply educate the prospective husband on frequently unseen risks he is taking on when he agrees to accept 100% of the financial burden to allow his wife to stay at home. An informed decision is less likely to be one that may be regretted later in the marriage.

Every parent will agree that staying home with children is backbreaking and often mind-numbing labour. Many new fathers may concede that it is much easier to go to work than to stay at home with several children. However, the greatest imbalance in efforts and contributions to a marriage can manifest once all of the children are of school age. The house is now empty from 8am-3pm. The wife has 7 hours to herself while the kids are at school and the husband is at work. After a few years of hard work at home, many wives may feel entitled to “kick back” and take it easy. The good, supportive husband, however, has worked those same years, has done his 50/50 of the housework, and is still working just as hard to support the family once the kids are in school. His workload has not diminished, and it may have even increased as her expectations rise. He is rarely afforded the same option to scale back his daytime efforts.

What motivation does the modern wife have to return to work? Very little. For several years now, the man’s salary has been enough to live on. Otherwise, she would have been working to make ends meet. Unless tight finances dictate that she must return to work, the husband really has little say in this matter. The wife can hide behind many different excuses in order not to work, despite having little to do from 8am-3pm. Among the commonest are:

“I’m busy with the housework”
It is easy to exaggerate the labours of daily housework. Yet how long does it take to throw clothes or dishes into the washer, and remove them later? Vacuuming can be done in 1 hour a week. Grocery shopping is another hour per week. A decent meal can be prepared in under an hour. Does all of this add up to 7 hours a day? The lie that housework is hard, time-consuming drudgery is no longer as persuasive as it may have been in the past, because in an age of later marriage, many men are already experienced in cooking, cleaning, and general housekeeping and know that it doesn’t take that much effort or time. Humourously, not every stay-at-home-wife even performs all of these duties.

“I can’t find a job”
She has been out of work too long, and therefore is unable to find a job. This may be true, but many men do not consider this risk when they agree to support her while she “temporarily” stops working. Hopefully now they will, and can make a more informed decision. Many wives may use this as a convenient scapegoat to stop looking for any job at all. The next section describes how this can be used against him in the event of divorce.

“It doesn’t pay for me to work”
In the short run, the expenses of returning to work such as gas, lunch, clothes and day care may not make it worthwhile for her to return to the workforce. This may be true, but does that justify her playing tennis, drinking lattes and ‘catching up with her friends’ while her husband toils away? Many couples may be too shortsighted to thoroughly and comprehensively think through this issue. Initially, the cost to benefits ratio may not be ideal, but her returning to work will improve her job skills and network of contacts and over time the return on investment will improve. More so than strolling through the local mall every afternoon and window-shopping for new window treatments. Over time, as her career gets back on track, and she becomes qualified for better jobs, her salary should also improve.

It should be duly noted that some working wives view their salary as “personal spending money”, and still expect the man to pay all or most of the bills. Western Women are often heard to claim that, “What’s mine is mine, and what’s his is ours.”

Even more unfair double standards that favour wives

Cheating
If a married man cheats, he’s the scum of the earth. He is a selfish jerk that has jeopardised the family unit, done his ‘thinking with his little head’, and disrespected his wife and children. However, when the woman cheats, she’s portrayed as the victim of an insensitive and inattentive husband. “Poor thing, he ignores her. It is for her empowerment, to boost her ego. She deserves it after bearing and rearing his children.” It’s good for her self-esteem. Worse, her cheating is portrayed as the man’s fault. If he works long hours to provide for her and the children, he works too much. If he is tired at the end of the day from 13 hours of manual labour, then he doesn’t compliment her as much as she wants. Into this vacuum of conflicting expectations steps the first man who “makes me feel like a Real Woman again…”. You read that correctly; the man who is scrambling to pay the mortgage and car payments and is working double shifts to pay for the consumer goods she demanded to have is now considered a negligent and emotionally abusive husband. The man who may be working two jobs to allow her to be home with her kids is now considered a candidate for Domestic Violence.

When a woman cheats, the first thing people ask is what he did, or more often, didn’t do, to drive her into the arms of another man.

When a man cheats, no one ever asks the same question.

When a woman cheats, the reaction will be; “Oh, poor thing, I guess her husband couldn’t get the job done in the bedroom”.

When a man cheats, no one ever stops to think; “Oh poor fellow, his wife was horrible in bed.”

Let’s not forget what happens if a man were to leave his wife for a younger woman. This will become fodder at the coffee shop for months. It is automatically assumed that he is a shallow sex maniac whose only motivation was to be with a younger woman. The possibility that his wife was of a generation of women who were taught to hate men and that younger women do not, that she was lazy, or a reckless spendthrift, or verbally or physically abusive, or grossly overweight, or an incompetent mother, are rarely considered and are often totally ignored. The myth is that the only reason a man leaves his wife is to be with a younger, more attractive woman. Never mind if she is a better match for him and a more supportive, nurturing mate.

Pre-Nups
If a man insists on a Pre-Nup, he is selfish and unromantic. However, when is the last time a woman who demanded a Pre-Nup was called “unromantic”? On the contrary, if a woman requests a Pre-Nup, she is being fiscally responsible, sensible and looking out for herself. (Note: If your fiancée refuses to sign a Pre-Nup, she has just shown her hand. Best to leave now.) Why is it that a woman can refuse a Pre-Nup, and it is accepted by society? In reality, the man should be outraged that she is after a legal contract, and not love.

What is astounding is the hypocrisy of the usual reaction towards Pre-Nups. Women can conveniently assert that a man is unromantic if he suggests a Pre-Nup. After all, how can a man pollute true love with the signing of legal paperwork! However, what is a marriage licence? Nothing more than a legal contract entered into between the man, woman and local and state government authorities. A woman does not seem to balk at signing this legal paperwork, which entitles her to at least half the assets a man has accumulated as well as half of everything he earns in the future, and obligates him to support her in perpetuity in the event of a breakup. Why aren’t men allowed to note how unromantic this contract is? The distraction of bridal magazines, place setting selection, floral arrangements, wedding dresses, receptions, wedding showers, and honeymoons have clouded the legal reality of what men are getting themselves into. Marriage is as much an unromantic legal contract as a prenuptial agreement is.

Initially, Pre-Nups were devised as a way to protect women. Nuptial agreements were popularised in the 19th century, mostly to protect heiresses from marrying men who were “out for their money”. Until the Married Women’s Property Act of 1848, under English Common Law, a woman’s property, upon marriage, was usually transferred to her husband.

“Stupid, Irresponsible” Men
Men are severely abused in our media, quite frankly. Just watch any TV commercial or sitcom and see how they portray men as idiots, dolts, or well intentioned, if bumbling, buffoons. If women were portrayed in commercials in the same fashion, “Women’s Organisations” would have a fit. If it weren’t for their wives in these shows and ads the men would be lost “animals”, unable to feed themselves or perform even the simplest of tasks. Other commercials make it appear that men act without thinking, only responding in an impulsive and irrational manner, and that the wife is the brains of the family. Even many women will agree that women often are the ones who act upon emotions and make judgments solely based up on emotional attachments and not logic or reason. Almost every “couples budgeting” article will portray the woman as the one who has to rein in the man’s childish spending, when in truth it is usually the woman who cannot control her expenditures.

Job Loss
If a husband loses his job and is having trouble finding work, the wife is completely and totally justified in threatening to leave him. However, can you imagine the reaction if a husband threatened to leave a wife who was in the exact same position? He would be vilified! If a man loses his job, the woman is justified in resenting the fact that the financial burden lies on her. He is no longer a ‘good provider’. When is a man allowed to resent this very same predicament? If a man is laid off and cares for the household and kids while the wife is working, he may be accused of not pulling his weight! Yet this is exactly the same situation that women demand more recognition for with each passing year! No matter what role the man plays, he loses!

Traditional Roles
It is perfectly acceptable for a woman to demand that a man make a certain salary, drive a certain car, live in a certain part of the city, have a certain job, have the ‘right’ manners, talk a certain way, walk a certain way, behave a certain way, have a degree from the ‘right’ University and dress in a stylish fashion, to be deemed “marriage material” and be able to provide her with the stability she feels she deserves. If a man demands his wife do the cooking and cleaning, he can now be labeled old fashioned and sexist. If he asks her to carry her weight financially, just as he does, he may be criticised as an inadequate provider. If a man insists that his wife honor the conjugal requirements of the marriage contract, he can and will be accused of sexual abuse, sexual assault or rape.

To add insult to injury, some women have gotten so pampered that they not only quit their jobs the day they find out they are pregnant, but they then go out and hire as many nannies, cooks, gardeners and pool boys as their husband can afford. Many Western Wives stay at home and hire someone else to rear the kids and clean up, while they drink lattes and go shopping all day with other pampered “stay-at-home” mothers. Does it pay to work hard and get ahead anymore, if this is how your hard-earned money is squandered?

The concept of the pampered wife is a relatively new one. Most of Western Civilisation was primarily an agricultural economy even up until the 1920’s and 1930’s. Western Wives contributed to the well being of the household by helping on the farm. A man needed a wife as an equal partner. It was not until the 1950’s that the first generation of Western Wives, first in The States and later in Europe, Australia and New Zealand, began to emerge as dead weight. Perhaps this coincides with the spiking of the divorce rate in The States, and later Europe and the other English Speaking Nations, and the rise of Feminism. Perhaps men have become tired of giving so much, while getting so little in exchange.

Divorce

43% of Western Marriages end in divorce, and 70% to 93% of these divorces are initiated by women.

All men should consult a legal professional before marrying, and understand the implications of divorce, because the chances are 1-in-3 that they will participate in one whether they like it, want it, inititate it or not.

Upon divorce, all assets accumulated during and prior to a marriage are subject to division. It has become, simply put. a licence to steal. Even if the woman has not worked in years, and has spent the intervening decade(s) shopping and lunching from 8am-3pm, she is entitled to half, or more, of everything the man worked for during the course of the marriage. Is this fair? How many people would ever agree to a job contract that stipulated that in the event of separation that one party would have to return 50% of the gross amount of everything in the pay packet? No one in his or her right mind would knowingly sign such an agreement. Yet Western Men unknowingly agree to the exact same insanity each time they sign their marriage contract!

