A phone call yesterday
A phone call yesterday
Post by khankrumthebulgar on Jan 24, 2006, 8:56am
I have a business contact a Mentor in my Industry. He has been talking with me for better than two years about these issues. Yesterday his Brother who has gone through a Divorce asked for this web sites url. I referred him to it. They both read it and agree with much of the content if not all of it.
Two more Men who are wising up to the reality of the imbalance in Male/Female Relationships and Big Government.
I refuse to be in a Polygamous Marriage. Man, Woman & Daddy Government. Sorry no sale here. Let the FemNags die alone with their Cats.
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Re: A phone call yesterday
Post by Me on Jan 24, 2006, 12:12pm
It’s really not hysteria. It’s true. American government marriage is a raw deal.
Again I’ll state I have no problem necessarily with women. American women pretty much suck, but if you want to date them every now and then, hang around them, have sex with them, that is fine. But for heaven’s sake, don’t sign a legally binding contract that has profound consequences and liabilities for you, for THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. Especially with such an erratic, irresponsible, unpleasant type of person like most American women. The contract offers only liabilities, often profound ones, with no legal protections. This in a state that supposedly prides itself on individual rights and the equality of all.
No, sorry, won’t do it. Won’t sign a piece of paper that in a very real sense, causes me to lose control of my life. Sorry. I say no to government marriage.
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Re: A phone call yesterday
Post by King Karan on Jan 24, 2006, 7:12pm
Me: the problem is that if you date AW/WW they will constantly pressure you to marry them. Once you start going out with them, it will be a spectacle of persuasion, manipulation and acting to get you to say yes. Many men just give up after a while and marry. And please don’t tell me it does not happen because it does. It seems, men are just “silently” subdued. Plus the pressure from family, “friends” and the bombardment of subtle not so subtle propaganda in the media. How do you battle that if you are in your early 20s?
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Re: A phone call yesterday
Post by Me on Jan 24, 2006, 7:21pm
I agree with you on one level, but not on another. Yes, men are pressured over time to marry and finally give in.
However, most women make engagement and the “marriage planning” process such an obnoxious, looonnnnggg, drawn out process, often taking years, that there seems to be plenty of time for a man to “come to his senses”. There seem to be so many exit points along this long road, it is a surprise more men don’t get off the expressway.
If you were being pressured to buy a car you might not really want, and there was a 2 year waiting period between the time you finally caved in decided to buy the car and the day you actually paid for it and drove it off the lot…wouldn’t that be enough time for you to change your decision?
All too often, men make their own problems.
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Re: A phone call yesterday
Post by niceguy78 on Jan 24, 2006, 8:33pm
Khan, keep up the good work!
We must spread the word. The only way we will help other men is through grass roots efforts. And everyday more and more men wake up to the issues.
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Re: A phone call yesterday
Post by toadman on Jan 24, 2006, 11:10pm
Quote:most women make engagement and the “marriage planning” process such an obnoxious, looonnnnggg, drawn out process, often taking years, that there seems to be plenty of time for a man to “come to his senses”. There seem to be so many exit points along this long road, it is a surprise more men don’t get off the expressway.
How do you drown a frog? Put him in a pot and s-l-o-w-l-y turn up the heat to boil. By the time he recognizes the predicament he is in it’s too late to get out.
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Re: A phone call yesterday
Post by dickthedog on Jan 25, 2006, 12:21am
I found this website a few months ago. Where were you guys in 1989 when I got married? Too late now, I’ve been divorced from a cold-hearted self-absorbed AW since 1998. Anyway, because my eyes have been opened up to the reality of gov. marriage by this site and others, I recently talked a co-worker out of marrying an older AW with kids from a previous marriage. Keep up the good work. Hearts and minds are won one at a time.
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