“I wasted a lot of years …”
“I wasted a lot of years …”
Post by cj on Mar 9, 2006, 10:30am
“I wasted a lot of years with two different boyfriends who wouldn’t commit. I gave ten years to one guy and seven years to another. Now I’m 45 and I’m still not married. My exes have moved on and are married to other women. Guys tell me I have a lot to offer, but they never want to get past a friendly sexual relationship. The problem is, I’m not attracted to basically good men. If he has good values and a steady job, I’m simply not interested. I know I should be, but the guys I know will just use me and walk away seem like the exciting type. Why is it like this?” – Zeen, Worcester, MA
Zeen,
Lots of women like the challenge of taming a “bad boy”. I’ve met dozens of women who have spent a lifetime trying to change bad men or tame some sleazy player. It’s just human nature, women really don’t like good guys unless they are paying the bills. Your situation isn’t unusual. Many women like the low-life type. Just be ready to be hurt over and over again.
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Re: “I wasted a lot of years …”
Post by CP on Mar 9, 2006, 11:12am
Yup…it’s human nature to sponge off a nice guy and fuck the bad boy, but it’s animalistic and shallow to desire women who are actually attractive.
This is human nature too…when a parasite infects you, remedial action is taken to remove it from your system.
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Re: “I wasted a lot of years …”
Post by Elf on Mar 9, 2006, 12:40pm
Bad boys are easier to play mind games with. A nice guy is more than likely rational, and that is not going to work with women.
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Re: “I wasted a lot of years …”
Post by khankrumthebulgar on Mar 9, 2006, 4:03pm
What is really amusing to me is this. Women in our Culture want to be able to live a life without having to deal with the consequences of their decisions. They also have no grasp of Basic Economics. When you hear Women complain it is almost impossible to explain to them how Feminism has screwed them over. Truthfully it is almost impossible to have a rational conversation with them. And what is even more Disturbing is that Women don’t want to engage in the study of the issues involved.
They seem to gravitate towards Celebrity News and feeding their minds Fantasies based on being taken care of. It is the mindless drivel and staple form of entertainment that Women seem to gravitate to. Lifestyle Entertainment for Women, Oxygen, and the endless parade of Relationship TV shows. Friends, Joey, Will & Grace, Everybody Loves Raymond etc. The King of Queens same thing.
The concept of Opportunity Costs is over the head of Most Women. Economists define Opportunity Costs as the Cost of giving up something for the choices we make. If I elect to take a Class on Monday Nights during NFL Football my opportunity cost is not watching the Monday Night game.
The opportunity cost for Women to whore themselves with Bad Boys and Married Cheaters is having a stable long term relationship. And the Hooking Up Culture states that there is no longer someone for every one. That dynamic has changed as Women eschew decent Men for Players, Thugs, & Bad Boys. Or they go for the Alpha Male, CEO type.
The common behavior we are now seeing is sadly many Women who are Married to Beta Males, are having affairs on the side with Players, PUAs, and Thugs behind Beta’s back while he is working his ass off and into an early grave. Then finds Cupcake is taking it up the keester with Butch the Biker. And then gets Gang Raped in Family Court. Then Women wonder why Men are on not just a Marriage Strike but a Relationship Strike.
Want to read some really interesting material check out the blog of NYMOM. Be prepared to duct tape your head so it doesn’t explode. This fifty Something Divorced Grandmother hates Men. And she posts all over the FemNag web sites. This is their mindset. Or go read Pandagon and read some of Amanda’s writings. It will open your eyes.
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Re: “I wasted a lot of years …”
Post by Felix on Mar 9, 2006, 5:28pm
We have the ONE OVERWHELMING WEAPON the Feminasties will NEVER have: We have THE TRUTH on our side. The truth about the physical and emotional differences between men and women, and how they shape the male-female dynamic. All we need to do to win is continue to shine the light of day on the truth, and feminism will collapse like the sham that it is. Feminism is a corpse, in armor. Take away the armor and shine some light on it, and the corpse will collapse into dust.
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Re: “I wasted a lot of years …”
Post by richbansha on Mar 9, 2006, 5:55pm
Mar 9, 2006, 5:28pm, Felix wrote:
We have the ONE OVERWHELMING WEAPON the Feminasties will NEVER have: We have THE TRUTH on our side …. Feminism is a corpse, in armor. Take away the armor and shine some light on it, and the corpse will collapse into dust.
I can’t believe how many intelligent MRAs still believe this fantasy. The so called “truth” is no weapon at all. I think it was Hitler that said, “Truth, logic and persuasion are easily countered by a bullet to the head”. He was correct then as now. Truth is what propaganda and naked force say it is.
Take away the armor and you have a corpse, a male corpse. He still stinks to high heaven. But like the ancient Greek traitors, he is too dishonorable to merit burial. He will rot and reek for a long time to come.
Friends, our task is not to defeat feminism. That war is over and all of humanity lost. We live today in the desolation and scorched earth of that war. It is high time we focus on a new civilization and let the old mercifully ebb away.
