American Woman gives new hubby herpes
AW gives new hubby herpes
Post by t on Feb 23, 2006, 10:55pm
As one who is not very familiar with the law, I’m hoping someone here might be able to help me shed light on this subject.
So, my friend – we’ll call him Jeff – got married in December after a very short courtship with a woman he met online. We’ll call her Miss Herpes. Both are middle aged, secure in their lives and not the wild younguns they used to be – and, as far as Jeff knew, both came clean about their pasts before the marriage. Well, January rolls around and Jeff gets very sick. He goes to the doctor, and none of the usual suspects are guilty of causing his sickness. The doc suggests it might be an STD, Jeff thinks it’s crazy but gives in to a test.
Later that day, before Jeff gets his results, he goes home and tells his new wife what the doctor said. “What’s so crazy about that?” She asks. “Is there something you need to tell me?” He says. One thing leads to another, and it turns out she has herpes. “How did you not have it?” She asks, “Everyone I’ve ever been with has had it.”
Jeff is devastated. After years of sexual precautions, the woman who is supposed to be able to trust more than anyone else gives him herpes with no apology.
Jeff lives in Texas. Legally, where does he stand? What can he do? Is there any hope for the poor guy?
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Re: AW gives new hubby herpes
Post by Trucker Dan on Feb 23, 2006, 11:09pm
That’s why us truckers always tarp our load. Lot Lizards are the same, every one has it.
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Re: AW gives new hubby herpes
Post by dickthedog on Feb 23, 2006, 11:10pm
having unprotected sex while aware of having an STD is considered assault in every state I know of.
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Re: AW gives new hubby herpes
Post by Player on Feb 23, 2006, 11:12pm
Wear that party hat, dude. Because all the club girls have things and diseases that rhyme with “itch”.
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Re: AW gives new hubby herpes
Post by Lee on Feb 23, 2006, 11:27pm
I think he stands a very good chance of being able to sue the bitch for every dime she has.
That won’t help him. He has this and it isn’t going to go away.
That has got to suck. He is careful for decades, and this woman does him in.
Fortunately he has been married a very short period of time and may be able to get it legally annulled without a divorce, alimony, etc
Need I say…that you can’t trust AW?
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Re: AW gives new hubby herpes
Post by Mad DOC on Feb 23, 2006, 11:28pm
Herpes is easily transmitted whether you wear a condom or not.
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Re: AW gives new hubby herpes
Post by Mr Hand on Feb 24, 2006, 1:01am
Yet another reason to stay as far away as possible from AW!
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Re: AW gives new hubby herpes
Post by SuckerFreein06 on Feb 24, 2006, 2:08am
Well, had something similar to this. Found a bottle of Valtrex in womans medicine cabinet….”ohh it’s nothing, its for my nose” whatever honey…peace. As far as the law, the only one I know of is the HIV law and thats not even in all states. Which is to willfully give someone HIV. I once read 1 outta 4 woman has Herpes in this country. If thats true, thats fucking sad.
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Re: AW gives new hubby herpes
Post by openeyes on Feb 24, 2006, 2:43am
Feb 24, 2006, 2:08am, SuckerFreein06 wrote:I once read 1 outta 4 woman has Herpes in this country. If thats true, thats fucking sad.
taken from http://herpes.com/
“Oral herpes, an infection caused by the herpes simplex virus, is estimated to be present in 50 to 80 percent of the American adult population. 20 percent, over 50 million people, are infected with genital herpes, also caused by the herpes simplex virus, and the majority of these cases may be unaware they even have it. Studies show that more than 500,000 Americans are diagnosed with genital herpes each year, and the largest increase is occurring in young teens.”
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Re: AW gives new hubby herpes
Post by t on Feb 24, 2006, 3:01am
Thanks for the feedback. I truly appreciate it.
I’ve been doing the research, but I can’t seem to find if its possible to transmit the virus by touching, toilets, baths, etc. I’d would like to know because I frequently visit this man for a weekend about once a month.
