Japan’s dating strike
Japan’s dating strike
Post by mamonaku on Jan 12, 2006, 5:50pm
Check this out.
Men retreat from ‘hassle’ of loving relationships
Sounds like what the doctor ordered to me.
What are your comments?
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Re: Japan’s dating strike
Post by Big Johnson on Jan 12, 2006, 6:13pm
I loved that article. I always thought Japanese women would make good wives, but I guess feminism spread there too. I guess the tables are turning now, and even in the U.S. we are starting to see more Dating/marriage strikes
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Re: Japan’s dating strike
Post by mamonaku on Jan 12, 2006, 6:20pm
Jan 12, 2006, 6:13pm, Big Johnson wrote:I loved that article. I always thought Japanese women would make good wives, but I guess feminism spread there too. I guess the tables are turning now, and even in the U.S. we are starting to see more Dating/marriage strikes
Good Japanese women can be found… but a Man has to have someone on the ground to help see through her games.
I suspect the guys there aren’t really interested in them because of the head games Japanese women love to play.
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Post by Zoneboss on Jan 12, 2006, 8:32pm
As I’ve said before, anyone heading to Japan to find a “submissive, traditional geisha girl” is just as ridiculous as a Japanese tourist wearing a cowboy hat sniffing around a Texas strip mall looking for “a real authentic old west experience.”
Japan has a 40% divorce rate, and sex and the city DVDs do a brisk sale there. Perhaps not as bad as America, but not far behind.
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Re: Japan’s dating strike
Post by logic101 on Jan 12, 2006, 8:38pm
Jan 12, 2006, 5:50pm, mamonaku wrote:
What are your comments?
Amusing article.
-Logic 101
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Re: Japan’s dating strike
Post by anonymous on Jan 12, 2006, 9:20pm
I would not call the article amusing at all. Well OK maybe a little. It is actually kind of sad and shows that feminism plus decadence is a recipe for auto-genocide.
I think the main problem is that during the previous generation men who ended up fathering a family were working as wage slaves and never spent anytime at home raising the kids. So even though many couples stayed married, the dad might as well have not been in the life of the children at all. And then there is the more recent trends in divorce which accomplish basically the same thing.
As a result the sons of Japan have no idea how to be a man and their identity is all tied up in manga, video games, and other pursuits which taken to an extreme is just child’s play for grown adult men.
You have this in African-American America and to a degree Latino America now as well where instead of fatherless homes producing timid males addicted to their playstations and nintendos, you have young males joining gangs and other criminal enterprises because they have no idea what it means to be a man. Their role models are 50 cent and losers like Jesse Jackson who knocked up his secretary out of wedlock (while being married himself) and yet the media still considers him a “black leader” and even still gives him the respect as a “Reverend”.
In the long run when men lose, women lose and vice versa. Maybe some people here might be card carrying members of the Voluntary Human Extinction Movement (http://www.vhem.org), but I know I certainly am not.
And if Japan gets too weak from their birth dearth, then China is tempted to be even more imperialist than they already are which is not good for the west if you ask me.
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Re: Japan’s dating strike
Post by TiredOfIt on Jan 13, 2006, 2:22am
@ anonymous
Women want men to give but they do not give in return. So young men, like myself, find them only a ‘drain’. Young men are simply not putting up with it. (This article is simply trying to put the blame on men and excusing women. I’m surprised no one noticed this.)
That is the solution. Until men put a line on the ground and say, “ENOUGH”, will we never see any change. Your cracks on manga and video games are also way off the mark. Video games are about competition, exploration, and the last vestiges of masculinity available in media to young men. The old masculine myths such as the Iliad breath again in such video games where men were warriors, they had to save princesses, and so on. You don’t find that in television or the movies today. Why do you think feminists HATE video games?
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Re: Japan’s dating strike
Post by Riskbreaker on Jan 13, 2006, 2:54am
TiredOfIt, good post.
Of course we noticed the blame game. It’s the only weapon they use. Since they can’t FORCE us to marry them, date them, impregnate them or put up with their head games, entitlement attitude and wasting our time with deceitful lies and contradictory behavior, they HAVE to attack us somehow because they have to make an impact somehow.
They can only fight us with big government and the law. They can always find some mangina to fight for them. They claim we are not ‘real men’ because they only see the beta males on TV. They don’t seem to realize that in manga there ARE real men. Ever watch Cowboy Bebop, Samurai Champloo, Big O, Samurai X? Ever play FFIV, where the hero conquers his descent into darkness with the help of his FATHER, not some Oprahesque guru? Anime and gaming are where men CAN tell stories about the good qualities of men…sacrifice, completing the goal no matter what, bonding with a fellow male in fierce competition, ignoring race or distance and proving that you win by skill, not rules or preferences.
As has been said before:
Any activity a man commits that is for his sole pleasure and enjoyment but runs counter to women’s interests, will ALWAYS meet with stiff emotional resistance and negative reinforcement from women (minus logic and reason, of course. The old time feminists actually considered logic and reason to be tools men used to win arguments). And this is NOT because you’re doing what’s best for you (something women are encouraged and applauded for doing) but because you’re not doing what’s best for HER. In womanspeak, a man that does things for HIS OWN BENEFIT is often referred to as a “loser”, “jerk” or “asshole”. So the next time you’re called one of these names by an American female, take it as a compliment.