“Assets accumulated prior to a marriage are exempt from a divorce”. In theory this is true, in practice it is not. If funds from an account are commingled or combined, it can become marital property. How do funds become commingled, or mixed? If even the smallest sum from a prior account is spent towards the marriage, all of that account will now be considered marital property. Buy your child a lollipop from your own account, and a good lawyer will take one-half of it for your ex-wife when you divorce. If a woman moves into a home the man owned prior to the marriage, it is not safe from divorce. If she so much as hangs up a sheet of wallpaper, puts up draperies, paints a wall, or installs a light fixture, the home is now classified as joint marital property, and is now subject to equal division. Worse actually, the man can be ejected from the home if she makes a false claim of domestic violence, physical abuse, verbal abuse or child abuse. Where is the equality and fairness?

Note: “Equal Division” is also somewhat of a misnomer. Often, she can get upwards of 70% – 90% of the assets, while the man gets the majority of the debts! She gets all of the benefits, he gets all of the responsibilities. This, of course, is just and right and is his reward for working so hard all of those years. He can afford it; she can’t because she was not working.

If you pamper your wife, it can be used against you

Imagine that in the spirit of generosity and kindness that you gave a beggar a hot meal. A generous act, indeed. Now imagine your reaction if that same beggar sues you in court. He is petitioning the judge to have you keep providing him with the food that you gave him willingly, freely, out of a big heart. The judge orders you to keep feeding the homeless man meals, indefinitely, forever, because he has become accustomed to eating those meals! This is categorically absurd, yet this happens to Western Men in divorce court every day. Instead of thanking you for paying her bills for all those years, what you get is the privilege of being legally forced to pay her bills forever!

After having children, many women demand to quit working and stay home. Before the kids came along, many of these same women may have been in careers they hated, working long hours, and enduring long commutes. It is the man’s generosity and dedication to his own career that enables her to walk away from her own career. During a marriage, a man with a stay-at-home wife might work long and grueling hours in order to support her. He will pay the mortgage, the property tax, grocery bill, phone bill, cable bill, Internet bill and electric bill. He also pays for her car, gas money, clothes, and vacations.

As one final slap in the face, the man may be punished for working hard enough to allow his wife to have the luxury of staying at home with the kids. As noted above, after the children are in school, the wife may enjoy a life of leisure and relaxation that is afforded to her by her man’s hard work. In the event of divorce, he will be legally obligated to support her for years or decades to come. Because she stopped working and led a life of leisure, the ex-husband is now responsible for supporting her, forever! History has a tendency of rewriting itself. Originally, a woman may have had a career that she may have hated, and was begging to leave. Western Women often “play” at work and career for a few years after University, and then when they near 30 or grow tired of the workplace they seek out a man to “take her away from all of this”, whatever “all of this” may be. In fact her desire to leave the world of work may have been her motivation to have kids in the first place. But now, in her eyes, and definitely her lawyers eyes, she “gave up” her career for her man and his kids. She is now “owed” all of her “lost income”. His gift of leisure and support to her has now become twisted and is viewed as her sacrifice! Another way in which the situation is turned against him is that he will be characterised as being threatened by her having her own career, and that he forced her to quit her “lucrative career” and stay home with the children. Her lawyer will now attempt to convince the judge that he wanted to “oppress” his wife and “keep her down”. Truthfully now, how many men do you personally know that are upset at having a wife that earns a good living? Many of these misleading stereotypes still run rampant in our society, and are routinely used to the woman’s advantage during a divorce. As a result of her not working, regardless of whether she was minding the home or not, she remains a financial liability.

Generous, caring men who spoil their wives should certainly think twice about how this generosity can later be used against them. The phrase used in divorce court is “She has become accustomed to a certain lifestyle”. A husband’s reward for spoiling his wife today is the legal obligation to spoil her indefinitely, forever. Buy her a luxury car today, and you may be obligated to buy her luxury cars after she leaves you for another man! Yet, imagine a husband that became accustomed to eating a home cooked dinner, or regular conjugal visits. Now imagine the courts obligate the ex-wife to continue cooking for him and sharing her bed with him and his new girlfriend each night, despite being divorced! Inconceivable, but it happens the other way around every day!

The ultimate insult, however, comes when the man loses half or more of his life’s assets even when she has decided to leave him. Yes, a wife can unilaterally decide to kick a man out of his own home, and have the courts force him to continue paying the bills, while she is sleeping with her new boyfriend in the very house the husband worked so long and hard to buy! She can, and often does, spend her alimony check on gifts for her new boyfriend or lover! How is it that the legal system supports a woman who feels entitled to this?

The risks are clear, yet what exactly are men getting out of marriage? Many times, the reasons men get married are unfounded.

Many of the traditional reasons why a man gets married are a myth.

“I won’t die alone”
Wrong. The simple fact is that one spouse WILL die alone. Visit the hospital and go to the terminally ill or cardiac departments. Few people have the time to sit with an ill relative all day and all night. Yes, you may get visitors, but they aren’t having the same thoughts as you are. You’re contemplating your mortality, while they’re wondering what food the hospital cafeteria offers. In the end, even with a loving and supportive family, most of us will leave this world alone, unless you both die simultaneously in an accident of some kind. Your spouse may die fifteen years before you, or you may be in the hospital for your last year. Ultimately, we all die alone. Married or not.

“I won’t grow old alone”
Not necessarily. A marriage can self-destruct at any time. Your partner may initiate divorce at age 20, 25, 30, 35, 40, 45, 50, 55, 60, 65 or 70. Many married people end up in the same position (alone) as if they had never married at all. Now they enter their twilight years broke, as a result of being stripped of half or more of their life’s assets, losing half their retirement and pension funds, and being assessed alimony payments. Experiencing financial devastation from one divorce often may preclude a man from ever marrying again. This is a common observation of many middle-aged Western Women. Q: “Where are all the men?”. A: “He is broke from the divorce settlement, alimony and child support payments.” Thus these women don’t find him marriable, and he grows old alone and poor.

Men are led to believe that not marrying implies only one destiny; that of a solitary monk in a cave, a shunned loner. However, life is not so black and white. Not marrying does not mean you cannot continue to date or have meaningful relationships throughout your life. There are plenty of single people in all age brackets. A bad marriage can be the loneliest of institutions, because most of your emotional outlet and companionship is concentrated into one person who gives back nothing in emotion, affection or support. Young men in their 20’s and 30’s should be more aware of the alternatives that exist in life. They should be aware that marriage is a choice, and is not the only path life has to offer. An informed decision is less likely to be one that is later regretted.

“I’ll get regular sex”
Not from Modern, Western Women. Access to regular sex is the oldest and the most frequently cited reason to marry. Many men now know that Modern, Western Women frequently stop having sex after just a short time of being married. There are plenty of “sexless” marriages. Talk to a few married couples that are honest about their relationship. One or both partners may stop wanting sex after kids, or the sex may be as infrequent as once a year or once every six months, or the wife may only have sex when she wants the husband to buy her something, take her somewhere, or remodel the house. Read the honest opinions of married men on the Internet. Most Western, Married Men will have more sex with their Western Wives in the first six months of their marriage than they will in the next 40 years. Lastly, it remains to be seen whether sex with one exclusive partner for forty years or more is even a natural act, or just a man-made convention. In many Western Nations, the wife is no longer required to have sex with her husband. She can deny him at any time, for any length of time. She can, if she wishes, deny him sex forever and there is nothing that he can do about it. In fact, if he insists that she honor her end of the marriage contract by being available for sexual relations, he can and will be accused of, charged with, and arrested for Domestic Violence, Sexual Assault or Rape.

Marriage is hardly a guarantee of regular sex, as many people are led to believe.

“I’ll have someone to cook and clean for me”
Not necessarily. While a Modern, Western Woman is perfectly justified in quitting her job in the name of staying home with the kids, she can also demand that the husband pay for a cook, a maid, and a nanny. This leaves the man to earn the money, and leaves him to pay for maintenance of household and children, while the wife gets to play at being a housekeeper. Today’s woman is empowered by not performing the traditional housewife duties, regardless of whether she is working or not. If a husband asks that his wife perform traditional household duties because she is not working, he will often be labeled sexist, abusive or controlling, even if he is doing his “traditional role” of paying all the bills, providing for his family, and performing the traditional manly duties of vehicle repairs, maintaining the lawn and house upkeep.

“I have to be married to have kids”
Not anymore. Her ovaries do not physically need a contract at the government center in order to be fertilised by your sperm. Cro-Magnon man had children long before lawyers invented marriage contracts. Often, you do not need to be married in order to share health benefits. You do not need to be married to designate your partner on a life insurance policy. You do not need to be married to own a dream home together. It is ironic that responsible parents who raise a healthy family, but never actually sign marriage paperwork, get less respect than divorced parents or married parents who are ineffective, inattentive or incompetent.

-Having a lifelong, faithful, committed relationship has nothing to do with being “married”.
-Owning a beautiful dream home together has nothing to do with being “married”.
-Rearing healthy, happy, and successful children has nothing to do with being “married”.
-Building a family and life together has nothing to do with being “married”.
-Growing old together has nothing to do with being “married”.

In fact, recent changes in cohabitation, partner and marriage law have proven that the only tangible consequence of marriage is having a formalised separation process that usually requires the talents of an attorney.

You do need to be married in order to throw an extravagant four-hour party, and share the same last name.

You do need to be married in order to involve the state and government in your romantic affairs.

You do need to be married in order give away half of everything you own.

Besides that, marriage does nothing more than introduce lawyers and social workers into your life. These are people that otherwise would have nothing to do with your life or your relationship.

Men need to stop and ask themselves:

“Why exactly am I getting married? What exactly does marriage mean to me in today’s world? What is the benefit to me to get married?”

It is no longer a lifelong commitment, because it can be reversed overnight on her unilateral whim.

Marriage was originally created as a way for families to merge land, property, political power and influence; perhaps people should return to viewing it as just that and nothing more. The rest of it is fake modern TV Fantasy and Tabloid Gossip and Hype polluting the minds of today’s impressionable youth, and a way to keep the multi-billion-per-year wedding industry chugging along. Perhaps the only criteria should be to ask oneself: “How excited am I for us to merge our finances and assets?” When all the fluff and hype are boiled away, that may be the only remaining reality. Spend a day in divorce court, and you’ll see exactly what is real and tangible and lasting about marriage. You’ll see women who signed the marriage contract under romantic pretenses who are now expert laymen attorneys who can cite case law. Bouquet throwing ex-brides now embroiled in warfare to get everything that is coming to them and more! The rest are myths, lies, bold unsubstantiated promises, and maybes. “For better or for worse…”

The Western Divorce rate is 43%. It is higher in some parts of the world such as California, Great Britain and Australia. In Japan the recent change in pension law may have many pensioners out on the street. In India new changes to dowry law have men being threatened by their wives. Consider the number of people who are in a bad marriage, but elect to stay; Men who don’t want to lose 50%, women who know they can’t support themselves alone. Next, think of how many more couples stay together just for the sake of the kids. Of these “forced marriages”, consider how many of these marriages involve infidelity, no sex, or sleeping in separate beds or separate rooms. I estimate the percentage of happy and monogamous marriages to be under 5%. Are these odds you would take in a business venture, investment or loan? Most of the risk-averse population would not. Yet they seek this exception to the rule everyday through marriage.

