Being Invincible
Being Invincible
Post by anonymous on Jan 16, 2006, 7:40pm
In my short 30 years on this planet, like many guys who have actually been active in relationships for the majority of their adult life (sadly as a programmer I know plenty of guys in my profession who I doubt have even been laid by pros), I have run the gamut of games from a lot of different types of women. After a while, it just seems really hard to take many of them seriously, especially since it is an affront to your intelligence when they actually believe you are dumb enough to fall for their tricks, just because their last ex-boyfriend Bruno did.
Nevertheless, men have emotions and feelings that can be manipulated by women at any time unless you are INVINCIBLE to them.
Now what do I mean by invincible? Well it means making sure that they cannot exploit the common insecurities inherent in the reptilian brain of all men. Women generally can’t outsmart men with logic which comes from the mammalian brain, but many of them sure can do a number on you, especially if you happen to be mesmerized by her boobies or long legs, which of course decreases your objectivity in decision making and therefore makes you vulnerable to her manipulations.
And all kinds of young guys will say “yah, yah, yah that could never happen to me, because I have my game face on all the time”, but sooner or later you may have your guard down for a fraction of a second, and the next thing you know you are about to sign marriage papers when your gut tells you RUN WHILE YOU STILL CAN!
So in my short 30 years on this planet, here are some things I think all men need to get straight in their head so as to be invincible to the manipulations of women:
(1) Being Immune To Shaming – Believe it or not, human beings are not perfect, however, if you do one thing wrong or make one mistake you will be tempted to do something wrong which will only get you in more trouble and that is lie. Why do men lie so often? Because the pain of enduring the bitching and moaning from women for not being perfect is greater than the actual shame of lying.
So how do you deal with shaming when mistakes are made. Well one thing you can do is burn the bridge back. I don’t think this is a good idea because it doesn’t acknowledge your own faults and shows that you are afraid of addressing them. You can bring up all the crap she had done or failed to do and it won’t matter because she won’t care because she will go whine to her girlfriends about everything you just said and before you know it your name will be as good as Hitler’s when they get done with you. You could go whine to your male friends, but really men just don’t care about hearing other men whine that much. They will instead say something like “hey man, I feel bad for you dude, so lets go out and go fishing or do something fun rather than sit around and mope about the drama you just had with your significant other”.
So again how do you defeat shaming? Well, all you need to do is acknowledge your fault openly and directly to her and more importantly yourself and not be excessively apologetic about it. If she starts trying to use your mistake as an excuse to manipulate you into giving into something else she desires out of you say, “hey you can complain all you want about me, but it won’t change anything. Just pretend that I am a stone, because a stone will be as unmoved as I am from your drama”. You will get called insensitive, but at least you won’t be a pussy. At that point she will either leave you out of frustration of not being able to control you, therefore sparing you a painful long-term relationship, or else she will recognize your boundaries and respect them. If she makes up imaginary faults about you such as you not being as rich as Mr. X or as buff as Mr. Y, or as sensitive and caring as Mr. Z, then she is a definite ladder climber and you need to dump her immediately. Never put up with a drama queen who finds fault in a man, even when no fault is there.
(2) Being Immune To Attacks On Your Manhood – Not talking about penis size here (will get to that later), but there are a variety of ways women will put men down and most of them center around a man’s “status”. Depending on where you live and the culture of your community, status can mean many different things. In America, for many males status usually means how much money you make and (not how much you have saved), how big your house his, how big your car is, how many people work for you, etc.
For instance, I am a partner in a software firm but I was driving a Toyota Echo at the time which I figured was a good environmentally conscious, fuel-efficient vehicle that got me from point A to point B. Certainly, not a car that anyone should be embarrassed about driving. Nevertheless, the woman I dated made some comment that “I don’t like your car and you should get a more manly vehicle like an SUV or a Truck”. Well, needless to say we didn’t date much longer after that comment because no stupid woman is going to tell this man what he should or should not be driving. Yah, maybe if I was a farmer or a guy with my own construction company then it would make sense to own a gas-guzzling truck, but nah apparently I needed the modern version of a golden chariot to make this lady happy.
So what can you do to deflect these attacks on your “social status”? Well, one thing you can do is be a 40,000 dollar a year millionaire. In other words, one of those guys who lives in a vermin infested apartment, yet dresses like a metrosexual and has a nice sports car so when he goes to clubs or goes out in public, it looks like he is wealthy and powerful, when in reality he is just some schleppe spending insane amounts of money just to get the approval of shallow women. This method sucks, because again you are allowing yourself to be vulnerable to a woman’s judgement on your social character.
