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What do you do if you don’t chase women?


What do you do if you don’t chase women?
Post by brock on Nov 3, 2005, 9:22pm

I pretty much buried myself in work and school and avoided dating for most of my 20s. I graduated from college and thought it would be time to find a nice girl and settle down, but man was I in for a rude awakening! I didn’t realize that the dating scene was so messed up. I hate to give up, but after reading this stuff, I’m about ready to throw in the towel and focus on other interests. I would like to get laid before I do this though!

It seems that all of my old friends married and I don’t hang out with them much anymore. I need to find new hobbies. What do you guys do in your spare time? Do you still actively pursue women? If not, how do you explain your lack of relationships to others?

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Re: What do you do if you don’t chase women?
Post by Handlebar on Nov 3, 2005, 10:55pm

I took up Ballroom dancing to fill in some of my time. I plan eventually to take up a martial art form as well but I’m too busy with college at the moment to worry about doing too much.
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Re: What do you do if you don’t chase women?
Post by Me on Nov 4, 2005, 1:21am

Get a Ph.D. from a top university in my field.
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Re: What do you do if you don’t chase women?
Post by dsc on Nov 4, 2005, 1:36am

Concentrate on improving the financial aspect of your life. It leads to personal freedom & more choices ultimately.

This is advice AND what I personally spend a good portion of my spare time on…
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Re: What do you do if you don’t chase women?
Post by mixxalot on Nov 4, 2005, 1:38am

Study and pursue my law degree and a couple of master’s degrees in business and sciences and travel to eastern Europe and South America. Learn a few more languages. Exercise and stay fit and healthy. Save and invest. Avoid American and western women and make friends overseas. Attend Orthodox Russian and Slavic church to pray and make new Slavic friends and possibly meet a decent lady from Eastern Europe. As for sex and getting laid, as one gets older it is not as big a priority which is a nice benefit because it can be a serious distraction and potential danger.
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Re: What do you do if you don’t chase women?
Post by Snakey on Nov 4, 2005, 1:38am

There are a thousand worthy pursuits to better myself with the time & $ I save by not chasing women. Think about it man … the world can be your oyster if you answer only to yourself.
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Re: What do you do if you don’t chase women?
Post by knighterrant on Nov 4, 2005, 4:47am

What do you do if you don’t chase women?

Live, my friend. You live.
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Re: What do you do if you don’t chase women?
Post by sirlancelot on Nov 4, 2005, 5:59am

I relax, take it easy. I don’t worry about having to go out and spend money to get a woman then having to make sure I have enough money to keep her and ensuring my diary is free so I can take her out. Instead I surf the ‘net, teach myself all sorts of things from computer networking to cooking, read, see some friends and have long lie-ins at the weekend.

If a woman approached me for some sort of fling or relationship, and seemed pleasant enough, then I’d probably give it a go. But I’m not going to bother going out of my way to chase women. I’m not the one who needs them, after all.
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Re: What do you do if you don’t chase women?
Post by khankrumthebulgar on Nov 4, 2005, 7:11am

I like to go to a Jazz Club here in Dallas and listen to live Jazz. I fish, when I get a chance. I chant of course as I am a Nichiren Buddhist. I read books, surf the web, am taking a class in Financial Accounting upgrading my skills and knowledge at age 49. I am learning another language. I speak 3 now, write fluently in two. I have business interests, am working on a book. And I have children 5 from my first marriage, and 5 Grandsons. I have two Sons in the Military and correspond with them via email.

One a Nightstalker the other a Marine. Lots of jokes between them.
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Re: What do you do if you don’t chase women?
Post by ddg on Nov 4, 2005, 8:34am

In my spare time I play computer games, upgrade my PC every nine to twelve months, read comic books, surf the Internet, and basically enjoy life at a leisurely clip.

I occasionally hang out with friends when time and schedules permit but mostly I enjoy being single and free. I also workout in the morning to help prepare me for each day and stay in shape.
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Re: What do you do if you don’t chase women?
Post by John Ross on Nov 4, 2005, 8:53am

Nov 3, 2005, 9:22pm, brock wrote:What do you guys do in your spare time? Do you still actively pursue women?

If you have the right mindset (one of abundance), you don’t have to “actively pursue women” so much as enjoy the ones that happen by in the course of doing whatever it is you enjoy.

http://www.john-ross.net/advice.htm

Pretty girls are EVERYWHERE. Enjoy them for what they are and don’t try to make them into something they’re not suited for (i.e. wife material.)

JR

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Re: What do you do if you don’t chase women?
Post by Richie Rich on Nov 4, 2005, 10:49am

1. Go to the Gym. It does wonders to work off anxiety

2. Get into cars, sports, fishings, travel, etc. Do not sit at home thinking of women all day.

3. Continue your education if nothing else appeals.

4. Get ready to have women chase you. All that education leads to a good salary…..You know women can smell money even underwater right???
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Re: What do you do if you don’t chase women?
Post by Gruntington on Nov 4, 2005, 1:55pm

Ignore any and all western females.

Save up a few bucks.

Take a trip to Central or South America.

Sit back as the young ladies chase YOU!

Or…sit here and whimper about how all females are “evil” (much like feminists whining about all men) , watch some porn, then post with any of your 50 different account names how “happy” you are.

WOW! YOUR A REAL WINNER!

http://www.singleabroad.com/index.shtml

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Re: What do you do if you don’t chase women?
Post by sirlancelot on Nov 4, 2005, 2:18pm

Oh no, it’s Gruntington and his unnerving obsession with homosexuals and constant spam to foreign-women dating sites. I was hoping he would have vanished up his own rectum by now.
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Re: What do you do if you don’t chase women?
Post by Riskbreaker on Nov 4, 2005, 2:45pm

Oh no, it’s Gruntington and his unnerving obsession with homosexuals and constant spam to foreign-women dating sites. I was hoping he would have vanished up his own rectum by now.

*Last time I asked the Queer Eye for a Straight Guy guys about Gruntington, they said that plowing his rectum was like tossing a hot dog down a hallway.
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Re: What do you do if you don’t chase women?
Post by thechief on Nov 4, 2005, 5:21pm

Nov 4, 2005, 1:55pm, Gruntington wrote:Ignore any and all western females.

Save up a few bucks.

Take a trip to Central or South America.

Sit back as the young ladies chase YOU!

Or…sit here and whimper about how all females are “evil” (much like feminists whining about all men) , watch some porn, then post with any of your 50 different account names how “happy” you are.

WOW! YOUR A REAL WINNER!

http://www.singleabroad.com/index.shtml

Sigh. And for a precious few weeks, the idiot quotient on this board had really decreased.

How’s the Ukra-whore Grunt? Winter’s coming, I bet the warm house you provide almost makes her glad she signed that deal with the Devil and married you. Almost. Still, the future is always unfolding, and she’ll leave soon enough….
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