Written by dontmarry

November 21, 2008 at 4:44 pm

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  1. The male student was the rapist. If Mary Gowans showed the male student her landing strip, the male student should have learned to control himself. If he didn’t he is a rapist and fascist scum.

    Mary Gowans was acquitted of all charges for a good reason. The male student tried to rape her in her home and lured Mary into distributing explicit picture of herself.

    Mary Gowans was a victim of the male student. Get that into your fucking head you sexist pig!

    Rebecca

    April 8, 2015 at 12:48 pm

    • The female teacher was the rapist. Showing a male student her landing strip is sexual assault. She is the adult and she should know better. She should control herself. She didn’t and that makes her a rapist and feminist scum.

      She was acquitted of all charges because of the sexism of the legal system. If a male teacher engaged in this type of behavior with a female student, he would have been found guilty. What was the male student doing in her home? And if he raped her, why wasn’t he arrested?

      The male student was a victim of Mary Gowans. Get that into your stupid, fucking head you perverted, sexist bitch!

      Robert

      April 8, 2015 at 3:34 pm

      • Mary Gowans was the victim. If you persist to slander Mary Gowans, I will notify my employer to press criminal charges against your malicious postings.
        The Toronto District School Board is a reputable organization and haters such as yourself envy people such as Mary Gowans!

        Teacher

        April 8, 2015 at 9:04 pm

        • Oh get the fuck over yourself already, cunt!

          Acceber

          April 9, 2015 at 12:26 am

        • The male student was the victim. If you persist to slander the male victim, I will notify the authorities to monitor your online activities to determine if you are a child predator. Your sick, malicious postings indicate some type of fetish. The TDSB is a crappy organization and everyone knows it. Sick sexual predators like you envy normal people who care and nurture others rather than treat them as sex objects.

          The Nurturer

          April 9, 2015 at 5:36 am

          • Mary Gowans was the victim. She lost her job and her husband because the male student attempted to sexually assault Mary Gowans in her home.

            Mary Gowans should not be judged because of what she wore to gym classes. The male students should LEARN NOT TO RAPE.

            Donna Quan is right. Women must stand up for their rights. No male student should judge a female teacher by the way she dresses and blame her if she is sexually assaulted.

            A g-string thong is underwear. The male student was a rapist to stare rape Mary Gowans and look at her underwear. If a female teacher in the Toronto District School Board decides to dress in g-string bras and thongs, she is not there to entice students as the male student claimed

            The students should know not to sexually harass Mary Gowans. A woman’s dress is not her consent.

            If Mary Gowans stripped in front of the class and exposed her vagina to the students, the students should not rape Mary Gowans. Mary Gowans is the victim of the patriarchy. Men and boys must learn not to rape.

            Francine

            April 9, 2015 at 2:09 pm

            • She deserved to lose her job and her husband because she is a lying, child-molesting pervert who cheated on her husband by having relations with an under-aged male student. That makes her a rapist. Women should learn not to molest and rape. Teachers should be judged by how they dressed. They should be held to the highest standard. They are shaping the minds of children. The classroom is not a bar or a strip club where perverted females showcase their aging bodies in front of under-aged students just because they are frustrated with their sex lives. A female teacher should not show her underwear to her under-aged students. Even if the under-aged students appear interested, she should not invite them her home. They are too young to consent. That is rape. If she stripped in front of her class and showed her vagina, she should be arrested for child molestation. You are sick. You talk about nudity in front of children and you keep mentioning how white women’s anuses and vaginas are cleaner and holier than Jesus. You fantasize about molesting children and you should be investigated and arrested. That male student was a victim of the perverted matriarchy. Females must learn not to molest and rape.

              Franklin

              April 9, 2015 at 8:15 pm

    • I thought you said you were done posting here for now? What happened to that?

      Acceber

      April 9, 2015 at 12:25 am

      • It’s really funny. So many feminists claim that they don’t need men and that men are useless. Yet, whenever there is a blog advocating that men shouldn’t marry, you have women desperately trying to change the men’s minds through shaming, accusing, manipulation and harassment. If men are so unimportant, why do these women care? When you look at sites that encourage women not to marry, you don’t see that many men (if at all) desperately trying to change the women’s minds. This proves that women do need men after all.

        Men are the infrastructure of the nation. Women still depend on the state – welfare, alimony, child support, state-supported abortions, EBIT, SNAP, Section 8, public housing, child care, bankruptcy, affirmative action and more. When there are no more men to fund these privileges, what will the women do?

        Can you imagine the future? Imagine a mother standing next to her daughter in a museum. The daughter looks at the exhibits of EBT cards and alimony checks. The daughter asks her mother, “Mom, you mean there was a time when we had choices?……We could have worked or just stayed home and be supported by the state?” And the mother would say, “Yes, dear. But those days are long over……Now we have no choices and we have to work like slaves for everything……What happened to the good old days?”

        Apparently, these desperate female posters realize this and they keep fighting to maintain the status quo.

        Future Reality

        April 9, 2015 at 3:57 am

  2. The Toronto District School Board respects the rights of women. The male student was sexist by blaming her for the way she dressed in school. About 1 in 5 women are victims of rape in Canada, and Mary Gowans made the mistake of not reporting the male student’s attempted sexual assault to the authorities.

    The male student should have learned not to lean over to attempt to sexually assault Mary Gowans.

    Donna Quan should inform the Toronto Police Department about the cyber harassment that is lashed out on Mary Gowans because of a bitter male student who couldn’t get laid.

    Toronto women are the best in the world, and you know it!

    Francine

    April 9, 2015 at 2:04 pm

    • The Toronto District School Board disrespects the rights of young male students. The female teacher was sexist by dressing in an inappropriate and unprofessional manner and for inviting a young male student to her home. She is the one who committed sexual assault.

      The female teacher should have learned not to invite young male students to her home for the purpose of sexual assault. He was a minor.

      The police should be informed about how you defend child predators because of a bitter female teacher who was unhappy with her life and couldn’t have relations with an adult male.

      Toronto femi-nazis are the worst perverts, sex offenders and sexists in the world and you know it!

      Franklin

      April 9, 2015 at 8:04 pm

  3. Mary Gowans and Tania Pontbriand should sue you morons for libel! The male students should have learned not to flirt with their female teachers!!!

    U Hollingsberg

    April 9, 2015 at 4:52 pm

    • The male students who were sexually assaulted and their parents should sue you perverted bitches for libel! How dare you blame an under-aged male student for the sick perversions of an adult female sex offender. You should be investigated for possible sexual offenses.

      U Hollingswood

      April 9, 2015 at 8:06 pm

  4. What a load of bull. If ever I heard such crap in my life. This ” wanting to help men ” charade is just sad.

    Let me start by saying if u wanted an excuse not to ever get married and a reason to. Just have sex with multiple partners your whole life long then u chose the wrong excuse to pick on” woman”

    I was forced to get married cause my now husband didn’t see any reason why people together in a relationship should wait…

    And the wedding .. Well let me say my dress costed me 150 buck and I looked sexy.

    Aaah

    Not to mention a cheap function.
    That I did not mind at all. I mean I am marrying the man of my dreams hay, and if it means we have baught a house together by both our salaries, Yes I am working still am 14 years as we are married 14 years not a day without work.

    And kids

    Welll I wanted 1

    He wanted 4
    We have 3
    And he can’t provide for them
    Even with all his money he spends and and and

    So I feel guilty living in a nice home

    While its all he cares about his poor kids
    Go without
    And u want to tell all men don’t get married
    Let me tell u my friend

    The men have to have it all
    Don’t they
    And me
    I lost my sexy body, soul , life. To u men .
    And if u want to leave
    Well that’s another kind of problem
    Cause u men are so insecure
    That u can’t let go.
    No rather make her suffer cause she doesn’t love me any more after all my abuseing her, now she hates me.

    Poor poor men.

    Tell your men friends not to get married
    Yes they will lose their money
    And freedom.
    Cause at the end of the day
    Us woman
    Most of us good woman. We lose a lot more than just that.

    Dumb ass

    Lara Roux

    April 12, 2015 at 3:50 am

    • What a load of bull. You are the one who is full of crap. Who said that you had to get married? Who said you had to have 3 kids just because your husband wanted them? You are blaming your husband for the decisions you made? Another excuse to pick on “man.”

      He can’t provide for the kids? Well, what about you? You feel guilty for living in a nice home? So sell the nice home and live in a smaller home. No, you want it all and you blame your husband when you don’t get it all.

      If you lost your sexy body, soul, life, it’s because of the bad decisions you made. You didn’t take care of yourself and you expected your husband to do it all for you.

      Women are the most insecure creatures of all. They are never happy with what they got and are always blaming others for their own faults instead of taking responsibility for their own actions and choices. Poor, poor women, always playing the victim card.

      You want a great, luxurious life? Work for it yourself. Work your ass for 80 hours a week and stop waiting for a man to give everything to you. You think kids make you lose everything? Then don’t have kids. We don’t need any more selfish, bitter women bringing more innocent kids into this world only to raise them in misery and demand more entitlements from the government just because they reproduced.

      Even when you have good men, you abuse them and leave them. If he has a good job and makes good money, you complain that he isn’t home enough and doesn’t do enough chores even when he hires a nanny and maid for you. If he is home doing the chores, you complain that he doesn’t work hard enough to make more money to support the lavish lifestyle you think you deserve. You act like spoiled children who are never satisfied with what they have.

      Yes, men shouldn’t marry because they will lose their kids, money and freedom and for what? Some selfish woman who thinks she deserves the world and will dump her own kids in poverty just to satisfy her own desires?

      Most of you are not good women. Good women are hard to find. Nowadays, women ride the cock carousel and contract sexually transmitted diseases in addition to substance abuse and borderline personality disorders.

      Stupid ass.

      Larry Roo

      April 12, 2015 at 5:44 am

    • Nice try, lurker. Buzz off.

      Darth Patriarch

      April 14, 2015 at 3:09 am

  5. mary Gowans was the victim of the patriarchy. The male student should have learned not to seduce Mary Gowans as the predator he is. Mary Gowans did not do anything wrong!

