AWESOME POST BY A WOMAN
AWESOME POST BY A WOMAN
Post by Citadel on Dec 11, 2005, 4:36pm
From nomarriage.com – This site rox guys!
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Written by a woman:
I stumbled onto a disturbing how-to site when I was blog-surfing. The title was too intriguing, and like a raccoon drawn to a shiny button, I clicked on the link to come face to face with a problem I never really knew I had.
If this site is to be believed, American men hate their marriages to American women.
Yep, you read that correctly. Among other things, this site outlines in great detail all of the ways that American women have devolved into bitter, controlling, spiteful, fat, lazy, manipulative bitches who feel entitled to “the good life” at the expense of their husband’s health, happiness and well-being.
You know, I realize that this site is biased, and more than likely written by an embittered ex-husband (wrong, never been married, no children), but as much as I hate to say it, there is some validity to the site. I think that is what bothers me the most.
Do my women friends have a sense of entitlement? Yep.
Are all of my women friends on Prozac? Yep. (every single woman she knows is on medication)
Does every couple I know have power struggles about money and chores? Yep.
Do the women I know push for the big house and the new SUV? Yep.
Are most of my friends divorced AT LEAST once? Yep.
Do I know men living in poverty after divorce court? Yep.
I hate to draw comparisons, but I am continually drawing the comparison of American men seeking foreign wives to American corporations seeking foreign labor. Is that all marriage is: a division of physical labor and a promise of fidelity? Is it that simple? Have we American women fucked it up so badly with our demands for equality and our sense of entitlement?
When the hell did this happen? When did men and women choose opposing sides and begin this war? Maybe it was when the economy began to necessitate that women work to support the household.
Maybe it was when American men began to lose ground in Corporate America. When college-educated American women started climbing ladders and kicking the men off on the way up.
Women my age were raised watching Mary Tyler Moore, One Day At A Time and Alice, where single, divorced and widowed women were making it on their own.
I watched my mother work full time. I was a daycare kid. I never had any ambitions to be a stay-at-home mom and I always intended to have a career. I have to admit that the craft of homemaking is not my priority, but I would dearly love to have the warmth of a well-tended, perfectly decorated home full of homemade bread and handmade quilts. That explains the cult-like fascination with Martha Stewart Omnimedia – she presents the ideal professional woman who has nurtured her home. Of course, her husband ran off with her secretary, and her daughter is estranged. Hmm.
American women ARE bitter. We are bitter because we were sold a bill of goods about how much better it was to have a career and put the babies into daycare than it was to stay home, rock the baby and cook and clean. We ARE pissed off because we are working as hard as men are, and we are still mothers and we are still doing the housework, and damn it, we went to college, earned the grades, were promised equality, and when we got a taste of it, we didn’t like it as much as we were promised that we would. Something suffers – home or career. I don’t personally know a woman yet that has been able to do justice to both.
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Re: AWESOME POST BY A WOMAN
Post by Lee on Dec 12, 2005, 10:39pm
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Re: AWESOME POST BY A WOMAN
Post by chrisvet on Dec 13, 2005, 4:10am
Excellent post, Jon the owner of nomarriage.com wrote that, as he did all his “female” topics.
The books he’s selling are worth their weight in thousand dollar bills.
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Re: AWESOME POST BY A WOMAN
Post by khankrumthebulgar on Dec 13, 2005, 9:32am
I had an interesting conversation with my first wife recently. She voiced virtually the same thing in this article. She and all her Sisters are on Prozac. My second ex is on Paxil, and another SRI drug. I swear it is an epidemic. My first wife said she cannot do justice to both and realized I worked two jobs so she could be a stay at home mom. Oh well we were both thrown into a maelstrom by folks with a sinister agenda. That she now readily admits it is some validation at least.
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Re: AWESOME POST BY A WOMAN
Post by guest on Dec 13, 2005, 11:53am
These women are “fashionably depressed”. This phenomenon gained steam BIG TIME with the grunge movement of the early 90s and has carried on ever since. Basically, huge pharmaceutical companies found out that the whole depression thing is a multi-billion $$$ market. I think 1 prozac pill is like $2-$3 dollars. Some women are popping 3 and 4 a day.
After all, with as screwed up as society is, who doesn’t have problems. So, Meds/pills corps offer kickbacks to any physician that “brings in the business” and docs also get to bill for their services. Naturally, weak-minded women with their herd-like mentality all hustle to the doc for “therapy”.
Woman: I’m depressed b/c my friend Brenda’s husband bought her a new SUV and all I got from Steve is a Sedan.
Dr. Rx: I agree, this is serious. Let’s get you on some meds immediately! Take 3 of these indefinitely as it takes a couple months for them to even kick in. Also, you must come and see me a couple times a month. Remember, these meds are a chemical. So, if you don’t follow my instructions or stop taking them, it may cause an imbalance and you could commit suicide.
Woman: Thanks for saving me from my boring husband Doc. I see that he gets the bill.
There is no depression. It’s just life. Just another lie that society has cooked up for weak-minded people to spend their husbands money on.
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Re: AWESOME POST BY A WOMAN
Post by Allah on Dec 13, 2005, 12:01pm
Guest is right: too much use of antidepressants by people who do not appear to have chemical imbalances. It makes genuine, biochemical depression appear all too common. Clinical depression runs in my family on my father’s side. I take antidepressants, but being an adult, I don’t make it fodder for conversation. The fact that it’s fashionable is a shameful aspect of our modern society, one more contribution to the victim-chic mentality. Then again, many men have told me that their wives are far more tolerable on Zoloft/Paxil/Elavil/Prozac, etc., so maybe modern science has helped men in that respect. Crazy women without mind-altering medication or crazy women made relatively sane through pills….hmmmm
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