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Re: AW gives new hubby herpes
Post by itsdan on Feb 24, 2006, 7:50am
If you clicked the previous link, they have a whole section on transmission. Looks like you’re okay.
Texas is fairly man-friendly in divorces (at least relatively speaking). He could also seek an annulment, probably able to claim fraud if she did indeed ‘come clean’ and yet forget to mention this.
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Re: AW gives new hubby herpes
Post by guest on Feb 24, 2006, 8:17am
He should be able to sue her as it’s a sexual tort.
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Re: AW gives new hubby herpes
Post by atg on Feb 24, 2006, 8:58am
Sue that Bitch, Get your Marriage Annulled, and pray that Herpes outbreak stays in remission.
My privates will stay safe, sound, and healthy in my underwear.
You just can’t trust any AW/WW – PERIOD!
Now you see an example that there’s more contamination in an AW/WW than meets the eye.
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Re: AW gives new hubby herpes
Post by tg on Feb 24, 2006, 1:38pm
Feb 24, 2006, 2:43am, openeyes wrote:
Feb 24, 2006, 2:08am, SuckerFreein06 wrote:I once read 1 outta 4 woman has Herpes in this country. If thats true, thats fucking sad.
taken from http://herpes.com/
“Oral herpes, an infection caused by the herpes simplex virus, is estimated to be present in 50 to 80 percent of the American adult population. 20 percent, over 50 million people, are infected with genital herpes, also caused by the herpes simplex virus, and the majority of these cases may be unaware they even have it. Studies show that more than 500,000 Americans are diagnosed with genital herpes each year, and the largest increase is occurring in young teens.”
It seems daily I receive evidence that supports how happy I am to choose Abstinence!
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abstinence
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Re: AW gives new hubby herpes
Post by celibateforlife on Feb 24, 2006, 4:02pm
I have another friend – a woman, to reverse genders – who contracted herpes from her then-husband who never told her either.
I am disease-free and intend to stay that way if it means abstinence. Too many AW are infected with an STD, those are the consequences of adultery, promiscuity, and fornication.
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I know it sounds quirky
Post by anonymous on Feb 24, 2006, 4:43pm
but unless you both go to the clinic to get tested before you go even think about having any sexual contact whatsoever (you can get herpes from oral sex just as easily as from intercourse), and you both get validated to be disease free, then you are taking some big chances in today’s world.
All the more reason to be monogamous and get married. Unfortunately, marriage has its obvious drawbacks as well.
Pretty soon, sex will be like it was in that futuristic Los Angeles in Demolition Man where men and women don’t even touch when they have sex.
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Re: AW gives new hubby herpes
Post by passingby on Feb 28, 2006, 12:24pm
tg, celibateforlife, I agree! Its a shame that Planned Parenthood has painted abstinence as a choice that only a Protestant Christian can choose, thus effectively barring it from public schools.
I’m “pro-choice”, choose NOT to have sex.
I don’t like going into details about things like this, but I need to say anonymous, I believe you’re wrong about one thing, its my understanding that even a cold sore can turn into genital herpes. So its actually EASIER to transmit it in that way, which again, is something that PP (heh, fitting initials) probably won’t be telling any of our nation’s children.
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Post by Just a cold sore on Feb 28, 2006, 3:27pm
Feb 28, 2006, 12:24pm, passingby wrote:
even a cold sore can turn into genital herpes
It’s easier than that …
A cold sore IS herpes.
Herpes causes the cold sore.
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Re: AW gives new hubby herpes
Post by itsdan on Feb 28, 2006, 4:08pm
It’s easier than that …
A cold sore IS herpes.
It’s not genital herpes, as it’s on the face though. That’s what he meant, cold sores can transmit the virus to the genitals of another person.
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Re: AW gives new hubby herpes
Post by Lee on Feb 28, 2006, 6:01pm
Feb 28, 2006, 4:08pm, itsdan wrote:It’s easier than that …
A cold sore IS herpes.
It’s not genital herpes, as it’s on the face though. That’s what he meant, cold sores can transmit the virus to the genitals of another person.