    Lara

    April 12, 2015 at 6:40 am

    • Mary Gowans is an example of the sick matriarchy that is bringing down society. She should not have invited a young, under-aged student to her home. How does a young boy seduce an adult female? She can’t exercise proper judgment? She absolutely did everything wrong! Pervert.

      What did you do with that black boy, pedophile?

      Larry

      April 12, 2015 at 8:56 am

    • On Friday, Gowans, 43, left the University Ave. courthouse an innocent woman. And ruined.

      “The last three years of my life have virtually been destroyed as a result of these allegations.

      “I didn’t do anything wrong.’’

      Except, she did. Not wrong to the criminal extent of sexual assault and sexual interference, the charges on which she was acquitted by Justice John McMahon in the judge-alone trial.

      Yet wrong, all the same, for cultivating a personal relationship that observed few boundaries expected of a teacher, of any adult who interacts with minors, particularly those entrusted to their care, as Gowans had entrusted her own young son to the complainant’s care and babysitting mentorship.

      It’s not in the Criminal Code but Gowans is guilty of aggravated stupidity. A highly regarded French and gym teacher with 17 years’ experience in the classroom ought to have known better.

      http://www.thestar.com/news/gta/2012/09/21/dimanno_former_teacher_acquitted_but_still_guilty_of_inexcusably_poor_judgment.html

      If a male teacher had done all of these things with a female student, that judge would have convicted him.

      Adrienne

      April 12, 2015 at 9:05 am

      • The Judge should have raised the age of consent for girls to 50 and imprison the 18 year old male student for statutory rape because he acts like a pedophile who molests their female teachers!

        Eve, OCT, ETFO

        April 12, 2015 at 9:51 pm

        • So that means that females wouldn’t have sex until they were 50, idiot. And then they wouldn’t have children because they would be in menopause. Is that it? Are you a middle-aged, menopausal woman without a man and kids and now you want all women to be the same? Misery loves company, huh?

          What did you do with that black boy, pedophile?

          Ed, SEPT, FUGP

          April 13, 2015 at 5:17 am

        • Then they also need to raise the driving and voting age to 50 for “girls” as well, right, idiot?

          Adam, JAN, FUKU

          April 14, 2015 at 3:07 am

    • Female Teacher – Student Sex Crime Cases are Being Exposed

      It wasn’t that long ago that female on male sexual violence wouldn’t have resulted in criminal charges at all.

      Believe it or not, in some states in America the law is so biased against male victims that it doesn’t even recognize female on male sexual assaults. Canadian law enforcement is no better.

      Education of police and having more female police officers has led to more sensitivity to claims that males are sexually assaulted and by females, according to some authorities on the subject of sexual abuse and assault.

      There exists a clear and wide disparity between the sentencing of convicted female and male sex offenders.

      Here are some of the females accused and/or convicted of sex crimes against children.

      http://www.canadiancrc.com/FEMALE_TEACHER_SEX_OFFENDERS-SEXUAL_ASSAULT_Female_Sexual_Predators-RAPE_MALES.aspx

      Cynthia

      April 12, 2015 at 9:09 am

    • Oh noezz! Not dat offul patry arkee!

      Adam, JAN, FUKU

      April 14, 2015 at 3:03 am

  6. Mary gowans prevented pedophilia. Mary gowans prevented the 14 year old student from molesting his 14 year old female peers in class. The age of consent for girls should be 25 years of age because boys and men groom, seduce and victimize women such as Mary Gowans.
    As a retired teacher from the TDSB, I support the notion that Mary Gowans was the victim of a male predator.

    The male student preyed on Mary Gowans and he should be in jail and registered in the Sex Offenders Registry.

    15 year old male students should not be having sex with 16-18 year old females because that is statutory rape. The age of consent should be raised to 21-25 years of age so that boys will not molest their teachers and blame them for raping their teachers.

    Eve, OCT, ETFO

    April 12, 2015 at 9:50 pm

    • You are sick. Mary Gowans did not prevent pedophilia. If Mary Gowans believed that anyone was committing pedophilia, she should have called the police – not invite the person to her home in order to engage in a relationship with that person, who happened to be a minor. According to you, the way to stop pedophilia is to engage in pedophilia?

      And you clearly are misusing pedophilia to suit your own sick purposes. Pedophilia is a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children, generally age 11 years or younger. As a medical diagnosis, specific criteria for the disorder extend the cut-off point for prepubescence to age 13. Mary Gowans is the adult here, not the 15-year-old boy.

      If 16 to 18-year old females are having sex with 15-year old males, it is the 16 to 18-year old females who would most likely go to jail because of statutory rape since they are older and should know better.

      You are saying that a 15-year-old male is more mature than 16 to 25-year old females? And Mary Gowans was in her 40s when she had that relationship with the 15-year-old boy so even if the age of consent was 21 to 25 years of age, she would still be charged with statutory rape, pervert.

      You are a teacher? Are you engaging in the same behavior that Mary Gowans engaged in? Are you inviting 15-year-old boys to your home? Do you blame them for your actions? Your actions should be monitored.

      What did you do with that black boy, pedophile?

      A 15-year-old boy told a court that he’s not making up affair with his French teacher because he knows she had breast implants and other intimate details about the 42-year-old mother.

      The boy testified to the Toronto court that he was not making his story up and that his former French teacher Mary Gowans told him about her decision to get breast implants.

      ‘Where did the teen hear that? She never told anyone she had breast implants,’ attorney Soula Olver said.

      http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2205650/Mary-Gowans-Teenager-DID-sexual-relationship-married-teacher.html

      Ed, SEPT, FUGP

      April 13, 2015 at 5:14 am

    • Mary Gowans prevented pedophilia by molesting underage boys?

      In that case maybe someone can prevent murder by killing their victim?

      Do you honestly ever listen to your own fucked up arguments?

      Adam, JAN, FUKU

      April 14, 2015 at 3:02 am

    • you just want more boys to get with your 50+ cottage cheese ass by increasing the age of consent to 25. you sound more jealous of Gowans than concerned about protecting 15 year old children from older female predators like you. feminists like yourself are fat, ugly, childless, and without options so spend their lives slandering attractive people for getting it on and attempting to trick them into thinking you’re desirable

      Suck It Eve

      April 24, 2015 at 10:22 am

  7. A female teacher should not be judged by the way she dresses. You are promoting rape culture by blaming Mary Gowans for the way she dressed in school.

    Students should not view their female teachers as sexual objects.

    Y Reinsdeer

    April 14, 2015 at 12:08 am

    • Will you fucking give it up already, cunt? Nobody gives a fuck that you’re not getting the presents or attention you crave!

      The only one “promoting rape culture” here is you. In case you missed it, this is how it works.

      Whenever an adult engages in sexual contact with a child, it is illegal, and the adult in the situation is by default legally at fault. NOT the child!

      If teachers don’t want their students “viewing them as sexual objects” then maybe, JUST MAYBE, they should stop PRESENTING themselves as sexual objects!

      Now fuck off already!

      W Peinscow

      April 14, 2015 at 3:00 am

    • A female teacher should dress appropriately in front of under-aged students. If she doesn’t want to be viewed as a sexual object, she shouldn’t dress or act like one. Just because she couldn’t get the stripper job she wanted doesn’t mean that she has the right to dress like a stripper in front of under-aged students.

      Z Ztop

      April 15, 2015 at 2:18 am

  8. Mary Gowan’s vagina and anus are GOD!

    A HAPPY TEACHER

    April 14, 2015 at 5:03 pm

    • When you are a lonely, desperate, middle-aged woman who can’t find the man she wants, I guess the vagina and anus of another middle-aged woman who had sex with an under-aged male would be God.

      PSYCHOLOGIST

      April 15, 2015 at 1:55 am

    • From Revelation. Pay attention, this is what awaits you:

      17:1 And there came one of the seven angels which had the seven vials, and talked with me, saying unto me, Come hither; I will shew unto thee the judgment of the great whore that sitteth upon many waters:

      17:2 With whom the kings of the earth have committed fornication, and the inhabitants of the earth have been made drunk with the wine of her fornication.

      17:3 So he carried me away in the spirit into the wilderness: and I saw a woman sit upon a scarlet coloured beast, full of names of blasphemy, having seven heads and ten horns.

      17:4 And the woman was arrayed in purple and scarlet colour, and decked with gold and precious stones and pearls, having a golden cup in her hand full of abominations and filthiness of her fornication:

      17:5 And upon her forehead was a name written, MYSTERY, BABYLON THE GREAT, THE MOTHER OF HARLOTS AND ABOMINATIONS OF THE EARTH.

      17:6 And I saw the woman drunken with the blood of the saints, and with the blood of the martyrs of Jesus: and when I saw her, I wondered with great admiration.

      17:7 And the angel said unto me, Wherefore didst thou marvel? I will tell thee the mystery of the woman, and of the beast that carrieth her, which hath the seven heads and ten horns.

      17:8 The beast that thou sawest was, and is not; and shall ascend out of the bottomless pit, and go into perdition: and they that dwell on the earth shall wonder, whose names were not written in the book of life from the foundation of the world, when they behold the beast that was, and is not, and yet is.

      17:9 And here is the mind which hath wisdom. The seven heads are seven mountains, on which the woman sitteth.

      17:10 And there are seven kings: five are fallen, and one is, and the other is not yet come; and when he cometh, he must continue a short space.

      17:11 And the beast that was, and is not, even he is the eighth, and is of the seven, and goeth into perdition.

      17:12 And the ten horns which thou sawest are ten kings, which have received no kingdom as yet; but receive power as kings one hour with the beast.

      17:13 These have one mind, and shall give their power and strength unto the beast.

      17:14 These shall make war with the Lamb, and the Lamb shall overcome them: for he is Lord of lords, and King of kings: and they that are with him are called, and chosen, and faithful.

      17:15 And he saith unto me, The waters which thou sawest, where the whore sitteth, are peoples, and multitudes, and nations, and tongues.

      17:16 And the ten horns which thou sawest upon the beast, these shall hate the whore, and shall make her desolate and naked, and shall eat her flesh, and burn her with fire.

      17:17 For God hath put in their hearts to fulfil his will, and to agree, and give their kingdom unto the beast, until the words of God shall be fulfilled.

      17:18 And the woman which thou sawest is that great city, which reigneth over the kings of the earth.

      18:1 And after these things I saw another angel come down from heaven, having great power; and the earth was lightened with his glory.

