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Selfish & lazy in bed?

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Selfish & lazy in bed?
Post by ShellGarden on Jan 13, 2006, 6:19am

The media loves to portray men as selfish lovers who’re concerned only with their own pleasure. However, in my opinion it’s women who are, by and large, the most selfish.

Why do I say that? Because most women do absolutely nothing during sex. They just lie on their asses and expect the man to do all of the work. The entire sex act has degenerated into men doing everything in their power (licking, sucking, stroking, and thrusting) to get a woman off while she does virtually nothing in return.

If she doesn’t enjoy herself, it’s his fault. If he doesn’t enjoy himself, that’s also his fault, and of little concern to her; his pleasure is merely ancillary to her own. Men brag constantly about their ability to get women off. A “real man” should be able to please his women, so the thinking goes. Women almost never brag to other women about, for example, what good cock-suckers they are.

Most women expect you to go down on them without hesitation. But when it comes time to return the favor, watch out! Plenty of women outright refuse to give head, and of the ones that do, most absolutely refuse to swallow the resulting ejaculate–even from their own husbands! Imagine if men reacted the same way and complained about the smell or taste of her vagina and its secretions? She’d be off crying in the bathroom.

What’s most bizarre about all of this is that many of these same women are convinced they have some sort of sexual prowess. I once knew such a woman who boasted that she could “go for hours.” Go where, exactly? You don’t do anything. You just lie on your ass. I too can lie on my ass for hours and do nothing; there’s hardly anything remarkable about that.
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Re: Selfish & lazy in bed?
Post by zed on Jan 13, 2006, 7:15am

What to do with starfishes? Toss them out.
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Re: Selfish & lazy in bed?
Post by morpheus on Jan 13, 2006, 10:13am

Ooooookaaayyy… interesting rant. :D Regrettably, I don’t have that much personal experience on the matter but it squares with what other forum posters report.

For my part, I’m just getting used to the idea that it’s okay for men to want sex. According to the media exposure I’ve had had all my life, men are bad and wrong for feeling sexual urges; it’s a horrible burden on a woman to have to provide sex for her man.
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Re: Selfish & lazy in bed?
Post by SingleMan on Jan 13, 2006, 1:34pm

These type of women are the “chuck” in “fuck and chuck”. If a woman sucks in bed, just don’t fuck her anymore! It is great though when one of these women who you have already slept with comes up to you and asks if you want to go to her place. Saying, “Umm, no I’ll pass” is soooo fucking great. They can’t believe that you just turned down sex with them!

That was when I knew I had come a long way from a nice guy.
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Re: Selfish & lazy in bed?
Post by King Karan on Jan 13, 2006, 1:42pm

That happened to me in an elevator. After a night of conversation, dancing, drinks, chatting with other people at a function, etc. I said I am not interested. She thought I was joking. Then 10 minutes later, she could not believe that I pressed 9 (my floor) together with 6 (her floor), her face turned red. I guess it was a mixture of anger and disbelief. It is a great sight.
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Re: Selfish & lazy in bed?
Post by TyHigs on Jan 13, 2006, 1:43pm

If a woman doesnt believe in doing her part in bed, then you need to get rid of her immediately. Likewise if she has a problem swallowing.

As I’ve said before, I USED to chat with women on aol. This one girl from CT said she will not ever go down on a man. It’s unladylike. Then she asked if I would go down on a woman. I said ‘if she’s not going to return the favor, then certainly not.’ Then she says in a stern voice “EITHER YOU GO DOWN OR YOU DONT.” I hung up on her a couple of seconds later, after it clicked “this girl is a super-bitch, selfish, ungiving, and a cunt.”

I could see then I was just dealing with a spoiled brat. She hadn’t had a BF since the father of her baby broke up with her. Gee, wonder why? A nasty attitude and an illegitimate child. Say goodbye to that fairytale $100,000 wedding you had.
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Re: Selfish & lazy in bed?
Post by Evergreen on Jan 13, 2006, 1:50pm

Jan 13, 2006, 1:34pm, SingleMan wrote:These type of women are the “chuck” in “fuck and chuck”. If a woman sucks in bed, just don’t fuck her anymore! It is great though when one of these women who you have already slept with comes up to you and asks if you want to go to her place. Saying, “Umm, no I’ll pass” is soooo fucking great. They can’t believe that you just turned down sex with them!

That was when I knew I had come a long way from a nice guy.

Yep, fuck and chuck them lazy sluts. If they tell me they don’t blow(I wouldn’t even bother) or they don’t blow me within the 2nd or 3rd(if its the same night) time, I chuck them.
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Re: Selfish & lazy in bed?
Post by knighterrant on Jan 13, 2006, 2:08pm

And then they say they love sex as much as we do? hahahaha
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Re: Selfish & lazy in bed?
Post by travis on Jan 13, 2006, 7:00pm

Jan 13, 2006, 6:19am, ShellGarden wrote:Why do I say that? Because most women do absolutely nothing during sex. They just lie on their asses and expect the man to do all of the work. The entire sex act has degenerated into men doing everything in their power (licking, sucking, stroking, and thrusting) to get a woman off while she does virtually nothing in return.

Yeah, and when they’re tired of just laying there but you haven’t finished, they refuse to finish you off and if you continue even though she’s tired, you’re a rapist. Reminds me of the story bgrove talked about, or a similar story by a comedian, who held up the microphone stand at an angle to describe his erection and to show that he wasn’t finished even though his girl told him to get off her, and she was like, “I dunno, read a book or something.”