The only difference between a cold sore and genital herpes is location. You can get herpes anywhere on your body. The virus is of the same family, and is often the same.
You can even get genital herpes strain on your face.
Bad news.
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Re: AW gives new hubby herpes
Post by piggst on Feb 28, 2006, 8:41pm
There is Herpes Simplex, and there is Herpes Not-so Simplex.
All kidding aside, I for one would like to see a WORLDWIDE BAN on herpes suppression medications such as Valtrex.
These skanky sluts can hide their past with herpes suppression drugs and hymen restoration surgeries.
ENOUGH
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Re: AW gives new hubby herpes
Post by thor on Mar 1, 2006, 2:25am
Cold sores can indeed become genital herpes through oral sex, but only during an outbreak. The same is true for genital herpes. Both of these problems are nuisances but don’t need to destroy one’s love life. About 40% of the population has oral herpes -AKA cold sores. Do you want to ban the entire country? Get real. You guys are being a bunch of paranoid knuckleheads.
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Re: AW gives new hubby herpes
Post by skeptos on Mar 1, 2006, 9:38am
A note on oral herpes: whilst cold sores (blisters typically appearing on the lips) are caused by the herpes simplex virus, canker sores (ulcers typically appearing inside the lips or on the gums) are not. The latter usually arise in response to a minor gum injury and can be aggravated by stress.
Skeptos
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Re: AW gives new hubby herpes
Post by Herpe Whoreban on Mar 1, 2006, 10:04am
Mar 1, 2006, 2:25am, thor wrote:
Both of these problems are nuisances but don’t need to destroy one’s love life. About 40% of the population has oral herpes -AKA cold sores. Do you want to ban the entire country? Get real. You guys are being a bunch of paranoid knuckleheads.
Hey Idiocus Erectus:
You can HAVE the Herpes Whores ALL TO YOURSELF !!
I don’t want to catch the Big H.
Apparently you already have it. Good for you. Congrats.
Celebrate by banging another Herpes Whore.
You idiot. Dumbass.
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Re: AW gives new hubby herpes
Post by itsdan on Mar 1, 2006, 10:17am
I love the “so many people have it we shouldn’t worry” argument. Herpes could be eliminated in a single generation if people took precautions against spreading it.
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Re: AW gives new hubby herpes
Post by t on Mar 2, 2006, 2:26am
Mar 1, 2006, 10:17am, itsdan wrote:I love the “so many people have it we shouldn’t worry” argument. Herpes could be eliminated in a single generation if people took precautions against spreading it.
I agree.
Those who take responsibility benefit by healthier and richer lives.
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Re: AW gives new hubby herpes
Post by thor on Mar 2, 2006, 2:40am
Hey Idiocus Erectus:
You can HAVE the Herpes Whores ALL TO YOURSELF !!
I don’t want to catch the Big H.
Apparently you already have it. Good for you. Congrats.
Celebrate by banging another Herpes Whore.
No dumbass, I don’t have it. My ex-wife had it and it was a pain in the ass for her, but from my perspective, it wasn’t that bad. I don’t bang herpes whores or any whores from a bar for that matter. If you avoid sex during an outbreak, you can avoid it altogether. And I don’t think many of you realize how easy it is to catch- especially oral herpes. Sharing a glass, cigarette, etc. all of those things can infect you. Many people are infected at birth or in infancy.
You idiot. Dumbass.
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Re: AW gives new hubby herpes
Post by Herbert Herpes on Mar 2, 2006, 8:13am
Mar 2, 2006, 2:40am, thor wrote:
If you avoid sex during an outbreak, you can avoid it altogether. And I don’t think many of you realize how easy it is to catch- especially oral herpes. Sharing a glass, cigarette, etc. all of those things can infect you.
First you say it’s EASY to avoid it …
Then you say it’s EASY to catch it …
Which is it ? YOU are the idiot … Idiocus.
Hit yourself in the head with that hammer Thor, you need the wake up call.
Think of how stupid the average person is … half the people are stupider than THAT.