IGNORE WHAT WOMEN SAY AND WATCH WHAT THEY DO.
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Re: Japan’s dating strike
Post by Dimitri on Jan 13, 2006, 3:34am
Guys, I am from Eastern Europe (Serbia) and i must say this:unfortunately you are so RIGHT. I can still remember that old saying (goes something like this) : if you tell your wife that she is beautiful , the Devil himself will whisper those words to her a hundred times that same day. I wish that there was a simple solution to this madness… Although, since i started doing things MY way i had more women approach me (curiosity?). What i believe is that men simply give up on family too easily. They simply don’t see all that marriage as women do. They see it as a WAR! I guess,they got one, now. good luck to all of you out there.
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Re: Japan’s dating strike
Post by Evergreen on Jan 13, 2006, 8:49am
Japan is on their way down and this year, its the first time their birth rates is lower than their death rates. Also their immigration rates is low so Japan’s total population is falling.
Young Japanese men are smarting up and not date these parasites.
One guy hits the target when he says “Onnanoko wa mendoudashi, renraku shinakya-naranaishi, purezento toka okane kakarushi . . . (Girls are a hassle, they expect me to call, I have to buy them gifts and that would cost money)” was one 34-year-old male’s sum-up. He would rather deploy his funds and time in other ways, ways that would be infinitely more rewarding than in a “kocchini nanno tokuni naranai (There’s no profit to be gained)” love relationship.
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Re: Japan’s dating strike
Post by guestman on Jan 13, 2006, 10:48am
It all sounds the same no matter where you turn, check out this article:
I find it interesting the man wants communication, but she doesn’t. The grass always seems greener with other cultures, but the reality is no different.
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Re: Japan’s dating strike
Post by Richie Rich on Jan 13, 2006, 11:36am
….There goes the basis for the consumerism culture. Women are often seeking men to supplement their income to spend and spend some more. Now men are wising up to the wage slavery system, women and the merchant industry will be into panic mode. The results of declining families, birth rates and now dating.
The USA however will NEVER allow such a phenomenon to take place due to the audacity of feminists and law makers who are controlled by the multi billion dollar lobbying industry. They would no doubt pass some absurd law to force men to commit to women in some way to keep the consumerism juggernaut pacing ahead. The bullshit games are coming to an end and damage control is useless nor is the shaming tactics that are popular with women to regain control.
I would love to go to Japan and get a front seat row view of women getting shot down by men. It would be even greater pleasure to see it in the USA instead!!!
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Re: Japan’s dating strike
Post by antiriad on Jan 13, 2006, 11:37am
Jan 13, 2006, 3:34am, Dimitri wrote:What i believe is that men simply give up on family too easily. They simply don’t see all that marriage as women do. They see it as a WAR! I guess,they got one,now. good luck to all of you out there.
This is not true. It is women who play countless mind games and want to establish dominance. Men are the ones who simply want to get along; and because they’re finally getting fed up with women’s increasingly belligerent head games, they’re refusing to marry.
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Re: Japan’s dating strike
Post by King Karan on Jan 13, 2006, 1:25pm
Zdravo Dimitri!
Welcome to the board. I am curious what you think about the situation in Serbia re women. When I visited there last time in 2004, there were many beautiful women that one could consider marrying. However, there were also what they termed as “sponsor” women and that birthrates are falling like kegs in the sea. I understand economic situation is bad, war, sanctions etc. for this to occur. Can you give us your take what’s happening in Serbia?
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Re: Japan’s dating strike
Post by logic101 on Jan 13, 2006, 4:51pm
Jan 12, 2006, 9:20pm, anonymous wrote:I would not call the article amusing at all. Well OK maybe a little. It is actually kind of sad and shows that feminism plus decadence is a recipe for auto-genocide.
It was amusing to me that many people still can’t see the truth or at least own up to it (esp. the person who wrote that article). Given the fact that modern feminism destroys everything in it’s path long term.
-Logic 101
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Re: Japan’s dating strike
Post by InMichigan on Jan 13, 2006, 6:03pm
You know the Japanese for the last few decades have led the way for thinking ahead of other countries. I think in 5 years the USA will be the same way, men will be openly proclaiming their intentions to not marry and get involved and again the women will not understand why because they are so precious
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Re: Japan’s dating strike
Post by logic101 on Jan 13, 2006, 7:07pm
Jan 13, 2006, 6:03pm, InMichigan wrote:You know the Japanese for the last few decades have led the way for thinking ahead of other countries. I think in 5 years the USA will be the same way, men will be openly proclaiming their intentions to not marry and get involved and again the women will not understand why because they are so precious
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Don’t you worry ‘InMichigan’. Many single AW will always have their cats to talk to.
-Logic 101
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Re: Japan’s dating strike
Post by King Karan on Jan 13, 2006, 8:05pm
It’s not only Japan:
WHY MEN STOP BELIEVING IN LOVE
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Re: Japan’s dating strike
Post by Evergreen on Jan 14, 2006, 12:20pm
I guess I better treat Jgirls just like any AW/WW. Those parasites.