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Re: “I wasted a lot of years …”
Post by Felix on Mar 9, 2006, 6:03pm
Mar 9, 2006, 5:55pm, richbansha wrote:
Friends, our task is not to defeat feminism. That war is over and all of humanity lost. We live today in the desolation and scorched earth of that war. It is high time we focus on a new civilization and let the old mercifully ebb away.
Rich – To your point about Hitler, remember that is was Hitler, not the rest of Civilization, that ended with a bullet in his head. First of all, it’s only the WEST that is infected by this cancer. The Islamic world is not. And the West is not producing babies! The feminists are doing what Darwin would predict they would do: they are dying out. And feminist societies will eventually be replaced by non-feminist ones (the old “mercifully ebbing away” that you spoke of). Either way, the femi’s lose, and men go back to being men. Feminism CAN’T WIN because it is at odds with nature. It’s as simple as that. All we men need to do is keep away from WW until the new sweeps out the old. WHAT IS SO DIFFICULT ABOUT THAT? Really, I don’t understand the dourness that some people possess.
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Re: “I wasted a lot of years …”
Post by richbansha on Mar 9, 2006, 6:57pm
Mar 9, 2006, 6:03pm, Felix wrote:
Rich – To your point about Hitler, remember that is was Hitler, not the rest of Civilization, that ended with a bullet in his head. First of all, it’s only the WEST that is infected by this cancer. The Islamic world is not. And the West is not producing babies! The feminists are doing what Darwin would predict they would do: they are dying out. And feminist societies will eventually be replaced by non-feminist ones (the old “mercifully ebbing away” that you spoke of). Either way, the femi’s lose, and men go back to being men. Feminism CAN’T WIN because it is at odds with nature. It’s as simple as that. All we men need to do is keep away from WW until the new sweeps out the old. WHAT IS SO DIFFICULT ABOUT THAT? Really, I don’t understand the dourness that some people possess.
You see Felix, it isn’t as simple as that. Look at this very message board and all of the vile slander pointed at Islam. You would think that they were the feminists.
I agree that feminism is a dead horse. The carcass will be eroded away by natural selection — granted. Unfortunately, evolution is irreversible. We can’t get back the world of our dead grandfathers any more than we can get our dead grandfathers back. It is gone and gone forever. We have to start fresh with something new.
It is up to us to make sure that the new civilization is the kind we want. We can’t just wait it out or we forfeit control of our own futures. It is still within our power to make it right.
So, what do we do now? I don’t mean in the realm of geologic time. I mean how do we cope day by day in the rubble of feminism? What do we, ourselves have to contribute? We are at a unique crossroads in history. We must move forward to a better world and not back to the old which put us in this absurd position to begin with.
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Re: “I wasted a lot of years …”
Post by Felix on Mar 9, 2006, 8:25pm
Mar 9, 2006, 6:57pm, richbansha wrote:
We can’t get back the world of our dead grandfathers any more than we can get our dead grandfathers back. It is gone and gone forever. We have to start fresh with something new.
It is up to us to make sure that the new civilization is the kind we want. We can’t just wait it out or we forfeit control of our own futures. It is still within our power to make it right.
So, what do we do now? I don’t mean in the realm of geologic time. I mean how do we cope day by day in the rubble of feminism? What do we, ourselves have to contribute? We are at a unique crossroads in history. We must move forward to a better world and not back to the old which put us in this absurd position to begin with.
I’m not sure we’re saying anything different here. You seem to want to be contradictory for sake of arguing alone, and yet you’ve reiterated virtually everything I’ve said.
I think men need to drop the “woe unto me” martyr routine that is prevalent among us. As for me, I don’t WANT the world of my grandfather back! The guy probably never saw much tail until he was married (due to the religious mores in his native country), and then it was a unshaven mess that he was stuck w/ the rest of his life. To top it all off, he died very early because medicine of the day couldn’t address a simple high-cholesterol problem like it can now.
I’ll take the new world! I just won’t re-marry in the U.S. unless they stop making child-kidnapping and extortion legal for women! What’s so difficult about this?
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Re: “I wasted a lot of years …”
Post by richbansha on Mar 9, 2006, 10:28pm
Mar 9, 2006, 8:25pm, Felix wrote:
I’m not sure we’re saying anything different here. You seem to want to be contradictory for sake of arguing alone, and yet you’ve reiterated virtually everything I’ve said.
I think men need to drop the “woe unto me” martyr routine that is prevalent among us. As for me, I don’t WANT the world of my grandfather back! The guy probably never saw much tail until he was married (due to the religious mores in his native country), and then it was a unshaven mess that he was stuck w/ the rest of his life. To top it all off, he died very early because medicine of the day couldn’t address a simple high-cholesterol problem like it can now.
I’ll take the new world! I just won’t re-marry in the U.S. unless they stop making child-kidnapping and extortion legal for women! What’s so difficult about this?
Not a thing Felix. I am sorry to say that I counted you among those longing to return to the good old days before feminism. I freely admit that mistake.
My only aim, not just on this thread but in everything I write about in the MM, is to convince people that they way out is forward not backward. We are not helpless, there are things we can do to improve our lot; despite the fact that present day society is melting away around us.
I think we agree. Please excuse my misunderstanding.