      18:2 And he cried mightily with a strong voice, saying, Babylon the great is fallen, is fallen, and is become the habitation of devils, and the hold of every foul spirit, and a cage of every unclean and hateful bird.

      18:3 For all nations have drunk of the wine of the wrath of her fornication, and the kings of the earth have committed fornication with her, and the merchants of the earth are waxed rich through the abundance of her delicacies.

      18:4 And I heard another voice from heaven, saying, Come out of her, my people, that ye be not partakers of her sins, and that ye receive not of her plagues.

      18:5 For her sins have reached unto heaven, and God hath remembered her iniquities.

      18:6 Reward her even as she rewarded you, and double unto her double according to her works: in the cup which she hath filled fill to her double.

      18:7 How much she hath glorified herself, and lived deliciously, so much torment and sorrow give her: for she saith in her heart, I sit a queen, and am no widow, and shall see no sorrow.

      18:8 Therefore shall her plagues come in one day, death, and mourning, and famine; and she shall be utterly burned with fire: for strong is the Lord God who judgeth her.

      18:9 And the kings of the earth, who have committed fornication and lived deliciously with her, shall bewail her, and lament for her, when they shall see the smoke of her burning,

      18:10 Standing afar off for the fear of her torment, saying, Alas, alas that great city Babylon, that mighty city! for in one hour is thy judgment come.

      18:11 And the merchants of the earth shall weep and mourn over her; for no man buyeth their merchandise any more:

      18:12 The merchandise of gold, and silver, and precious stones, and of pearls, and fine linen, and purple, and silk, and scarlet, and all thyine wood, and all manner vessels of ivory, and all manner vessels of most precious wood, and of brass, and iron, and marble,

      18:13 And cinnamon, and odours, and ointments, and frankincense, and wine, and oil, and fine flour, and wheat, and beasts, and sheep, and horses, and chariots, and slaves, and souls of men.

      18:14 And the fruits that thy soul lusted after are departed from thee, and all things which were dainty and goodly are departed from thee, and thou shalt find them no more at all.

      18:15 The merchants of these things, which were made rich by her, shall stand afar off for the fear of her torment, weeping and wailing,

      18:16 And saying, Alas, alas that great city, that was clothed in fine linen, and purple, and scarlet, and decked with gold, and precious stones, and pearls!

      18:17 For in one hour so great riches is come to nought. And every shipmaster, and all the company in ships, and sailors, and as many as trade by sea, stood afar off,

      18:18 And cried when they saw the smoke of her burning, saying, What city is like unto this great city!

      18:19 And they cast dust on their heads, and cried, weeping and wailing, saying, Alas, alas that great city, wherein were made rich all that had ships in the sea by reason of her costliness! for in one hour is she made desolate.

      18:20 Rejoice over her, thou heaven, and ye holy apostles and prophets; for God hath avenged you on her.

      18:21 And a mighty angel took up a stone like a great millstone, and cast it into the sea, saying, Thus with violence shall that great city Babylon be thrown down, and shall be found no more at all.

      18:22 And the voice of harpers, and musicians, and of pipers, and trumpeters, shall be heard no more at all in thee; and no craftsman, of whatsoever craft he be, shall be found any more in thee; and the sound of a millstone shall be heard no more at all in thee;

      18:23 And the light of a candle shall shine no more at all in thee; and the voice of the bridegroom and of the bride shall be heard no more at all in thee: for thy merchants were the great men of the earth; for by thy sorceries were all nations deceived.

      18:24 And in her was found the blood of prophets, and of saints, and of all that were slain upon the earth.

      Little Big Dave

      April 15, 2015 at 6:18 am

  9. To those HOMOPHOBIC PC CONSERVATIVES:

    The SexEd program prevents misogyny. The students will learn from age 6 that the anus and vagina of a white female teacher are GOD. Mary Gowans anus is GOD. Mary Gowans vagina is GOD.

    The male students will learn not to RAPE and not judge Mary Gowans if she wants to show her vagina to her 15 year old lover. The male student should learn to respect women.

    A HAPPY TEACHER

    April 14, 2015 at 5:12 pm

    • To those MISANDRIST PC PEDOPHILES:

      The law prevents pedophilia. Those who act on the belief that the anus and vagina of a white female teacher are GOD will be prosecuted. The prison population does not take kindly to sexist, racist, female pedophiles who believe that white women’s body parts are God.

      These racist, sexist, pedophiliac females will learn not to rape. They will learn to respect others. They will learn that others have rights too. They will learn that they can’t engage in sexual relationships with under-aged children.

      What did you do with that black boy, pedophile?

      PSYCHOLOGIST

      April 15, 2015 at 2:00 am

    • From Revelation. Pay attention, this is what awaits you:

      17:1 And there came one of the seven angels which had the seven vials, and talked with me, saying unto me, Come hither; I will shew unto thee the judgment of the great whore that sitteth upon many waters:

      17:2 With whom the kings of the earth have committed fornication, and the inhabitants of the earth have been made drunk with the wine of her fornication.

      17:3 So he carried me away in the spirit into the wilderness: and I saw a woman sit upon a scarlet coloured beast, full of names of blasphemy, having seven heads and ten horns.

      17:4 And the woman was arrayed in purple and scarlet colour, and decked with gold and precious stones and pearls, having a golden cup in her hand full of abominations and filthiness of her fornication:

      17:5 And upon her forehead was a name written, MYSTERY, BABYLON THE GREAT, THE MOTHER OF HARLOTS AND ABOMINATIONS OF THE EARTH.

      17:6 And I saw the woman drunken with the blood of the saints, and with the blood of the martyrs of Jesus: and when I saw her, I wondered with great admiration.

      17:7 And the angel said unto me, Wherefore didst thou marvel? I will tell thee the mystery of the woman, and of the beast that carrieth her, which hath the seven heads and ten horns.

      17:8 The beast that thou sawest was, and is not; and shall ascend out of the bottomless pit, and go into perdition: and they that dwell on the earth shall wonder, whose names were not written in the book of life from the foundation of the world, when they behold the beast that was, and is not, and yet is.

      17:9 And here is the mind which hath wisdom. The seven heads are seven mountains, on which the woman sitteth.

      17:10 And there are seven kings: five are fallen, and one is, and the other is not yet come; and when he cometh, he must continue a short space.

      17:11 And the beast that was, and is not, even he is the eighth, and is of the seven, and goeth into perdition.

      17:12 And the ten horns which thou sawest are ten kings, which have received no kingdom as yet; but receive power as kings one hour with the beast.

      17:13 These have one mind, and shall give their power and strength unto the beast.

      17:14 These shall make war with the Lamb, and the Lamb shall overcome them: for he is Lord of lords, and King of kings: and they that are with him are called, and chosen, and faithful.

      17:15 And he saith unto me, The waters which thou sawest, where the whore sitteth, are peoples, and multitudes, and nations, and tongues.

      17:16 And the ten horns which thou sawest upon the beast, these shall hate the whore, and shall make her desolate and naked, and shall eat her flesh, and burn her with fire.

      17:17 For God hath put in their hearts to fulfil his will, and to agree, and give their kingdom unto the beast, until the words of God shall be fulfilled.

      17:18 And the woman which thou sawest is that great city, which reigneth over the kings of the earth.

      18:1 And after these things I saw another angel come down from heaven, having great power; and the earth was lightened with his glory.

      18:2 And he cried mightily with a strong voice, saying, Babylon the great is fallen, is fallen, and is become the habitation of devils, and the hold of every foul spirit, and a cage of every unclean and hateful bird.

      18:3 For all nations have drunk of the wine of the wrath of her fornication, and the kings of the earth have committed fornication with her, and the merchants of the earth are waxed rich through the abundance of her delicacies.

      18:4 And I heard another voice from heaven, saying, Come out of her, my people, that ye be not partakers of her sins, and that ye receive not of her plagues.

      18:5 For her sins have reached unto heaven, and God hath remembered her iniquities.

      18:6 Reward her even as she rewarded you, and double unto her double according to her works: in the cup which she hath filled fill to her double.

      18:7 How much she hath glorified herself, and lived deliciously, so much torment and sorrow give her: for she saith in her heart, I sit a queen, and am no widow, and shall see no sorrow.

      18:8 Therefore shall her plagues come in one day, death, and mourning, and famine; and she shall be utterly burned with fire: for strong is the Lord God who judgeth her.

      18:9 And the kings of the earth, who have committed fornication and lived deliciously with her, shall bewail her, and lament for her, when they shall see the smoke of her burning,

      18:10 Standing afar off for the fear of her torment, saying, Alas, alas that great city Babylon, that mighty city! for in one hour is thy judgment come.

      18:11 And the merchants of the earth shall weep and mourn over her; for no man buyeth their merchandise any more:

      18:12 The merchandise of gold, and silver, and precious stones, and of pearls, and fine linen, and purple, and silk, and scarlet, and all thyine wood, and all manner vessels of ivory, and all manner vessels of most precious wood, and of brass, and iron, and marble,

      18:13 And cinnamon, and odours, and ointments, and frankincense, and wine, and oil, and fine flour, and wheat, and beasts, and sheep, and horses, and chariots, and slaves, and souls of men.

      18:14 And the fruits that thy soul lusted after are departed from thee, and all things which were dainty and goodly are departed from thee, and thou shalt find them no more at all.

      18:15 The merchants of these things, which were made rich by her, shall stand afar off for the fear of her torment, weeping and wailing,

      18:16 And saying, Alas, alas that great city, that was clothed in fine linen, and purple, and scarlet, and decked with gold, and precious stones, and pearls!

      18:17 For in one hour so great riches is come to nought. And every shipmaster, and all the company in ships, and sailors, and as many as trade by sea, stood afar off,

      18:18 And cried when they saw the smoke of her burning, saying, What city is like unto this great city!

      18:19 And they cast dust on their heads, and cried, weeping and wailing, saying, Alas, alas that great city, wherein were made rich all that had ships in the sea by reason of her costliness! for in one hour is she made desolate.

      18:20 Rejoice over her, thou heaven, and ye holy apostles and prophets; for God hath avenged you on her.

      18:21 And a mighty angel took up a stone like a great millstone, and cast it into the sea, saying, Thus with violence shall that great city Babylon be thrown down, and shall be found no more at all.

      18:22 And the voice of harpers, and musicians, and of pipers, and trumpeters, shall be heard no more at all in thee; and no craftsman, of whatsoever craft he be, shall be found any more in thee; and the sound of a millstone shall be heard no more at all in thee;

      18:23 And the light of a candle shall shine no more at all in thee; and the voice of the bridegroom and of the bride shall be heard no more at all in thee: for thy merchants were the great men of the earth; for by thy sorceries were all nations deceived.