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Re: Japan’s dating strike
Post by Disconnect on Jan 14, 2006, 5:28pm
Quote:You know the Japanese for the last few decades have led the way for thinking ahead of other countries. I think in 5 years the USA will be the same way, men will be openly proclaiming their intentions to not marry and get involved and again the women will not understand why because they are so precious
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Very true. When this hits the west, though, will the women go crazy over it, like they do in Japan, or will they ‘talk to their cats’?
PS: Dimitrii, dobro pozhalovat’.
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Re: Japan’s dating strike
Post by logic101 on Jan 14, 2006, 6:54pm
Jan 14, 2006, 5:28pm, Disconnect wrote:
Very true. When this hits the west, though, will the women go crazy over it, like they do in Japan, or will they ‘talk to their cats’?
Yes, I’m sure many will. And Yes, I do feel sorry for the cats.
-Logic 101
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Re: Japan’s dating strike
Post by kestral on Mar 16, 2006, 12:36am
Japanese women will always have a purpose… target practice for bukkake.
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Re: Japan’s dating strike
Post by niceguy78 on Mar 16, 2006, 12:54am
I have been on, and recommended to others a date/sex strike for years.
It is amazing how much better it will make your life, if you do this, and it sends a message. Just take a little will power for a few months, then you no longer care about shit women.
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Post by smasherdude7 on Mar 16, 2006, 5:32am
Based on my personal interaction with quite a few Japanese girls, I find them in general to be nicer than American chicks.
At least they act and look feminine. This is getting more depressing, on a daily basis.
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Re: Japan’s dating strike
Post by Slacker on Mar 16, 2006, 8:56pm
Japanese women may act nice in a social setting, but what about marriage?
I’ve read mixed opinions on foreigners marrying Japanese chicks. Some get along. Other times, the women turns into a Banshee after she gets the ring. One of my (male) Japanese friends described Japanese women as golddiggers. They will be nice to you if they think they can get some kind of benefit from you (not always money).
I’m read some blogs about “Aigo Bandits” (English Bandits) in big Japanese cities. Basically, a young attractive Japanese female will try to date a white western male sucker in order to get free English lessons and practice English conversation, but won’t do anything in return. When she’s done with the English lessons, she dumps you.
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Post by celibateforlife on Mar 16, 2006, 9:09pm
I had a job assignment and the customer used to serve in the navy. After seeing the poor offerings in the US, he became happily married to a Japanese woman he met abroad.
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Re: Japan’s dating strike
Post by Slacker on Mar 16, 2006, 9:24pm
Mar 16, 2006, 9:09pm, celibateforlife wrote:I had a job assignment and the customer used to serve in the navy. After seeing the poor offerings in the US, he became happily married to a Japanese woman he met abroad.
celibateforlife,
Did he stay in Japan or move back home?
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Post by celibateforlife on Mar 16, 2006, 11:43pm
He lives in Georgia, believe it or not.
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Re: Japan’s dating strike
Post by Slacker on Mar 17, 2006, 6:54pm
One has to wonder how long it is before the feminazis get to her and turn her into an AW. I hope for your friend’s sake that she stays like he found her.
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Re: Japan’s dating strike
Post by Simon Phoenix on Mar 18, 2006, 6:02pm
Jan 13, 2006, 2:54am, Riskbreaker wrote:
Since they can’t FORCE us to marry them, date them, impregnate them or put up with their head games, entitlement attitude and wasting our time with deceitful lies and contradictory behavior…
Yet…don’t think they won’t try. The “man tax” idea has been advanced in Sweden…breed sows getting themselves knocked up with bastards conceived w/ turkey basters, and forcing nameless, faceless men they’ve never met to pay for it all. With the government as the collection agent.
It will surely be tried in many western nations. Perhaps THAT will be the straw that breaks the camel’s back and encourages us to take away women’s “right” to vote once and for all.
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Re: Japan’s dating strike
Post by Mes on Mar 18, 2006, 6:40pm
Marriage IS the man tax.
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Re: Japan’s dating strike
Post by wayman on Mar 18, 2006, 6:40pm
Mar 18, 2006, 6:02pm, Simon Phoenix wrote:
Yet…don’t think they won’t try. The “man tax” idea has been advanced in Sweden…breed sows getting themselves knocked up with bastards conceived w/ turkey basters, and forcing nameless, faceless men they’ve never met to pay for it all. With the government as the collection agent.
It will surely be tried in many western nations. Perhaps THAT will be the straw that breaks the camel’s back and encourages us to take away women’s “right” to vote once and for all.
‘Man tax’ to pay for abuse of women?
Link about the “man Tax”
Notice:
1) Sweden is very Feminized
2) Violence towards women went way up since 1990. Mmm wonder Y? Men are pissed off maybe?
3) this fucked up Idea is a “Left / Liberal” idea. (as most fucked up ideas are)
To my liberal voting friends…. be sure you know what you are doing by voting liberal……. you’re voting your rights and money away for Stupid Big government programs who think they can fix everything by throwing money at it. (Tax payer money)
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