So what you should do is instead do something genuinely good like join big brothers and big sisters or join a rotary club or some other organization that is selfless in nature, which actually makes you feel validated as a good person so that when the shallow status attacks occur from shallow women, you know deep down inside that your real status is who you are as a person. Another thing you can do is save your money so that over time you gain more of it and when a woman laughs at your car, you can laugh back at her confidently in a way that makes her wonder why you are jovial instead of angry from her disdain. In fact, the best thing you can do as a guy with money is to not let women know you have it. That way you will weed out a lot of the shallow princess bitches who are just looking for a meal ticket even though there will still be plenty of women in the general dating pool who you may want to weed out for other reasons. You might have to resort to dating women with real boobies and women who have not gone under the knife 10,000 times, but at least you will be with a woman who may validate herself in ways not unlike how you should validate yourself such as the quality of each other’s character.
(3) Being Immune To Attacks On Your Wardrobe – What you wear is your own choice, but if you think the clothes make the man, rather than the man making the clothes, then you have your priorities backwards. If a woman doesn’t think you dress flashy enough, or she thinks you need to “wax” all your body hair away, or else you need to spend 3 hours gelling your hair to look like Ryan Seacrest’s, then she is the one with the problem not you. Just because you could be a candidate for Queer Eye For the Straight Guy, doesn’t mean you have any business being told what to wear by women or gay men for that matter. Though some social situations require attention to detail, this does not mean you need to spend all your waking hours worrying about whether you wore the same outfit in the last two weeks.
So, what do you do when women make fun of your clothes and start trying to tell you how to dress? This is an easy answer. Tell them what you like and how you like to dress and if she starts buying clothes for you that don’t fit your style, give them back. If they do, then say thank you. I mean, what if men started telling women what they should or should not wear in today’s age? Imagine that, you would probably be imprisoned for life for being a controlling boyfriend/husband, yet women think they have free reign over your wardrobe. Just pretend you never ever heard their ridiculous fashion advice and ignore them. Wear stuff that feels comfortable and that you think makes you look good and believe it or not a decent outfit at a low-cost discount store can be found for $40 dollars. It might not have brand-name logos on it which quadruple the cost of the clothes, but you still look just as good. I know some Ethiopian guys who don’t make a lot of money, but being Africans, they still like to dress flashy, so you would be amazed how clean cut and good looking you can still be on a tight budget if you are a little creative.
(4) Being Immune To Attacks On Your Physical Stature – Then there is your physical appearance. Yah it is no secret that women generally prefer men taller than themselves and women generally prefer men who are in good shape. No shit sherlock, men feel the same way. However, many women make zero effort at keeping their own butt in shape, yet feel they deserve a handsome well-toned man because they are BBW because Oprah said so. Though it is pretty hard as an adult to go from five foot five to six foot three, any man can get his butt in shape with just an hour of lifting a week. In fact, I just do 6 10 minute workouts a week and keep it consistent and keep getting muscle gains like crazy. For cardio, I go play a sport like soccer (my favorite) or basketball sometimes and you don’t have to kill yourself to have a good physique. In fact, the guys who over train themselves are the ones who get the least results and since they tend to get the most discouraged, they quit a positive lifestyle choice of staying in good physical shape. Unless you happen to be in the moving, logging, or construction business, the odds are you won’t be carrying a lot of heavy objects around and even then a little bit of lifting might help you out in the long run. So, if you are buff, a woman can’t make you feel weak or unmanly because you know when you look in the mirror or when you curl that iron, you know that you are not weak and that she is just delusional or playing mind games.
And what if you are going bald? That is easy, go cueball or get a hair transplant or just take better care of yourself. Many men lose their hair prematurely due to bad diet, bad health habits (smoking/drinking), and not taking their vitamins and not getting enough exercise. If your lack of hair bothers you, do something about it before too many people notice because in today’s world men have options and not all of them are prohibitively expensive anymore.