      18:24 And in her was found the blood of prophets, and of saints, and of all that were slain upon the earth.

      See? I can spam too.

      Little Big Dave

      April 15, 2015 at 6:19 am

  10. God blesses those who respect the way a female teacher dresses. The 15 year old student should learn to control himself when Mary Gowans showed him her vagina.

    If the 15 year old student gained an erection by watching Mary Gowans, he is nothing but a pervert and sex predator.

    Men should learn not to rape and they should not judge Mary Gowans if she showed her pussy and anus to her students.

    Mary Gowans anus is God. Didn’t the Bible teach you not to judge others?

    A HAPPY TEACHER

    April 14, 2015 at 5:14 pm

    • From Revelation. Pay attention, this is what awaits you:

      17:1 And there came one of the seven angels which had the seven vials, and talked with me, saying unto me, Come hither; I will shew unto thee the judgment of the great whore that sitteth upon many waters:

      17:2 With whom the kings of the earth have committed fornication, and the inhabitants of the earth have been made drunk with the wine of her fornication.

      17:3 So he carried me away in the spirit into the wilderness: and I saw a woman sit upon a scarlet coloured beast, full of names of blasphemy, having seven heads and ten horns.

      17:4 And the woman was arrayed in purple and scarlet colour, and decked with gold and precious stones and pearls, having a golden cup in her hand full of abominations and filthiness of her fornication:

      17:5 And upon her forehead was a name written, MYSTERY, BABYLON THE GREAT, THE MOTHER OF HARLOTS AND ABOMINATIONS OF THE EARTH.

      17:6 And I saw the woman drunken with the blood of the saints, and with the blood of the martyrs of Jesus: and when I saw her, I wondered with great admiration.

      17:7 And the angel said unto me, Wherefore didst thou marvel? I will tell thee the mystery of the woman, and of the beast that carrieth her, which hath the seven heads and ten horns.

      17:8 The beast that thou sawest was, and is not; and shall ascend out of the bottomless pit, and go into perdition: and they that dwell on the earth shall wonder, whose names were not written in the book of life from the foundation of the world, when they behold the beast that was, and is not, and yet is.

      17:9 And here is the mind which hath wisdom. The seven heads are seven mountains, on which the woman sitteth.

      17:10 And there are seven kings: five are fallen, and one is, and the other is not yet come; and when he cometh, he must continue a short space.

      17:11 And the beast that was, and is not, even he is the eighth, and is of the seven, and goeth into perdition.

      17:12 And the ten horns which thou sawest are ten kings, which have received no kingdom as yet; but receive power as kings one hour with the beast.

      17:13 These have one mind, and shall give their power and strength unto the beast.

      17:14 These shall make war with the Lamb, and the Lamb shall overcome them: for he is Lord of lords, and King of kings: and they that are with him are called, and chosen, and faithful.

      17:15 And he saith unto me, The waters which thou sawest, where the whore sitteth, are peoples, and multitudes, and nations, and tongues.

      17:16 And the ten horns which thou sawest upon the beast, these shall hate the whore, and shall make her desolate and naked, and shall eat her flesh, and burn her with fire.

      17:17 For God hath put in their hearts to fulfil his will, and to agree, and give their kingdom unto the beast, until the words of God shall be fulfilled.

      17:18 And the woman which thou sawest is that great city, which reigneth over the kings of the earth.

      18:1 And after these things I saw another angel come down from heaven, having great power; and the earth was lightened with his glory.

      18:2 And he cried mightily with a strong voice, saying, Babylon the great is fallen, is fallen, and is become the habitation of devils, and the hold of every foul spirit, and a cage of every unclean and hateful bird.

      18:3 For all nations have drunk of the wine of the wrath of her fornication, and the kings of the earth have committed fornication with her, and the merchants of the earth are waxed rich through the abundance of her delicacies.

      18:4 And I heard another voice from heaven, saying, Come out of her, my people, that ye be not partakers of her sins, and that ye receive not of her plagues.

      18:5 For her sins have reached unto heaven, and God hath remembered her iniquities.

      18:6 Reward her even as she rewarded you, and double unto her double according to her works: in the cup which she hath filled fill to her double.

      18:7 How much she hath glorified herself, and lived deliciously, so much torment and sorrow give her: for she saith in her heart, I sit a queen, and am no widow, and shall see no sorrow.

      18:8 Therefore shall her plagues come in one day, death, and mourning, and famine; and she shall be utterly burned with fire: for strong is the Lord God who judgeth her.

      18:9 And the kings of the earth, who have committed fornication and lived deliciously with her, shall bewail her, and lament for her, when they shall see the smoke of her burning,

      18:10 Standing afar off for the fear of her torment, saying, Alas, alas that great city Babylon, that mighty city! for in one hour is thy judgment come.

      18:11 And the merchants of the earth shall weep and mourn over her; for no man buyeth their merchandise any more:

      18:12 The merchandise of gold, and silver, and precious stones, and of pearls, and fine linen, and purple, and silk, and scarlet, and all thyine wood, and all manner vessels of ivory, and all manner vessels of most precious wood, and of brass, and iron, and marble,

      18:13 And cinnamon, and odours, and ointments, and frankincense, and wine, and oil, and fine flour, and wheat, and beasts, and sheep, and horses, and chariots, and slaves, and souls of men.

      18:14 And the fruits that thy soul lusted after are departed from thee, and all things which were dainty and goodly are departed from thee, and thou shalt find them no more at all.

      18:15 The merchants of these things, which were made rich by her, shall stand afar off for the fear of her torment, weeping and wailing,

      18:16 And saying, Alas, alas that great city, that was clothed in fine linen, and purple, and scarlet, and decked with gold, and precious stones, and pearls!

      18:17 For in one hour so great riches is come to nought. And every shipmaster, and all the company in ships, and sailors, and as many as trade by sea, stood afar off,

      18:18 And cried when they saw the smoke of her burning, saying, What city is like unto this great city!

      18:19 And they cast dust on their heads, and cried, weeping and wailing, saying, Alas, alas that great city, wherein were made rich all that had ships in the sea by reason of her costliness! for in one hour is she made desolate.

      18:20 Rejoice over her, thou heaven, and ye holy apostles and prophets; for God hath avenged you on her.

      18:21 And a mighty angel took up a stone like a great millstone, and cast it into the sea, saying, Thus with violence shall that great city Babylon be thrown down, and shall be found no more at all.

      18:22 And the voice of harpers, and musicians, and of pipers, and trumpeters, shall be heard no more at all in thee; and no craftsman, of whatsoever craft he be, shall be found any more in thee; and the sound of a millstone shall be heard no more at all in thee;

      18:23 And the light of a candle shall shine no more at all in thee; and the voice of the bridegroom and of the bride shall be heard no more at all in thee: for thy merchants were the great men of the earth; for by thy sorceries were all nations deceived.

      18:24 And in her was found the blood of prophets, and of saints, and of all that were slain upon the earth.

      Little Big Dave

      April 15, 2015 at 6:18 am

  11. God blesses those who punish female pedophiles. Mary Gowans should learn to control herself in front of under-aged boys. She should not show him any of her private body parts.

    If she showed him any of her private body parts, she is nothing but a pervert and a sex predator.

    Women should learn not to rape and they should not hate men just because they can’t get the attention of any decent men. They should not take out their loneliness and desperation out on under-aged boys.

    Didn’t the Bible teach you to protect children and love others? You believe in Satan. Satan believes in rape and molestation. Mary Gowans and sick perverts like you should be judged and prosecuted. You will all burn in hell.

    PSYCHOLOGIST

    April 15, 2015 at 2:03 am

  12. Mary Kay Letourneau is a sex offender now, was a sex offender in the past, and will be a sex offender in the future. Glossing over her horrendous crime with the veneer of celebrity only encourages further vile and deplorable acts from other would-be female sex offenders.

    America is suffering an epidemic of predatory females raping young male students. The only responsible and reasonable approach is to stop glorifying what would be vehemently attacked if the teacher were male.

    Parents dont want Ben Levin Sex Ed

    April 17, 2015 at 1:34 pm

    • The 12 year old student should have learned not to rape Mary Kay Letourneau. At least 1 in 2 female teachers in the Toronto District School Board are victims of sexual assault by male students.

      Rape culture is an epidemic in the Toronto District School Board. But how many of you know what rape culture is?

      If a female teacher shows her cleavage to class, the male students should learn to respect the teacher. If a male student makes a sexual advance towards the female teacher, he should be chemically castrated because he is a potential rapist.

      Women in Toronto must stand up to abolish the patriarchy! Toronto is the best city in the world and Barack Obama is nothing but a nigger.

      You are a misogynist

      April 17, 2015 at 8:49 pm

      • Mary Kay Letourneau is a convicted rapist. Now she wants to get her teaching license back so she can rape more young men.

        Around one in 10 students said they had been the victim of one or more such things from a teacher or other school employee, and two-thirds of those reported the incident involved physical contact. If these numbers are representative of the student population nationwide, 4.5 million students currently in grades K-12 have suffered some form of sexual abuse by an educator, and more than 3 million have experienced sexual touching or assault. This number would include both inappropriate romantic relationships between teachers and upperclassmen, and outright pedophilia.

        Yes, rape culture is epidemic in the Toronto District School Board because the female teachers are rapists. We know what rape culture. It was invented by perverted feminists to justify their own sick sexual actions. If a female teacher makes a sexual advance towards an under-aged student she should be given a mastectomy and a hysterectomy because she is a pedophile and should not have children.

        Men in Toronto must stand up to the perverted matriarchy! Toronto is a city filled with racist, sexist, perverted Nazis!

        You are a misandrist

        April 18, 2015 at 3:23 am

  13. Mary Gowans is a slut. A fucking whore. She lured that student. Fucking bitch. The Toronto District School Board should be investigated for encouraging female teachers to flirt and fuck their students.

    Fucking cunts in Toronto. Vladimir Putin should do something about it! He should never forget that the Canadian bitches influenced those 15-17 year old dance students to twerk in the auditorium! Benjamin Levin must have spread his pedophile teachings to Russia!

    Parents dont want Ben Levin Sex Ed

    April 17, 2015 at 1:36 pm

    • Mary Gowans was declared not guilty by the court. You better watch ur mouth before the Toronto Police Services get involved to charge you for assault libel and slander!

      Toronto women are Goddesses and not s***s and w****s! Toronto is the best city in the world! America sucks!

