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Immature Guys and Dating …
Post by Megan on Dec 18, 2005, 6:44pm

We really do need a dating section on this website.

So Friday night I go to a birthday happy hour for my best friend. Another friend of hers invites some people from her office–the more the merrier is our motto. One of the guys is SO FREAKING CUTE. So my type. Kind of on the boyish end of my spectrum (which tends to be pretty broad), but he has that Bob Hope Ski Slope nose that I adore (I had a huge girlhood crush on Mr. Hope).

He’s a mess. A mess. He kind of has no social skills–did I mention he’s a software engineer, which explains a lot (sorry to all of those techies out there). He is desperately seeking attention and drinking a little more than I prefer a guy to drink. I think he’s nervous and is trying to loosen up. He does very juvenile things like randomly taking the pepper shaker and just eating pepper, just shakes it right down his throat. Also eats a couple of packets of Splenda, that sugar substitute. I sort of deadpan “I like Splenda, too, but I generally put it in iced tea.” He gallantly offers me a packet to consume. I repeat myself.

Sigh. He’s too young for me anyway. He’s 29, I’m 39, so that is just someplace I won’t go to begin with, but if he had acted like a big boy, I might have considered a fling. He was definitely into me. I am not so stunted that I do not recognize this.

He reminds me of this guy I knew in college who did weird things just to get attention. Of course, this guy was was 19 years old, not about to be 30 in just a month or so. This wasn’t macho good looking guy asshole behavior, it was clearly awkward doesn’t get out much and craves attention behavior.

I told my friend later as we were lamenting what a waste of good man flesh he was that you would think the cuteness would cancel out the poor social skills, but it actually doesn’t work that way. The cuteness amplifies what a train wreck he is.

Thank God I am so jaded that I do not see him as a project and feel sorry for him and want to fix him. Thank God for that. I would have made him a project at one point in my life. I told my friend that I hoped someday that someone would tell him that he was a very, very good looking guy and basically funny, but to stop it. Just stop it.

He’s hot, but at some point you have to take him out in public, where you get the Splenda eating and the juvenile lewd remarks that pass for flirting.
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Re: Immature Guys and Dating …
Post by GuestWill on Dec 18, 2005, 6:48pm

Looks like he isn’t searching for your approval.

What a shame! ;)
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Re: Immature Guys and Dating …
Post by travis on Dec 18, 2005, 6:52pm

“We really do need a dating section on this website.” ~Megan

As they say on another site: LURK MOAR

This makes me wonder though. What’s worse to a woman: a man who says nothing or a man who says stupid shit?
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Re: Immature Guys and Dating …
Post by LivinFree on Dec 18, 2005, 6:54pm

Megs he prob did annoying shit like that so that you wouldn’t like him. I do this all the time to ugly girls. It works.
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Re: Immature Guys and Dating …
Post by thechief on Dec 18, 2005, 7:12pm

You know, I understand it can get kind of dull around here. I’ll be the first to admit that at times we agree with ourselves in a self-congratulatory way a little too often, that there isn’t enough dissent and (civil) debate to keep things interesting, that at times this place feels entirely too much like one big circle jerk.

But still, whichever of you guys keeps impersonating women like this…enough is enough.
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Re: Immature Guys and Dating …
Post by GuestWill on Dec 18, 2005, 7:15pm

Dec 18, 2005, 7:12pm, thechief wrote:You know, I understand it can get kind of dull around here. I’ll be the first to admit that at times we agree with ourselves in a self-congratulatory way a little too often, that there isn’t enough dissent and (civil) debate to keep things interesting, that at times this place feels entirely too much like one big circle jerk.

But still, whichever of you guys keeps impersonating women like this…enough is enough.

If a guy is impersonating women, he is doing a great job.

This is exactly how women think. Thank God I have been armed with information about how women think, because it is going to save me thousands of dollars and lots of headaches and heartache.
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Better chances outside the western world…
Post by logic101 on Dec 18, 2005, 7:19pm

Dec 18, 2005, 6:44pm, Megan wrote:We really do need a dating section on this website.

Actually, “Megan” is correct. Except we need a dating section for squared away men. Non-westernized foreign women would be the preferred choice outside of America, Canada, Australia and western Europe. More men would finally realize what a real woman who knows her family role is all about.