(5) Being Immune To Attacks On Your The Size Of Your Genitalia – You could be Bill Gates and have all the power in the world, but if you have a small wang, you can be crushed by the cackle of a woman who sees you disrobed. It is primal, it is unfair, it is probably just evolution at work, but SIZE DOES MATTER. It probably matters more to men than it does to women, but it nevertheless can have a HUGE effect on a man’s confidence and there are statistics that show men who feel they are “well hung” get laid three times as often as guys who think they are “average” or “below average”. Plus, if you want to go to shallow extremes of body image, all you have to do is look at porn. How many average sized guys are out there in the porn business versus the Peter North’s of the world? And even though the porn business uses wide-angle camera lenses and other tricks to make a man’s penis look a lot bigger than it really is, you still need a nice sized dong to make it in the porn business. Why is that? Well because guys with small wangs are ridiculed by both guys and gals and the reason why they are ridiculed is because people know that kind of ridicule works and anyone not supremely confident about the size of their package is vulnerable.
So what do you do if you were not graced by god with a large reproductive tool? Well, one is to know the myths from the realities when it comes to penis size as there are men who are quite well hung, but due to maybe being really tall, their wangs do not look proportionally as large as some porn stars who are short and skinny yet have proportionally huge wangs. So just knowing where you truly stand in terms of penis size is important.
Secondly, if a woman says she has been with a 10 incher or greater, then she is probably lying, especially if she is fat because any smart guy knows all fat girls lie about the penis size of past sexual partners (real or fictitious). Also, women are horrible at estimating spacial dimensions (guys excel at this and women suck at it), so they almost always overestimate a guy by an inch or two at the least even when they are trying to be honest. Last but not least, you need to realize that 10 inches is overkill since the average vagina depth of most women is 5-6 inches unaroused and 6-7 inches when fully aroused. So if the guy is 10 inches, then that means he has to be somewhat careful not to bang her cervix the wrong way. He can still do deep penetration (click here if you don’t know what I mean http://www.penissizedebate.com), but then again so can a guy who is 7-8 inches. And sadly, due to the growing fat pads of American men and women but especially women, every 20-30 pounds of excess fat can add an inch of fat pad to each partner. So basically, if she is 60 pounds overweight, then you might as well lop off a couple inches off your penis. The same goes for men as well so one of the best ways to make your penis relatively larger is just to lose weight and not get involved with fat girls. If girth is an issue, then she can do kegels to tighten her pussy up. After all, a tight fit depends on both the size of the peg and the size of the hole. If after all of that you still feel inadequate, then you can make your penis bigger through hard work and dedication through PE (penis enlargement). Pills won’t do shit and most expensive devices won’t do much either, but you can make your unit bigger over time. In the last three years, I have gone from under 5 inches to around 8.5 inches in size which is like going from small to big enough to bottom out most women. Regardless of whether you are a player, or monogamous like me, this will give you a huge confidence boost in life and make you immune to the dick size comments women often throw at guys as a last resort. If you want to know all you can about NPE (Natural Penis Enlargement) you can go to a free no-nonsense, no ads, PE community at http://www.thundersplace.org and read up on your own. The more you put into it, the more you get out of it and yes stretching your dick every day seems like a huge waste of time, but then again letting women manipulate your psyche with size comments is far, far worse if you ask me. Get a nicely sized tool and you can laugh in her face while she stares at your bulge.
Anyways, I could write a lot more, but there are all kinds of other things men can do to make themselves INVINCIBLE to the mind games women play on men (especially dolts not smart enough to see through their bullshit) in one way or another. Maybe, other forum members can post ideas they have so as to be invincible to being socially manipulated by women besides of course the obvious “just ignore them”. Sorry, like it or not they are half of the human population out there so you have to deal with them whether you like it or not, even if you don’t want to have relationships with them.
So really what other ideas do people have so as to be INVINCIBLE to the manipulations of women?
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Re: Being Invincible
Post by Guest on Jan 16, 2006, 9:12pm
>>> So really what other ideas do people have so as to be INVINCIBLE to the manipulations of women?
How about we just forget about interacting with these worthless whores called “American women”? Leave them to be used and abused by the bad boys they love so much. It’s not safe to fish in polluted waters.
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Re: Being Invincible
Post by uszername on Jan 16, 2006, 9:33pm
For me, basically grow a backbone and steel balls. That applies not only, but rather, especially, to women. Men do all the ego shit just as much as women however methinks everyone’s ego is more vulnerable to jibes from their opposite sex.
Living for the approval of others = big mistake.
Agreed we are human, we have egos and its much easier said than done.
Essentially having stuff in your life that gives you self worth and a strong identity is the only answer in the end. Everything else is either a variation or method of that theme.