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Re: “I wasted a lot of years …”
Post by King Karan on Mar 9, 2006, 11:57pm
Quote:I mean how do we cope day by day in the rubble of feminism? What do we, ourselves have to contribute? We are at a unique crossroads in history.
As the great American philosopher Yogi Bera said: If you come to a fork on the road – take it! 
Rich Bansha: You seem to be one of the most articulate people here, I read your blog. But you are completely out in the wild on the Islam issue. If you feel alienated because of the “Catholic” sect that parades for Christianity – I understand.
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Re: “I wasted a lot of years …”
Post by richbansha on Mar 10, 2006, 1:32am
Mar 9, 2006, 11:57pm, King Karan wrote:
As the great American philosopher Yogi Bera said: If you come to a fork on the road – take it!Rich Bansha: You seem to be one of the most articulate people here, I read your blog. But you are completely out in the wild on the Islam issue. If you feel alienated because of the “Catholic” sect that parades for Christianity – I understand.
King I hear ya. Who could argue with the man who said he would give his right arm to be ambidextrous?
Thanks for the kind words and the rebuke both. As far as Muslims go, I know I am in the minority. Perhaps even a minority of one. Still, I fear the devil I know more than the one I don’t. If we can’t get rid of the despots we have here, i.e. the black robed mafia and the feminazi pols, then who needs to worry about some Imam? But, this is the last time I preach that sermon. I see now that it serves no purpose. We have more to talk about than that.
You guessed right. I am a Catholic but sort of an Evangelical Catholic. I owe much of my spiritual life to the Baptists and Pentecostals. Some Catholics say there is no salvation outside the church. With everything I have gained from the Evangelicals, I consider that notion preposterous.
If you want to take a look at some of my best writing, checkout the Apologetics forum on www.catholic.com. I have a swell time messing with the self-styled theology experts. Always good for a laugh.
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Re: “I wasted a lot of years …”
Post by SuckerFreein06 on Mar 10, 2006, 4:08am
If you sling enough mud, some will always stick is how I look at the feminist. Personally, I have dealt with this question. Should we use slander/lies to attack the feminist, or should we just let them continue exposing themselves? Hard question to answer. I think we are headed in the right direction. No lie can last forever.
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Re: “I wasted a lot of years …”
Post by Felix on Mar 11, 2006, 6:39pm
Mar 10, 2006, 4:08am, SuckerFreein06 wrote:If you sling enough mud, some will always stick is how I look at the feminist. Personally, I have dealt with this question. Should we use slander/lies to attack the feminist, or should we just let them continue exposing themselves? Hard question to answer.
I don’ think it’s hard to answer at all! Why use lies, when the truth is on our side?? Communism, nazi-sim, feminism: All based on lies, all fell (or will fall). If WE start resorting to lies, we risk our credibility and are goals can be lost even though they may be proper.
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Re: “I wasted a lot of years …”
Post by khankrumthebulgar on Mar 12, 2006, 11:22am
Rich Bro,
I know several Muslim Men and we share a common belief in the importance of Family. In the Third World there is no social Safety net and the Family is essential to the survival of Elder Parents. Older Men are respected in Islam. Yet the dogma of Radical Islam and the goal to resurrect the Caliphate is a dark vision for the future of humanity.
What innovations has the Moslem world brought us since the collapse of the Ottoman Empire? Name one please. It is the open society of the West and right to question that has given us the technological benefits we all enjoy. Islam will turn us back to the 8th Century. Women will become property treated like animals. With Men having the right to beat them, honor killings, temporary wives etc.
As a Buddhist I will be immediately killed. Christians, Jews will be second class citizens. And Freedom as we know it will die all together. That our Feminists refuse to see this shows we must come to a hard decision as to what to do with them. It will not be pretty. Think the French Revolution and those who supported the Monarchy.
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Re: “I wasted a lot of years …”
Post by richbansha on Mar 12, 2006, 3:17pm
Mar 12, 2006, 11:22am, khankrumthebulgar wrote:
As a Buddhist I will be immediately killed. Christians, Jews will be second class citizens. And Freedom as we know it will die all together. That our Feminists refuse to see this shows we must come to a hard decision as to what to do with them. It will not be pretty. Think the French Revolution and those who supported the Monarchy.
Yes Khan that would happen if they actually got control. As an enthusiastic reader of your posts and your blog, I can comfortably say that your position has more than enough merit to deserve thorough consideration. The points that you make about the superiority of Western Civ over Islam are beyond any serious dispute.
I promised that I would no longer discuss the advantages of Islam. I will keep that promise and cede that radical Islam is a completely hostile ideology.
That being said, I still do not consider Islam to be much of a threat. If they organize themselves in large numbers, we will easily defeat them on the battlefield.
If they stay in small terrorist cells, they have no hope of taking control of the government by force or by the ballot box. If they even try, they will be eliminated one by one.
Unlike Europe where they are burning and pillaging, our civilian population is armed. If they only peek out the window, theirs heads will take bullets from three or four directions. Hurrah for the 2nd Amendment! Leaving the populace armed is one and perhaps the only thing the Bush Administration did right.
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