-Logic 101
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Re: Immature Guys and Dating …
Post by guest on Dec 18, 2005, 8:38pm

1) He was bored.
2) He didn’t give a sh*t about what you thought.

If he’s hot, he has no need for a 39 year old.
He can bang a hotter 20, 25, or 30 year old.

Did he address you as ,”excuse me ma’am” ?
B/c the fact that “behave, there is pussy around” didn’t even REGISTER in his mind.
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Re: Immature Guys and Dating …
Post by GuestWill on Dec 18, 2005, 8:42pm

When men don’t act appropriately around women, it upsets them because a guy is basically saying ” I don’t respect you enough to care what you think”.

And when that happens, a woman has LOST, and that frustrates her and her ego.
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Re: Immature Guys and Dating …
Post by MC Larry on Dec 18, 2005, 8:47pm

Make him a project huh?

I swear, the arrogance of AW these days never ceases to amaze me.
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Re: Immature Guys and Dating …
Post by chrisvet on Dec 18, 2005, 10:35pm

blow the hot air out of your bubble butt Megan, he wasn’t trying to impress you, and you’re labia ain’t laced with gold.

Probably stretch marks, cellulite, varicose veins, and jaw breaker sized hemorrhoids.
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Re: Immature Guys and Dating …
Post by Never Again on Dec 18, 2005, 10:59pm

Megan,

This society is still a Patriarchy last time I checked….
right off the bat you assume he gives a Rat’s ass about you.

Most women think they have the Golden Purse…

Wrong again…

It looks pretty much the same in fact we say it is a ….

Honey Hoe, Camel Toe, Roast Beef Hang….
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Re: Immature Guys and Dating …
Post by patr3 on Dec 19, 2005, 1:32pm

He probably wasn’t “into” her. He was probably flirting with a few women that night.

If she is 39, she was probably his backup plan.
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Re: Immature Guys and Dating …
Post by JimP on Dec 19, 2005, 2:24pm

A list of things about this post that really make me sick, #3 being least sickening and #1 being the most sickening.

#3. A 39 year old female actually thought that a good looking 29 year old guy with a good job would be interested in her.

#2. If he was an American man, she could have been right.

#1. If she was right, the fact that guy said to her anything other than “well grandma, if you really feel that you deserve to suck my cock, I might let you do it, but you’ll have to wear a paper bag over your head”
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Re: Immature Guys and Dating …
Post by antiriad on Dec 19, 2005, 3:15pm

At 39 I can see how an ignorant skank would be desperate/delusional enough to assume that a 29 year old guy would be “into her” simply because he was acting in a way which she found “awkward.”

To such a person I would say: enjoy your cats, harpy.
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Re: Immature Guys and Dating …
Post by Guest on Dec 20, 2005, 11:58am

Dec 18, 2005, 7:12pm, thechief wrote:
But still, whichever of you guys keeps impersonating women like this…enough is enough.

Those other postings you talk about were obvious parodies, but this one seems very real. This is the exact kind of garbage I would expect to spew out of the mouth of an old skank. One giveaway is the entitlement attitude, that she expects just because she finds a guy to be “hot” that he should be interested in her and should behave the way she wants him to. The fucking bitch doesn’t even know the guy and already she wants to control him and change him into the kind of man she wants him to be.
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Re: Immature Guys and Dating …
Post by knighterrant on Dec 20, 2005, 7:25pm

Yeah Megan, suck it up.
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Re: Immature Guys and Dating …
Post by AGuest on Dec 21, 2005, 1:18pm

Dec 20, 2005, 7:25pm, knighterrant wrote:Yeah Megan, suck it up.

That’s what all women need to do, and in more ways than one.
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Re: Immature Guys and Dating …
Post by kenbarbie on Dec 21, 2005, 6:37pm

a 39 year old unmarried AW? Let me guess: do you drive an suv and are always on your cell phone? How come at 39 you are not married? Your stock has been dropping dramatically the last 9 years and now no one probably wants you. No sane 29 year old man would “settle” for a washed up AW with baggage unless he’s truly an idiot.
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