Am I My Sister’s Keeper?
More From Mirror of the soul
Post by logic101 on Mar 9, 2006, 11:28pm
Consider the amount of women with education these days and the associated university degrees available to them – B.S.’s, M.S.’s, J.D.’s, and Ph.d’s. I am sure every man knows some type of woman with one of these degrees in her respective field of work or profession. I call these women “career chicks”, others might call them “professional women”, whatever the terminology, the end result is the same – sooner or later – they want a husband, kids, and a family. The question I ask, is “Am I my sister’s keeper?” – meaning, should I bail out a woman that desperately wants a husband, family, and kids, that has realized she has totally screwed herself out of such in the pursuit of her career, and now, desperately hopes to obtain such?
Some men say “Yes”, and do such – but is this correct? Is this not furthering the mythology that “women can have it all”? – when we really know that these career chicks can only have it all, only when a man decides to sacrifice his pursuit of a younger, more fertile woman without such career oriented mentally to save a woman that decided to choose the career oriented mentality to “have it all”. My answer is “No” to these career chicks, let them live with their cats, toiling away at their careers without any hope of rescue – I am not my sister’s keeper in this regard – let them whine, moan, complain, and die forever chanting the mantra of “men are to blame” and “no good men left”. However, I am my sister’s keeper in regard to choosing a young, fertile woman that has no career aspirations other than to be a good companion to me and mother to my kids, which, of course, is what all women want – it just seems the “less educated” women realize this more quickly than the “more educated” career chicks.
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Our Guest Connoisseur also writes:
An immature man will say what women want to hear in the hopes of currying their favor. A mature man does not. A mature man stating reality is not women bashing at all, but clearly tells women the truth of the situation of relationships these days.
- The divorce rate is over 50 percent.
- Men overwhelmingly bear the economic burden of divorce. That is the main reason, according to the National Marriage Council of Princeton, why less men are marrying now than ever before.
- Women DO abuse men emotionally, and according to 14 studies also commit physical abuse equal to men.
- Women almost always aim their snide remarks below the waist.
If commenting on reality is disquieting to women, then perhaps women should behave better.
And in passing, I have never heard a woman lament that her EX took her to the cleaners financially, or that she is being given the run around for visitation rights, or that she was falsely charged with child molesting just so he could get a bigger bargaining chip.
I’m tired of the constant view that women are sacrosanct victims. They are most definitely not.
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Re: More From Mirror of the soul
Post by phil on Mar 10, 2006, 1:02am
good stuff
that first one really hit home with me
I said “no” and didn’t rescue a career chick I was dating.
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Post by richbansha on Mar 10, 2006, 1:40am
This is one hell of a blog. I check it every day. The Guest Connoisseur is a real creature of reason. He comes from hard won experience. The Blogger himself, seems to be a young guy with fire in his gut. Never a boring read.
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Post by jackbauer on Mar 10, 2006, 2:27am
This is a great blog. I’ve read it all when I discovered it 2 mos ago. I copy the best entries into Word & store them on my PC to read for later. The entry posted by the OP was one of the ones I saved…
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Re: More From Mirror of the soul
Post by SuckerFreein06 on Mar 10, 2006, 6:53am
Ehhhhhhh, I don’t know bout that guy guys. I think a lot of this stuff he spews is fantasy. I mean the dude is Asian. An Asian guy fighting off the chicks….come on. I personally think Eternal Bachelor blows that clown away.
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Post by openeyes on Mar 10, 2006, 10:21am
Mar 10, 2006, 6:53am, SuckerFreein06 wrote:Ehhhhhhh, I don’t know bout that guy guys. I think a lot of this stuff he spews is fantasy. I mean the dude is Asian.
Where does he say he’s Asian? Are you simply going by his chosen screenname? It’s a shotokan karate kata, meaning “polished mirror” to practitioners, hence “mirror of the soul”.
http://www.i-clps.com/karate/meikyo.html
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Post by Richie Rich on Mar 10, 2006, 12:31pm
Am I My Sister’s Keeper?
….Non related women can kiss my ASS!!!
The audacity of bitches to think you are forever in wait of them until they decide the whoring and wage slaving gets old. They can die with all their college degrees shoved down throats in their cat infested apartments!!!
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Re: More From Mirror of the soul
Post by SuckerFreein06 on Mar 10, 2006, 4:39pm
Mar 10, 2006, 10:21am, openeyes wrote:
Mar 10, 2006, 6:53am, SuckerFreein06 wrote:Ehhhhhhh, I don’t know bout that guy guys. I think a lot of this stuff he spews is fantasy. I mean the dude is Asian.Where does he say he’s Asian? Are you simply going by his chosen screenname? It’s a shotokan karate kata, meaning “polished mirror” to practitioners, hence “mirror of the soul”.
He has a very early post in which he states he’s Asian. The stuff he says is the same thing we say in here everyday. Except we dont bore everyone and talk about Cigars (weak).
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Post by openeyes on Mar 10, 2006, 5:17pm
Mar 10, 2006, 4:39pm, SuckerFreein06 wrote:
Mar 10, 2006, 10:21am, openeyes wrote:Where does he say he’s Asian?
He has a very early post in which he states he’s Asian. The stuff he says is the same thing we say in here everyday. Except we dont bore everyone and talk about Cigars (weak).
I enjoy him nonetheless, largely because he focuses on the benefits of being single more than the consequences of getting married.
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Post by Dobedo on Mar 10, 2006, 6:18pm
Mar 10, 2006, 6:53am, SuckerFreein06 wrote:Ehhhhhhh, I don’t know bout that guy guys. I think a lot of this stuff he spews is fantasy. I mean the dude is Asian. An Asian guy fighting off the chicks….come on. I personally think Eternal Bachelor blows that clown away.
It’s not fantasy. He really does what he does.
He and the guy behind the Eternal Bachelor know each other as well I believe.
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Post by openeyes on Mar 10, 2006, 6:36pm
Mar 10, 2006, 6:18pm, Dobedo wrote:
It’s not fantasy. He really does what he does.He and the guy behind the Eternal Bachelor know each other as well I believe.
I first came across them on Darren Blacksmith’s forum. They at least know each other online.
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Post by knighterrant on Mar 10, 2006, 6:42pm
He does do what he does, I know him from another site and he’s a damn fine fella.
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Post by mememe on Mar 10, 2006, 6:45pm
Mar 10, 2006, 6:53am, SuckerFreein06 wrote:I personally think Eternal Bachelor blows that clown away.
Haven’t read Eternal Bachelor much until you mentioned suckerfree.
This is a good site too..
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Post by Pomgran on Mar 10, 2006, 7:29pm
Mar 10, 2006, 4:39pm, SuckerFreein06 wrote:
Mar 10, 2006, 10:21am, openeyes wrote:Where does he say he’s Asian? Are you simply going by his chosen screenname? It’s a shotokan karate kata, meaning “polished mirror” to practitioners, hence “mirror of the soul”.
http://www.i-clps.com/karate/meikyo.htmlHe has a very early post in which he states he’s Asian. The stuff he says is the same thing we say in here everyday. Except we dont bore everyone and talk about Cigars (weak).
He claims he is Eastern Orthodox, there are very few Chinese or Koreans of that religion. Chances are he is from central Asia or the former USSR region.
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Post by SuckerFreein06 on Mar 10, 2006, 7:38pm
You people know him personally?
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Post by SuckerFreein06 on Mar 10, 2006, 7:39pm
I said Asian, not Chinese.
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