Being ‘invisible’
Being ‘invisible’
Post by Will on Nov 3, 2005, 5:46pm
How do you deal with being invisible to women?
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Re: Being ‘invisible’
Post by Richie Rich on Nov 3, 2005, 5:58pm
R….Wear fancy clothing, drive flashy car and talk crap that they want to hear!!!
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Re: Being ‘invisible’
Post by agatha on Nov 3, 2005, 6:47pm
^—- didn’t attract me, sorry 
I look at the guys that are reading a book in a library, taking pictures of the landscape, those not trying to be “peacocks” to other girls.
I say, just be yourself and if the women aren’t noticing you because of it, its not your fault, its theirs.
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Re: Being ‘invisible’
Post by khankrumthebulgar on Nov 3, 2005, 6:56pm
Be your own Man. This nonsense of being a Metrosexual, now an Ubersexual is all horse excrement. Be yourself and set your own course. Trying to be trendy, cool or appealing to Women is like trying to wave a red flag in front of a bull or chum for Sharks. Listen youngster do your own thing and if you meet a quality Woman she will recognize your worth. If not go offshore. Lots of Women in the world other than American Women trust me on this. I have lived overseas.
Millions of em, Asia, Central Asia, Latin & Central America. Also Eastern Europe, India etc.
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Re: Being ‘invisible’
Post by chrisw79 on Nov 3, 2005, 7:13pm
I’ve been invisible to women for years. It used to bother me. Now it doesn’t. I wear what I want, go where I choose, do what I like. Most women want you to go out of your way, wear what’s trendy, and do what they say. Sorry.
As someone said to me a few weeks ago, take pride in already being ahead of the game!
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Re: Being ‘invisible’
Post by logic101 on Nov 3, 2005, 11:05pm
Nov 3, 2005, 5:46pm, Will wrote:
How do you deal with being invisible to women?
If you live in America and we’re talking about the typical AW:
Honestly……be happy about this. You shouldn’t have to be dealing with anything.
-Logic 101
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Re: Being ‘invisible’
Post by sirchancealot on Nov 3, 2005, 11:42pm
You, my young friend, have to learn to ask the question for which you really want the answer.
You aren’t asking how we deal with being invisible to women. In the off chance that I am wrong about that, here’s my answer: I don’t give a rat’s ass WHAT women think anymore.
What you’re really asking is “how do *I* deal with being invisible to women”. Or, more correctly, “How do I not be invisible to women”. Well, let me tell you that “just be yourself” is the worst advice ever uttered by women or men alike.
Are you looking for a relationship? Forget American women, look overseas.
A woman for the night? Speed seduction, double-your-dating, etc.
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Re: Being ‘invisible’
Post by Name on Nov 4, 2005, 12:55am
l celebrate flying under the radar. Can go a lot further and get away with a lot more in this life.
In any event attention is not wot l want, all l want is the support of a good woman. It only takes one. Notice l said want and not need.
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Re: Being ‘invisible’
Post by John Ross on Nov 4, 2005, 8:42am
+1 that “Just be yourself” is worthless advice. Get on David DeAngelo’s “Double Your Dating” mailing list.
Here’s an article I wrote on the subject:
http://www.john-ross.net/advice.htm
JR
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Re: Being ‘invisible’
Post by DontSweatTheSmallStuff on Nov 4, 2005, 9:55am
After 35, they become increasingly invisible.
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Re: Being ‘invisible’
Post by Richie Rich on Nov 4, 2005, 10:40am
I look at the guys that are reading a book in a library, taking pictures of the landscape, those not trying to be “peacocks” to other girls.
-Agatha
You are certainly not the typical AW because most do not care about the type of man you speak of. That is why he is invisible. Now the post of fancy car and flashy clothing, that is for idiots who must have a good disposable income to waste on stupid women. Me personally, I do not abide by those rules anymore. It is probably why I am now invisible myself…..Oh well!!
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Re: Being ‘invisible’
Post by agatha on Nov 4, 2005, 4:05pm
Richie Rich,
Well, invisible to them; but that shouldn’t matter because if they’re that shallow, they aren’t worth anything, much less the space they occupy on this planet. IMO 
edit: bad spelling 4tl
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Re: Being ‘invisible’
Post by Egghead on Nov 17, 2005, 4:23pm
Nov 3, 2005, 5:46pm, Will wrote:
How do you deal with being invisible to women?
By using words like “deal with” you make it sound like being invisible to women is unpleasant. In my experience, nothing is further from the truth. I try to be invisible to women, because life is so much more pleasant that way.
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Re: Being ‘invisible’
Post by rule on Nov 18, 2005, 2:11pm
I wish I was invisible. Sad for me I was born with good genes, I am physically attractive, so they do pay attention to me. I am not bragging, just a fact. My father at 70 still has women thirty years younger throwing themselves at him.
I am so sick of American women, I wish they would just disappear. I really do. They are tragic, broken shells most of them. Why is Lilly doing so well? Because most of the female population is on Prozac.
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