Its entirely personal how one achieves that self worth. The simplest advice is to develop your own compass, write your own script and get out and do stuff in the world.
Half the people will hate you and half will love you for it. Whatever to that shiat.
He who pleases everyone pleases no one.
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Re: Being Invincible
Post by Pugnatious on Jan 16, 2006, 9:50pm
anonymous
Too complicated.
1. If they act like reasonable human being and DON’T PLAY GAMES, then give them the time of day.
2. If they don’t, leave them in the dust.
You don’t have to defend yourself to anyone.
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Re: Being Invincible
Post by Atlantis on Jan 17, 2006, 12:26am
This guy is ‘TireOfIt’ just posting under a different name, I recognize his bullshit posts straight away.
Fine, be ‘invincible’, all it is gonna get you is a lifetime of loneliness because you’ll come across women as having a chip on your shoulder and having an axe to grind.
You think that by being like this you are ‘powerful’ and a ‘macho man’ but in reality you are just an oddball who has gone against the current of society and will pay the price.
If you so sure of what you have written, why don’t you publish it? Somehow I don’t think you will as the press is going to savage you and shot you down.
Good luck being ‘invisible.’
BTW that is one of Michael Jackson’s albums: ‘Invincible’ pity because it bombed with listeners and didn’t sell.
You have been watching too much “Smallville”… Bye.
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Re: Being Invincible
Post by AppleJack on Jan 17, 2006, 12:35am
Jan 17, 2006, 12:26am, Atlantis wrote:This guy is ‘TireOfIt’ just posting under a different name, I recognize his bullshit posts straight away.
Fine, be ‘invincible’, all it is gonna get you is a lifetime of loneliness because you’ll come across women as having a chip on your shoulder and having an axe to grind.
You think that by being like this you are ‘powerful’ and a ‘macho man’ but in reality you are just an oddball who has gone against the current of society and will pay the price.
If you so sure of what you have written, why don’t you publish it? Somehow I don’t think you will as the press is going to savage you and shot you down.
Good luck being ‘invisible.’BTW that is one of Michael Jackson’s albums: ‘Invincible’ pity because it bombed with listeners and didn’t sell.
You have been watching too much “Smallville”… Bye.
Are you getting any treatment for your multiple personality disorder? If anyone here is posting under a myriad of names, it would be you.
Were you in special education classes by any chance, troll?
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Re: Being Invincible
Post by Mr T on Jan 17, 2006, 12:36am
Why care about women if you plan on being single and never marry anyway?, this advice then is not needed.
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Re: Being Invincible
Post by AppleJack on Jan 17, 2006, 12:42am
Jan 17, 2006, 12:36am, Mr T wrote:Why care about women if you plan on being single and never marry anyway?, this advice then is not needed.
Quite obviously you couldn’t get yourself a husband. lol
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Re: Being Invincible
Post by capa on Jan 17, 2006, 12:54am
Jan 17, 2006, 12:36am, Mr T wrote:Why care about women if you plan on being single and never marry anyway?, this advice then is not needed.
Seriously. I mean, mutilating your penis to try to please women? Some of your points were good, but the day we all start stretching our penises is the day they can declare victory.
Anyway, even if you had the largest/most perfectly sized penis on Earth, it wouldn’t keep any woman satisfied in the long term. It’s their nature. What they want changes from moment to moment and when some hot bad boy catches her eye, she’s gone. For them, there’s always a bigger, better deal.
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Re: Being Invincible
Post by travis on Jan 17, 2006, 12:56am
Mr T obviously misread the OP. I guess having all that gold hanging around his neck is fucking up his blood flow to his brain. 
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Re: Being Invincible
Post by sirchancealot on Jan 17, 2006, 10:41am
Size matters TO SOME WOMEN. I have never, and I mean NEVER, met a “size queen” who was not a psycho nut-case. (Believe me, I’ve met a lot of them.) The interesting thing about size queens is that they NEVER take proactive action to tighten themselves up, which can be done a lot easier than increasing the size of your penis. Can you make your penis bigger? Yep. It’s called “jelqing”, and it was originated in Arabia if I remember correctly.
Almost all guys are average…BY DEFINITION. If she is questioning your size, you have to wonder how many guys she’s fucked, because by real terms, most of the guys she’s fucked have been AVERAGE size.
Since I can make a chick come without touching below her waist, or by only touching her hand, or by only talking to her, I don’t give a shit what a woman thinks about my “average” penis. What, hon? You don’t want pleasure you have never even imagined in your wildest fantasies, let alone experienced? Fine by me.