      You are a misogynist

      April 17, 2015 at 8:45 pm

      • Even the judge said that Mary Gowans acted inappropriately. You better watch your mouth before the Toronto Police arrest you for posting racist, sexist child pornography on this website.

        Toronto women are whores. Feminism is loser acceptance. Canada sucks. They don’t even collect poverty statistics because they don’t want to hear the truth.

        You are a misandrist

        April 18, 2015 at 3:16 am

  14. Barack Obama is a nigger. Vote for Hilary Clinton in 2016. The vagina and anus of Hilary Clinton are worth more than the lives of 1 million Palestinians!

    God is giving women the chance to rule the world! Do not let a nigger such as Barack Obama gain a 3rd term! Hillary Clinton is the Messiah!

    You are a misogynist

    April 17, 2015 at 8:51 pm

    • Hilary Clinton is a closet lesbian who had an affair with Huma Mahmood Abedin. Both of these women married men for political reasons. That’s what you wanted to do but no man would have you. You clearly are a frustrated old lesbian who can’t stop talking about white women’s vaginas and anuses.

      God is showing the world how terrible and perverted women can be. Hilary Clinton is the Devil.

      You are a misandrist

      April 18, 2015 at 3:29 am

  15. Female teachers in the Toronto District School Board are victims of sexual harassment by male students. The male student had no right to judge Mary Gowans by what she wore in class.

    1 out of every 2 female teachers has been the victim of an attempted or completed rape in her teaching career by male students.

    The male students play the victim by claiming that the female teacher stripped in front of him, showed him her vagina and offered oral sex. This is highly untrue.

    Women in Toronto are holier than Jesus Christ and Muhammad. The menstrual blood of a female teacher is smeared onto Muhammad’s picture because God made women in Toronto to be the supreme beings.

    Men are nothing but scum and rapists. Men are rapists because they prefer 18 to 21 year old women and that is pedophilia. Pedophilia is when a man shows sexual interest in women aged 0-40. The age of consent should be raised to 40 years of age to prevent rape culture.

    Men are noting but fucking filth! Obama the nigger has done liitle to stop the wage gap. Hillary Clinton will become the 1st female president of the United States of America to end the hatred and discrimination against women.

    A female teacher should not be harassed because a male student tried to rape her. Mary Gowans is suffering because she was nearly raped by the male student.

    You are a misogynist

    April 17, 2015 at 8:57 pm

    • Single mothers are the ones who raise rapists and criminals. 80% of rapists are raised by single moms and 90% of all homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes. Single moms cost US taxpayers $112 billion per year.

      Femi-nazis in Toronto and everywhere are the Devil. They promote single motherhood and therefore promote the abuse of children. If God made women superior beings, then women would have done a great job of raising kids on their own but they can’t so it proves that it is the Devil who supports single motherhood.

      Women are pedophiles, child killers, child abusers and rapists. They are twisted, filthy and perverted. They are toilets who let all kinds of men deposit their fluids into them and then they take out their bitterness on innocent children.

      People hate Hillary Clinton because she was incompetent. She was responsible for the Bhenghazi attack. She couldn’t handle being Secretary of State and had to leave. Now she wants to become President?

      Male children should not be harassed just because sick, twisted women who are confused about their sexual identity can’t get the men they want.

      You are a misandrist

      April 18, 2015 at 3:40 am

  16. Mary Gowans did not do anything wrong.

    Guest

    April 17, 2015 at 8:59 pm

    • Yes she did, pervert.

      You are a misandrist

      April 18, 2015 at 3:41 am

      • We need to remember that while men are the scum, women in Toronto are the goddesses. We are sacred, abundant, necessary. Men are a waste and they stare rape women every day in Toronto.

        If Mary Gowans showed her vagina landing strip to her male student, the male student should learn to respect her as a human being. Mary Gowans did not commit any criminal offence.

        Donna Quan stated repeatedly that when a woman decides to go naked in public, she is fighting the patriarchy. The Criminal Code of Canada’s nudity laws were struck down in Toronto as it violated the human rights of the Gay Pride event.

        The students should learn that the anus, vagina and breasts of a female teachers are not sexual. Men must quit oppressing women by forcing them to dress like Muslims in school.

        If a female teacher wants to dress with cleavage and her gstring showing, she has that right. YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO TELL A FEMALE TEACHER HOW TO DRESS! YOU HEAR ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

        Because I am a Woman

        April 18, 2015 at 1:49 pm

        • We need to remember that while women are the scum, men are the gods. Men are sacred and necessary. Women are a waste and they raise kids in poverty only to become criminals.

          http://www.thestar.com/news/gta/2014/08/27/toronto_child_poverty_rate_at_epidemic_levels.html

          If Mary Gowans showed her vagina landing strip to her male student, she is a pervert who should be jailed, masectomized and hysterectomized.

          Donna Quan is not your lesbian lover. That is just a fantasy in your sick head. Nobody wants to see you in the nude.

          You should learn that your anus, vagina and breasts of a female teachers are not sexual and that no one will ever want them so stop dressing like a whore.

          If a female teacher wants to dress with cleavage and her gstring showing, she is a pedophile. YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO EXPOSE YOURSELF IN FRONT OF CHILDREN!!!!!!

          Because I am a Man

          April 18, 2015 at 7:14 pm

  17. The Toronto Police services should incarcerate you niggers for disrespecting the integrity of white female teachers.

    Mary Gowans was sexually assaulted because she was a white woman. The anus of Mary Gowans is cleaner than the skin of a nigger and mullatto.

    Protect white female teachers

    April 17, 2015 at 9:13 pm

    • The Canadian and American police plus the NAACP should investigate you for your racism, sexism and pedophilia. Mary Kay Letourneau had sex with an under-aged boy who wasn’t white. You probably did the same thing. Perverted, racist white bitch. You let your body used as a toilet by men who would never marry you.

      You are a misandrist

      April 18, 2015 at 3:45 am

      • The vagina and vulva of a female teacher in Toronto is more sacred than all of the religions in the world. Male students should learn not to have sexual feelings for their female teachers when she decides to show the world what the meaning of God is.

        Kathleen Wynne is right to call you sexist people out. Why should you be sexist to prevent female teachers from teaching Grade 1 students about the worth of a female teacher’s vagina, vulva and anus?

        Toronto is ranked #1 many times by high ranking magazines around the world. The United States of America will always be below Toronto that the women in Toronto will smear their menstrual blood on your American flag and spit on your silly old Constitution.

        Because I am a Woman

        April 18, 2015 at 1:44 pm

        • Stop posting your masturbatory, lesbian pedophile fantasies. You keep mentioning women’s vaginas, anuses, menstruation and names with regard to male children. God hates pedophiles. You will burn in hell.

          Toronto is a hellhole for children.

          Toronto child poverty rate at ‘epidemic’ levels
          Toronto activists call on city mayoral candidates to address Toronto’s “epidemic” child poverty rate which is the highest in Canada, tied with Saint John, N.B.

          http://www.thestar.com/news/gta/2014/08/27/toronto_child_poverty_rate_at_epidemic_levels.html

          Of course there is poverty there. Children are being raised by single mothers and educated in a perverted school district.

          Toronto is a loser! America rules!

          Toronto women can’t afford the American flag and the Bill of Rights. They can’t even afford to support their own kids. I bet you wish a lesbian shit on your face right now.

          Because I am a Man

          April 18, 2015 at 7:09 pm

  18. The white female teacher is the Superior Race while black men are criminals and niggers. Mary Gowans and Mary Kay Letourneau were victims of nigger mentality. Niggers hate whites because whites are smarter and successful while blacks depend on government assistance.

    The Toronto Police Services should do more to protect white female teachers from the patriarchy and niggers.

    Prime Minister Stephen Harper is the man for the job.

    Protect white female teachers

    April 17, 2015 at 9:16 pm

    • Fuck you racist cunt! Well the woman is ALWAYS THE FUCKING VICTIM AIN’T IT????

      EVANS, Ga. (WJBF) – A Columbia County mom responded to accusations that she hosted a sex party for her underage daughter and friends.

      Rachel Lynn Lehnardt, 35, of Evans, Georgia is charged with two counts of Contributing to the Delinquency of a Minor. She is also fighting allegations that she supplied teenagers with alcohol and marijuana at that party.

      She is now telling her side of the story, which is all about telling the truth when it comes to Alcoholics Anonymous (A.A.). That is the belief of the fellowship of men and women who have had a drinking problem. “We believe in honesty,” said Alcoholics Anonymous volunteer Scott “B”.

      So, when Lehnardt allegedly shared details of an incident at her home to her A.A. sponsor on April 10th, Scott B., who prefers to keep his last name private, said turning to the cops was crucial. “Most likely, the sponsor will guide the sponsee to go ahead and take care of the issue,” he said.

      The alleged incident is detailed in a Columbia County Sheriff’s Office incident report. The A.A. sponsor claims Lehnardt opened up during a sobriety conversation over coffee about why she lost custody of her five children, ages 4, 6, 8, 10 and 16 on Monday, April 6. The report states Lehnardt told the sponsor she was sober since the day she lost custody, but she is facing charges of Contributing to the Delinquency of a Minor after allowing her 16-year-old daughter and friends to party at her Evans home with illegal substances and alcohol.

      Captain Steve Morris, of the Columbia County Sheriff’s Office, told WJBF News Channel 6, “She was arrested for furnishing alcohol and marijuana to at least two 16-year-olds. That was not just what the A.A. sponsor told us, but what was told to us was also corroborated by witnesses that were also in the home.”

      The report goes on to say Lehnardt played “naked Twister” in the living room, then had sex with an 18-year-old in the bathroom. The sponsor said the mom told her she brought her sex toys out and performed with them in front of the group. As the party continued, the incident report reads Lehnardt fell asleep and woke up around 3:30 a.m. to find her daughter’s 16-year-old boyfriend having sex with her.

      “The age of consent in Georgia is 16, and the two allegations involved individuals at least 16 years of age,” said Capt. Morris.

      Lehnardt’s attorney, Shawn Hammond, released the following statement on behalf of Lehnardt:

      “Mrs. Lehnardt acknowledges that due to recent alcohol abuse she engaged in several acts of inappropriate conduct. Although, many of the allegations are exaggerated, she is extremely remorseful for what she allowed to occur in her presence and is obtaining professional and pastoral counseling to ensure that this conduct is never repeated. Mrs. Lehnardt intends to fully cooperate with the legal system to accept complete responsibility for her conduct and to fully atone for her actions. However, at no time did Mrs. Lehnardt sponsor or facilitate a party for underage minors.