Quote:Imagine if men reacted the same way and complained about the smell or taste of her vagina and its secretions? She’d be off crying in the bathroom.

Reminds me of a story someone wrote on a particular livejournal community. He was going down on this girl but didn’t like it cuz of the odor, but before he was going to pull his face away she wrapped her legs around him and more or less trapped him, and he ended up vomiting. Ugh, those lezbos in porn make carpet munching look so easy though.
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Re: Selfish & lazy in bed?
Post by uzername on Jan 14, 2006, 12:54am

The sooner we learn to listen to a womans actions and take all the words with a grain of salt the happier men will be and one step closer to truth.

All their fluff and flurry of rationalisations and justifications are for their own consumption… self administered medication so to speak. There is no need to embrace their psychological and emotional issues. And there is certainly no need to swallow THEIR medicine if you are healthy. Learn to larf fellas. Its much, much easier than the pointless alternative.
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Re: Selfish & lazy in bed?
Post by Evergreen on Jan 14, 2006, 12:15pm

Jan 13, 2006, 2:08pm, knighterrant wrote:And then they say they love sex as much as we do? hahahaha

They also need lots of control by men. That’s why you see AW/WW go for thugs, assholes and players. They will always blow them for sure. ;)
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Re: Selfish & lazy in bed?
Post by Disconnect on Jan 14, 2006, 5:58pm

Quote:And then they say they love sex as much as we do? hahahaha

They also need lots of control by men. That’s why you see AW/WW go for thugs, assholes and players. They will always blow them for sure.

I’m tired of the stupid bullshit about women’s sex drive. Normal women, without complexes and baggage, love sex as much as you do. The difference is:

1) most women won’t show it to everyone, unless she’s an open slut. Every woman is a slut in secret, except everyone shames them for it, so they hide it.

2) She’s not ready to fuck 24/7. You must turn her on. It’s the concept of ‘game’.
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  1. This is all bullshit and every man on here is clueless.

    Leslie

    April 14, 2012 at 4:45 am

  2. I just had my worst sexual experience with a woman.This girl just laid there on her asses.she just laid there like a piece of wood.she wont ride on top,No doggy ,no head ,I asked her to lie sideways so i could come from behind.The way she did it made me so angry ,angry that I lost my erection.what the fuck.gal like this don’t deserve to be fucked.I even asked her to fold her arms around me for our missionary position she didn’t do it,Meanwhile when we met she told she has dated before so I thought she may be a little good at it,May her ex left her because of that,No man shd tolerate.I am adding being good in bed to my next list of requirement for dating ,if u suck then u r out.

    Mike

    March 11, 2013 at 10:18 pm

    • Maybe she just didn’t like you. It doesn’t seem like there’s a lot to like there.

      Teri

      February 23, 2014 at 7:21 am

  3. I’m a bloke and although I’ve been fortunate (or perhaps even unfortunate) to have dated around 20 women in my life and actually only had sex with about 10 of them – Iwould have to 100% agree with ShellGarden that in my experience the women I have had sex with were all lazy cunts.

    They all love money and being spoiled, as if it were their God-given right.

    I have often lied to them afterwards stating that the sex was good but I only said that so as not to offend – especially to the woman I have been with for the past 3 and half years. I quit having sex with her on Boxing Day 2010. That was after being with her for 9 months!

    After that I realised that she was just a lazy self-centred useless bitch. It just used to lay there enjoying it while I exhausted myself and couldn’t wait to get finished.

    I have since discovered that if she’s happy and all is okay for her then that’s sweet – FOR HER!

    I’m almost 55 years of age now and will never even think about having sex with her again – not in this lifetime or any other.

    She’s also got an excuse for EVERYTHING!

    When it comes to lazy women in bed – THIS ONE MIGHT WELL TAKE THE BISCUIT.

    I believe that many women get the idea that us men are here to keep them happy and satisfy them. And while I genuinely like to help others and make all others happy generally in all aspects of life when and where possible – I refuse to be a mug and waste my energy trying to please any women in bed. I’d much sooner have a quick knock-a-about any day of the week!

    As the old saying goes, “let ‘m go and fuck ‘emselves.”

    Apologies for the swear words – it’s my way of expressing myself!

    Before I go I just wanted to mention that my secret nickname for her is, “Heart of Stone”.

    She has no feelings and is about as warm as dead kipper! It could be worse – she could actually smell like one – although I couldn’t tell ya for sure, as I haven’t been near that region for almost 3 years and won’t ever be likely to either!

    Marco Caleta

    September 4, 2013 at 9:34 am

    • I haven’t been 100% truthful, one of those women I was with in 1996 for 18 months was a really good looker and was a half-decent shag and would at least bend over on all fours without any prompting. As far as sluts go – she was okay after a I’d had good splosh-up with the boys.

      She couldn’t get home quick enough for bunk up but alas, after the deed was over she didn’t want to know.

      She basically used me and EXPECTED that I should fuck her. To be fair, I was happy to oblige!

      One time I had gotton into a pub brawl and hurt someone in self-defense. I was bothered by it for hours afterwards and didn’t want to have sex that night, so she called a taxi and asked me to leave.

      I suppose that might be a typical example of a selfish slut that just wants shagging!

      Marco Caleta

      September 4, 2013 at 10:03 am

  4. Its so true and the one who deny it a the ones we are talking about don’t know why men bother even talking to women sometimes no wonder a lot of men go gay

    guess

    February 22, 2014 at 4:31 pm


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