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Re: Being Invincible
Post by anonymous on Jan 17, 2006, 3:00pm
Jan 17, 2006, 10:41am, sirchancealot wrote:Size matters TO SOME WOMEN. I have never, and I mean NEVER, met a “size queen” who was not a psycho nut-case. (Believe me, I’ve met a lot of them.) The interesting thing about size queens is that they NEVER take proactive action to tighten themselves up, which can be done a lot easier than increasing the size of your penis. Can you make your penis bigger? Yep. It’s called “jelqing”, and it was originated in Arabia if I remember correctly.
Almost all guys are average…BY DEFINITION. If she is questioning your size, you have to wonder how many guys she’s fucked, because by real terms, most of the guys she’s fucked have been AVERAGE size.
Since I can make a chick come without touching below her waist, or by only touching her hand, or by only talking to her, I don’t give a shit what a woman thinks about my “average’ penis. What, hon? You don’t want pleasure you have never even imagined in your wildest fantasies, let alone experienced? Fine by me.
I agree with all of that, especially about size queens, but the point is that if you know you are not lacking in the size department, then you can’t be cut down with a “small penis” comment. The reason women, or people for that matter, make small dick jokes and insults at men is because it actually works in making them feel inferior. I don’t know how big your dick is, nor do I care but many men are privately terrified of women seeing them in full frontal form for fear she will tell other people someday about the size of his genitalia. Maybe, if you are average or a little above average, then this is not something that will make sense to you, but for guys below average, a “small dick” comment is hitting them below the belt without a cup on.
And dick stretching is not mutilation any more than exercising and lifting weights to get more muscle is mutilation. It is not what I would call extreme body modding and since it doesn’t involve surgery (which is bad), it is just something you can do to overcome your size fears with women.
It is something primal and it affects some people more than others, but if you have a small one as a teenager then the odds are you will find any excuse to get out of showering with other people after gym, football practice, or whatever just because of something stuck in the back of your brain that tells you “if anyone knows you have a small dick, then your life is finished”.
I know it sounds ridiculous, but this is a fact of life for more men than you might believe and for them they can either do something about this hidden insecurity that makes their life hell in relationships, or they can just be afraid of some woman making a “small dick” comment to them.
And I do know physically going from under 5 to over 8 inches in length and going from around 4.5 to 5.5 inches in circumference, that it makes sex a hell of a lot more enjoyable and you feel a hell of a lot more confident in bed since you don’t have to worry about it slipping out every other minute (very frustrating for the lady) and you don’t have to try so hard at grinding her and she doesn’t have to try so hard at grinding you (so that it does not fall out) that you can actually enjoy sex, rather than having to concentrate all the time on her pleasure or vice versa just because any wrong move by either of you will mean your dick slips out.
Hey, I know the difference and I would not be even mentioning it here if I didn’t think it was something positive and huge that I chose to do which made a beneficial impact on my confidence in bed as well as my physical abilities. Being able to hit the cul-de-sac in a woman when engaging in deep penetration is just such a great feeling, and if you are not long enough you just cannot physically get there unless either she is shallow enough or you are long enough.
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Re: Being Invincible
Post by ed on Jan 17, 2006, 4:18pm
Thanks anonymous, this advice is appreciated. I’ve never worried about the size, but I have had problems with “slippage”. I’ll read up on this, I thought all these methods were bullshit.
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Re: Being Invincible
Post by anonymous on Jan 17, 2006, 7:45pm
Jan 17, 2006, 4:18pm, ed wrote:Thanks anonymous, this advice is appreciated. I’ve never worried about the size, but I have had problems with “slippage”. I’ll read up on this, I thought all these methods were bullshit.
If it is advertised, then it is bullshit. http://www.thundersplace.org is a great site discussing all these issues and there is http://www.mattersofsize.com as well, though I think that site is really going down in quality due to the operator of the site (DLD) basically turning an otherwise good NPE site into a shrine dedicated to himself. Either way, you might find some good info in past threads.
I would say the guys over at Thunders probably have a 30-40 IQ advantage over the people at MattersOfSize, but maybe that is because the mods are more stringent on spelling and trolling at Thunders. There are other sites as well, but those are the two big ones I would pay attention to. Thunders actually prides itself on having no commercial affiliations and commonly bans people for trying to promote their commercial wares in its forums.
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