A discussion on foreign brides with buddy’s wife
A discussion on foreign brides with buddy’s wife
Post by TyHigs on Feb 14, 2006, 2:49pm
tyhigs (2/12/2006 4:07:27 PM): im undecided between getting a degree in something international, like nursing, and working in europe to have a new GF every 2 wks
tyhigs (2/12/2006 4:07:40 PM): or just importing a chech/hungarian girl
tyhigs (2/12/2006 4:07:45 PM): to marry
Deb xyz (2/12/2006 4:07:59 PM): god
tyhigs (2/12/2006 4:08:10 PM): god what?
Deb xyz (2/12/2006 4:08:26 PM): Mail Order a bride
tyhigs (2/12/2006 4:08:38 PM): you are prejudiced
tyhigs (2/12/2006 4:08:47 PM):
tyhigs (2/12/2006 4:08:56 PM): they have money there
tyhigs (2/12/2006 4:09:08 PM): i didnt say russia or philippines
tyhigs (2/12/2006 4:09:28 PM): czech and hungary are almost on the level of spain
tyhigs (2/12/2006 4:09:40 PM): i’d marry a german girl but they are cold hearted
tyhigs (2/12/2006 4:09:59 PM): and french girls are known to have affairs
tyhigs (2/12/2006 4:10:09 PM): im not looking to marry some impoverished woman
Deb xyz (2/12/2006 4:10:12 PM): All women have affairs
Deb xyz (2/12/2006 4:10:17 PM): If they are not happy
tyhigs (2/12/2006 4:10:24 PM): i want a woman who wants me for me, not cause i can rescue her from poverty
tyhigs (2/12/2006 4:11:01 PM): a mail order bride is when you look at a catalog, pick the girl out, then go marry her in one trip
tyhigs (2/12/2006 4:11:23 PM): i’d live there for a few months in a smaller town in hungary, get to know the girl
tyhigs (2/12/2006 4:11:35 PM): and if she’d make a good wife, i’d marry her
tyhigs (2/12/2006 4:11:43 PM): there will be no marriage broker
Deb xyz (2/12/2006 4:11:54 PM): Strange
tyhigs (2/12/2006 4:12:05 PM): it’d be the same way people meet and marry in the states
tyhigs (2/12/2006 4:12:19 PM): except i’d go to europe in order to hope to meet that girl
tyhigs (2/12/2006 4:12:25 PM): whats so strange about that?
Deb xyz (2/12/2006 4:12:51 PM): Just does
Deb xyz (2/12/2006 4:13:51 PM): Just the whole notion
Deb xyz (2/12/2006 4:13:51 PM): Cant meet a nice girl here?
tyhigs (2/12/2006 4:14:15 PM): i dont like the cultural beliefs ameircan women have
Deb xyz (2/12/2006 4:14:49 PM): I didnt realize that “love” was dictated by a persons wealth I guess
tyhigs (2/12/2006 4:15:01 PM): you lost me there
tyhigs (2/12/2006 4:15:18 PM): why’d you say that?
tyhigs (2/12/2006 4:15:25 PM): i wasnt talking about that
Deb xyz (2/12/2006 4:16:02 PM): You don’t want to marry a girl in poverty
Deb xyz (2/12/2006 4:16:23 PM): Even if you loved her?
Deb xyz (2/12/2006 4:16:32 PM): Seems like you would want to rescue her
tyhigs (2/12/2006 4:17:21 PM): it would be impossible to tell if she wanted to marry me to escape poverty or because she loved me. the whole issue can be avoided by going to a country that has a decent amount of wealth
Deb xyz (2/12/2006 4:18:42 PM): Well, all I can say is I am glad Terry wasnt concerned about my bank balance when we met!
tyhigs (2/12/2006 4:18:46 PM): they’dd do anything to leave
tyhigs (2/12/2006 4:18:57 PM): im not concerned about a woman’s bank balance
Deb xyz (2/12/2006 4:20:36 PM): I know what you mean, you’re still weird to me but if your a friend of Terry’s thats ok, he is weird too…I need to go paint my nails…its a girl thang lol
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Re: A discussion on foreign brides with buddy’s wi
Post by openeyes on Feb 14, 2006, 3:21pm
So your friend’s wife says all women have affairs. Does your friend know this? Also, she seems to be stuck on the idea of money because she won’t even let herself consider the aspect of culture/personality you brought up.