      Mrs. Lehnardt has recommitted herself to her faith and her family. She is hopeful that her children, members of her faith and others will learn from her poor example as to just how easy it is for people to exercise such extremely poor judgment while intoxicated.

      In regards to the connection this case has with Alcoholics Anonymous, Mrs. Lehnardt continues to participate in and strongly believes in the program. She truly regrets any negative media coverage that this matter may have had on the organization.”

      As for why the AA sponsor went to police, Scott “B” said the organization is bound by spiritual principles. “We believe that that’s how our higher power is expressing his will for us is through our group conscience.”

      Captain Morris said this is an ongoing investigation and the Sheriff’s Office is looking into additional allegations.

      Lehnardt was in jail, but bonded out Monday on $3,200 bond. Lehnardt’s lawyer added, she is in counseling and continues to participate in Alcoholics Anonymous.”

      SHE USED “POOR JUDGMENT” like Mary Gowans RIGHT?

      IF IT WERE A 35 YEAR OLD MAN COMMITTING THESE OFFENCES HE WOULD ROT IN JAIL AND END UP DEAD FROM THE BEATINGS IN PRISON!

      AND HOLY FUCK!

      THE COURT WANTED TO PROSECUTE THE 16 YEAR OLD BOYFRIEND FOR HAVING SEX WITH A PEER HIS AGE?

      FUCKING OLD WOMEN! FUCK YOU, MARY GOWANS, MARY KAY AND OTHER OLD FEMALE SEX PREDATORS!

      Darris

      April 18, 2015 at 12:28 am

      • Because I am a woman, I have to endure hatred by angry, bitter males who blame the woman when a male student sexually assaults her.

        The student of Mary Kay LeTourneau knew what he was doing. He is marrying her because he consented to the sexual act with his female teacher.

        Men are scum, filth and pedophiles. Toronto women are the finest in the world

        Because I am a Woman

        April 18, 2015 at 1:28 pm

        • Because I am a man, I had to endure abuse from a single mother who took out her frustrations on me. Because I am a man, I had to be abused by self-entitled women with personality disorders. Because I am a man, people refuse to believe that I can be victimized by a woman.

          So if a grown man has sex with an under-aged girl and she eventually marries him, she consents to the act? Mary Kay Letourneau had sex with an under-aged boy who legally could not consent at the time. That makes her a statutory rapist. He did not know what he was doing and I wonder what she does with their kids.

          Women are shitty, perverted, filthy toilets who raise criminals and then blame others for the problems they cause. Single mothers are more likely than anyone to raise pedophiles and all kinds of criminals – male and female. Toronto women are diseased whores.

          Because I am a Man

          April 18, 2015 at 6:48 pm

    • This is something that people have been missing the point on for so long. White Women are more racist then white men, just because they allow you fornicate with them, do not believe they are somehow less racist than White Men, in fact they are far worst.
      Who teaches their white children racism? White Women
      Who teaches their white children to hate and look down on all non-whites? White Women
      White Women don’t tell their kids to “love and be friendly with the non-whites”. They call their white kid’s friends, the “n-words, gooks, chinks, etc”
      Think about it, the White man comes home from a day at work and sees his opportunities taken away by White Women who blame him for racism, however it was those filthy lying whures who taught their kids to hate.
      Seriously, F k white women,…Fellas, F k white women and please don’t impregnate them. I know you r trying to outbreed them. But they can still teach their half-breed kid to hate as well. F k White Women, the Whure’s of Racism who road the coattails of Racist White men and think somehow they are victims of that Racism they helped to create.
      F…K White women!

      http://www.topix.com/forum/afam/TMQBB1IT9EPAP28CR

      The Truth About White Women

      April 19, 2015 at 6:07 am

  19. Misogyny is the hatred or dislike of women or girls. Misogyny can be manifested in numerous ways, including sexual discrimination, denigration of women and female teachers.

    Female teachers who have sex with their students should be exempted from the age of consent laws. On the contrary, rape culture and sex trafficing must be stopped by raising the age of consent to 45 for girls.

    Women can live independently without men and male students who view their female teachers as sexual objects are nothing but perverts and sex offenders.

    Mary Gowans was the victim. The male student knew what he was doing. He calculated his every move as a rapist to try and sexually assault her. It does not matter that the male student was 15 years old. He should have learned to control himself when Mary Gowans showed him her breasts, vagina and anal region. Men must learn not to rape women.

    Prime Minister Stephen Harper and President Barack Hussein Obama should table a bill to raise the age of consent for girls to 45 NOW!

    Because I am a Woman

    April 18, 2015 at 1:32 pm

    • Misandry is the hatred or dislike of men or boys. Misandry can be manifested in numerous ways, including sexual discrimination, denigration of men and male teachers.

      Female teachers who have sex with their students should be sterilized. If they already have children, those children should be taken away from them because these female teachers are pedophiles. On the contrary, rape culture and sex trafficking must be stopped by punishing incompetent, perverted mothers and female teachers.

      Men can live independently without women and female teachers who view their under-aged male students as sexual objects are nothing but perverts and sex offenders.

      Mary Gowans was the victimizer. The female teacher knew what he was doing. She is a married mother. She calculated her every move as a rapist to try and sexually assault him. It does matter that the male student who was 15 years old. She may have molested her own children. She should have learned to control herself and not show him her breasts, vagina and anal region. Women must learn not to rape men.

      Prime Minister Stephen Harper and President Barack Hussein Obama should table a bill to sterilize female perverts NOW!

      Because I am a Man

      April 18, 2015 at 6:55 pm

  20. Mary Gowans, 45, was acquitted in 2012 on charges of sexual assault. Mary Gowans was victimized because she was a woman. The male student coerced Mary Gowans into showing him her breasts, vagina landing strip and anal region.

    A female teacher has the right how to dress how she wants in the Toronto District School Board. TDSB Director Donna Quan will file a complaint to the Toronto Police Services to investigate many of you for uttering libel about Mary Gowans.

    Women in Toronto are the best in the world. That should not give you any reason to blame female teachers for your homophobic and sexist beliefs.

    There is nothing you can do to stop female teachers from preventing rape culture by teaching Grade 1 students about the sacred value of a woman’s anus, vagina and vulva. Men should learn from Grade 1 that the anus, vagina and vulva of a female teacher in Toronto are holier than Jerusalem, The Vatican and Mecca.

    When a male student commits blasphemy by making negative remarks about the way Mary Gowans dresses, he should be castrated and sent to prison for misogyny.

    The world needs feminism to prevent misogyny and hatred of female teachers in the TDSB.

    Because I am a Woman

    April 18, 2015 at 1:39 pm

    • Stop masturbating on this list, Mary

      Brian

      April 18, 2015 at 1:44 pm

      • YOU ARE A MISOGYNIST! WOMEN IN TORONTO HAVE HAD ENOUGH OF YOUR HATE SPEECH.

        DONNA QUAN WILL SUE THE U.S. GOVERNMENT FOR ENCOURAGING HATE SPEECH UNDER YOUR PATRIARCHY CONSTITUTION.

        Because I am a Woman

        April 18, 2015 at 1:54 pm

        • YOU ARE A PEDOPHILE! YOU KEEP POSTING YOUR SICK FANTASIES ABOUT MALE CHILDREN AND WOMEN’S VAGINAS AND ANUSES! THIS IS PEDOPHILE SPEECH. YOU CAN’T SPEAK FOR DONNA QUAN AND SHE WILL NOT WANT TO BE ASSOCIATED WITH A PERVERT LIKE YOU. YOU ARE A PEDOPHILE. THE PATRIARCHY WILL GET YOU AND ALL DECENT MEN AND WOMEN WILL APPLAUD.

          Because I am a Man

          April 18, 2015 at 6:57 pm

    • Mary Gowans was acquitted because she was a woman. If she were a man, she would have been convicted. If she can be coerced by a boy into showing her breasts and vagina then she is a pedophile who probably molested other children, including her own. That’s why her husband left her and took the children.

      Donna Quan will do nothing for you. She is not your slave. Stop using other people’s names in your sick threats. Donna Quan should be shown your sick fantasies and informed that you have been using her name in these sick fantasies.

      There is a whole lot we can do to stop female pedophiles and many are being arrested. Stop posting your masturbatory fantasies about women’s anuses and vaginas. We all know that you are a frustrated, aging lesbian who knows that no woman or man will ever support you.

      You should be masectomized and hysterectomized for your perverted pedophile fantasies. You want to raise the age of consent for all females to 50 so they will all be miserable and sexless the way you are. Misery loves company.

      The world needs to end sick feminism and to remove you from the TDSB and any proximity to children.

      Because I am a Man

      April 18, 2015 at 7:03 pm

  21. The United States of America is filled with too many misogynists. Women in Toronto must unite and wipe their asses with the American flag and flush the American flag down the toilet.

    The United States of America does not respect the rights of women as Canada does.

    Toronto rules! America is a loser!

    Toronto women shit on your American flag and Bill of Rights!

    Because I am a Woman

    April 18, 2015 at 1:52 pm

  22. Just a bloody interesting read.
    I do agree that marriage is an unromantic legal contract that has been romanticised by media.

    But to the writer…. I’m sorry She hurt you – You’ll be alright mate :)

    Marianne

    April 20, 2015 at 1:52 am

    • Never married so she couldn’t hurt me. Kept all of my assets separate from hers. That’s why I will always be all right. Became a dad through hiring an egg donor and a surrogate so no one can take away my kids. Then got a vasectomy. Got girlfriends to help me babysit the kids from time to time but when it was over, they left and got no kids and no assets from me – I kept it all. Don’t think they weren’t miffed that they had to walk away with nothing. That’s the way to do it. :D

      Mario

      April 20, 2015 at 6:57 am

  23. Toronto must be a lousy city to live in with these insane feminazis

    Klien Sanders

    April 20, 2015 at 7:04 pm

  24. Mary Gowans should sue each and every one of you for smearing her name.

    Laura Goldstein

    April 23, 2015 at 10:03 pm

    • The underaged victims and their parents should investigate you for any possible activity as a child molester. Then they should haul your sick, perverted ass to jail.

      Larry Goldstein

      April 24, 2015 at 11:22 am

      • Male students should learn not to rape their female teachers.

        Angela Thomlinson

        April 25, 2015 at 12:04 am

        • Female teachers should learn not to rape their under-aged male students just because they are incapable of attracting desirable men.

          Angelo Thomlindaughter

          April 25, 2015 at 3:11 am


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