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Re: AW gives new hubby herpes
Post by brian on Mar 2, 2006, 9:33am
This idiot feminist would like to let you know that:
Hymenoplasty surgery result of sexist society
(and of course that american women “still earn less money than men”)
“Your virginity: would you pay to get it back?”
I did a double take when I read this teaser on the cover of the March 2004 Latina magazine.
I’d heard of born-again virgins, but I seriously doubted anyone could actually ever get their virginity back. I mean, once it’s gone, it’s gone — right?
Well, sort of.
There is a procedure, called hymenoplasty, which reconstructs the hymen.
So, virginity can be superficially restored. In other words, as far as the guy can tell, he’s the first.
According to the article, titled “The Immaculate Deception,” the highest demand for the procedure are among Korean, Middle Eastern and Latina women.
The hymen is the “thin membrane that partly seals off the opening to the vagina until it is ruptured, typically during a first act of sexual intercourse,” the article says.
According to labiadoctor.com, “The hymenal ring normally gets disrupted after a woman has had sexual intercourse or even after strenuous physical activity or tampon use.”
In a PowerPoint presentation on obgyn.net, a medical site for women’s health professionals, Dr. Mohammed El-Hennawy said that the hymen can also be broken “while participating in sports like bicycling, horseback riding, gymnastics … or while masturbating. A girl may not even know this has occurred, since there may be little or no blood or pain involved when this happens.”
He continues to say that, “In some societies, the hymen must be intact in unmarried women as proof of virginity. Without it, — women are shunned as whores — in extreme cases even murdered by male relatives to restore family honour.”
El-Hennawy said in some cultures, if a woman experienced pain and bleeding on her wedding night, it was proof she was a virgin.
In Egypt, he says, “It is not unusual for a rape victim to marry her rapist to maintain at least the appearance of honor. In fact, according to Egyptian law, once a rapist marries his victim, charges against him are dropped and honor is restored to the woman and her family.”
El-Hennawy said honor killings still occur in some Arabic countries and that gynecologists often have to explain to “a whole horde of male relatives” why a woman didn’t bleed on her wedding night.
“You always have to favor the girl, because if you don’t, she’ll be killed by her family. … So you tell the male relatives the bride had an elastic hymen, which many women do anyway, and in such cases she wouldn’t bleed,” he said.
El-Hennawy said hymenoplasty “quite honestly saves lives” but it is illegal in most Arab countries.
According to labiadoctor.com, “the surgery is usually performed under local anesthesia. … After the surgery, it is recommended to avoid sex, tampons, and douching for six weeks.”
The Latina article says patients are also advised to avoid exercise for two weeks and sexual intercourse for about a month to allow for healing.
A Dominican teen who underwent the procedure said in the article, “To Hispanic parents, to have an unmarried daughter who is a virgin is something sacred.”
Before I fully read the article, I thought this procedure seemed ludicrous.
“Are we living in the Dark Ages?” I wondered.
Now, it seems that hymenoplasty itself is not the problem, but rather a symptom of the problem.
As American women, we tend to take for granted the rights we have.
Yes, we still earn less money than men and we’ve yet to see a female president.
But we’ve come a long way and, for many of us, the thought of facing death if we don’t bleed on our wedding night has never crossed our mind.
Hymenoplasty is the result of a culture that still looks at women as less than men. There are obviously double standards.
As far as I know, there is no way to tell if a man is still a virgin or not. Furthermore, it doesn’t seem to matter.
Even in America, if a woman has had several partners, she is labeled as a slut or whore, two words which contain the word “woman” in their definitions.
Promiscuous men are labeled as “players.” The difference in the implications of these words says a lot.
Women have proven they can do anything a man can do.
We’re members of Congress, doctors, lawyers, CEOs, professional athletes and more.
But in some parts of the world, women are still being persecuted for engaging in something as natural as sex. And some of these dishonored women may, in fact, still be virgins who broke their hymens by using tampons or riding a horse, or who simply weren’t born with one at all.
In the 21st century, these double standards are irrational and unacceptable, and we need to take a stand against sexist attitudes that encourage practices such as hymenoplasty.
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