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Re: A discussion on foreign brides with buddy’s wi
Post by Truthslayer on Feb 14, 2006, 3:25pm
So your friend’s wife says all women have affairs.
*Hmmm, unless I’m wrong, she’s not gonna have an affair unless SHE’S happy–how will HER husband keep her happy? Does any man here know how to keep an American woman happy?
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Re: A discussion on foreign brides with buddy’s wi
Post by antiriad on Feb 14, 2006, 3:34pm
Feb 14, 2006, 3:25pm, Truthslayer wrote:So your friend’s wife says all women have affairs. *Hmmm, unless I’m wrong, she’s not gonna have an affair unless SHE’S happy–how will HER husband keep her happy? Does any man here know how to keep an American woman happy?
My guess is she is having an affair presently and this is how she subconsciously justifies it: “all women have affairs” – just because she can’t keep it in her pants.
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Re: A discussion on foreign brides with buddy’s wi
Post by TyHigs on Feb 14, 2006, 4:46pm
Oops, sorry. They are freakazoid swingers. I only know them from online. But during the weekends they try to see how many men they can get to fuck her. They were up to 21 last time they attempted to determine this. she’s late 40’s,chunky. He’s 41 and a “bodybuilder”.
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Re: A discussion on foreign brides with buddy’s wi
Post by newplaya on Feb 14, 2006, 5:48pm
*retch*
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Re: A discussion on foreign brides with buddy’s wi
Post by Richie Rich on Feb 14, 2006, 7:20pm
***My guess is she is having an affair presently and this is how she subconsciously justifies it: “all women have affairs” – just because she can’t keep it in her pants. ***
…Exactly, people judge others by what they do!!
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Re: A discussion on foreign brides with buddy’s wi
Post by niceguy78 on Feb 14, 2006, 8:56pm
Agree with her having an affair.
Women truely have inferior minds, here is evidence.
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Re: A discussion on foreign brides with buddy’s wi
Post by thor on Feb 15, 2006, 4:06am
Ty,
Interesting post. I think its just a new idea to her and being a swinger, she is going to view love and marriage much differently than most of us here.
As someone who lives overseas, I think your comment that all these women want to come to America to escape their poverty is incorrect. I have lived overseas nearly 20 years in Germany and have been to all the places you are seeking a wife. Virtually all Europeans are deeply attached to their homeland and even their home town. Look how few Germans are willing to even move 50 miles for a better paying job. Very few of them are trying to escape poverty as their standard of living is not that bad and family ties and the more sensible European social and cultural environment make home pretty attractive compared to the US. A lot of Europeans seriously miss intangibles such as these when they move to the US. A Russian man friend of mine calls the US “Upside Downland” because everything that should be done is illegal or discouraged here. The same is true of women from Ukraine and Russia too. The ones I’ve known wouldn’t leave their country to marry a man they couldn’t love just to escape poverty. I think that is a huge myth and a lot of Americans come across as arrogant and culturally ignorant for always keeping that attitude in the back of their mind. Many women I’ve known in Ukraine don’t even want to go to America, preferring to live in Europe or stay home.
I see one who is keen on coming to America as a red flag. That usually means she wants to be like an AW and will adopt their ways. My living in Europe and being an American was a big draw for them, however, as they got the best of both worlds. Most of these women don’t like to be too far from their mothers and families I’ve found.
If you want passion, then go with a Hungarian woman. Czechs are melancholy and a lot like Germans. I’ve also known some pretty passionate German women and women who loved me too. Cold hearted people can’t really love. I wouldn’t describe them as cold hearted so much as profoundly selfish.
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