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Don’t Marry Black Women!

Don’t Marry Black Women!
Post by IndependantBlackMan on Oct 30, 2005, 1:55am

I am your typical Black guy so don’t expect to find any racist blather here, but reality is reality friends. The freedom this forum provides allows me to bring up what I have know for many years. Don’t Marry black women, albeit for different reasons than White women including:

DELUSIONS OF GRANDEUR
Omarosa brought this issue to the forefront. Although she was screwed up in ways that are clinically apparent, she has what a lot of us black guys have had to deal with since the 1970’s. In many black communities, parents tend to raise their daughters to think of themselves as beautiful, intelligent, “queens,” despite any evidence to the contrary. I think this practice is a strategy to try to be able to deal with racism, discrimination, etc. But when this mentality meets society at large, it comes off as delusionary arrogance. The Omarosas of the world are products of this foolishness, and I have no time to pay attention to that nonsense.

CULTURAL PATHOLOGIES
For this, all you need to do is listen to any Destiny’s Child hit and you’ll know what I mean. “Can you pay my bills,” “The place is full of ballers and their pockets are full grown,” “If his status ain’t hood, I ain’t checkin’ for him. Better be street if he lookin’ at me,” and the list goes on and on. The sad thing is, this mindset is not just of the uneducated ghetto types, but it’s growing in prevalence with the educated ones as well. Ever wonder why Whitney Houston fell for the druggie Bobby Brown, or why Beyonce fell for the criminal Jay Z, or why Vivica Fox fell for thuggish 50 Cent? Hmm……

THE MYTH OF “STRONG BLACK WOMAN”
A common excuse you hear from loud, obese, single black women is that they cannot find a man because too many men fear “strong Black women.” Yeah, OK. Being undesirably combative, large, and devoid of any modicum of femininity has nothing to do with strength. Sadly, I see many “ghetto class” white women falling into this mindset more and more.

THEIR EXCUSE OF NO MARRIABLE BLACK MEN
Ah hello; what makes them think they are marriable in any way shape or form? That overused excuse that black men are all in jail, gay or with white women is an indication of a lack of self reflection. How about their habit of producing fatherless babies? That doesn’t exactly raise your stock sistas! Would you want to be married to you in your most common circumstances? I think not so look inward for the problem sistas, not outward.

Bottom line fellows, Black American women are THE WORST in my book. Stay far far away. The marriage strike in Black America is bearing this out. If you must indulge, better alternatives are black women from the West Indies like Jamaica, Trinidad, Grenada, Barbados, etc. I discovered them back in college and had some great experiences.

Thoughts?
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Re: Don’t Marry Black Women!
Post by TyHigs on Oct 30, 2005, 1:14am

>>”Sadly, I see many “ghetto class” white women falling into this mindset more and more.”Post by dsc on Oct 30, 2005, 1:28am

Good post, IndependentBlackMan

Where I live in Western Canada there are relatively few black people.

It explains a lot of things..
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Re: Don’t Marry Black Women!
Post by piggsy on Oct 30, 2005, 2:32am

femnag idealogy knows no racial boundaries.
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Re: Don’t Marry Black Women!
Post by Snakey on Oct 30, 2005, 3:17am

The difference between black & white women seems to me to be only in the delivery and packaging of the same message. Black women say plainly: “Gotta be street if he lookin’ at me”. White women will say something else and then do the same thing black women do. Same shit, different skin.
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Re: Don’t Marry Black Women!
Post by chrisvet on Oct 30, 2005, 3:41am

Oct 30, 2005, 2:32am, piggsy wrote:femnag idealogy knows no racial boundaries.

Yup, it does, and moreso for blacks.

They’re double oppressed (in the eyes of the indocternating gov’ts)

A. They’re black. (special interest)

B. They’re Women. (special interest)

What you see today is mad women, mad because they’ve been hounded to believe men are the devil. The cause of evil, oppression, and all that other bad shit.

Well BINGO, Blacks get fed the same shit.

Results? Wedges between 2 groups of people.
Black women are the worse woman, and thats coming from a dozen black buds over @ Mancoat who tell us this shit each and every day.

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Re: Don’t Marry Black Women!
Post by Richie Rich on Oct 30, 2005, 11:31am

…. I have died and gone to a greater place!!!

FINALLY, after all these years my crusade to educate and inform black men and even the white ones about the perils of American black women has not gone in vain. Since, 2000 I have been on other websites (mainly black sections) and seen the venomous rhetoric spewed at males( especially black) from black women. It now leaves them as the most undesirable women on the North American continent and it is only a sexual encounter with them that generates interest from any race of man. I was dismissed as a hater, sellout and troll but it was all an attempt from detractors to acknowledge a serious problem facing them. The manginas there were as numerous as flies at a BBQ. Some even invited me to an encounter to psychical violence to prove their love for women who scorned the very men who would die for them. It was a simple ploy to appease women in order to be invited to a sexual encounter which worked time and time again. What would be expected from women who who validate themselves by engaging in wanton sexual promiscuity???

Again not all black women are this repugnant. I am from the Caribbean region and it has good black/brown women although they are now in decline. The problem now is American TV, music and lesbian tourists (Carnival cruise lines) which has reprogrammed a growing number of women to be filthy and materialistic sluts. This is proof that bringing a FW to the USA is not a guarantee of any success. Women are women and they follow each others values no matter how absurd they seem. It is a dream to AW to turn a male loving woman to a total Americanized bitch. I have seen it so many times now that I have lost count.

Finally, I remember a sad story of a white gentleman who loved black women. He married one and got a divorce a while later. He then turned to the church to find a new black woman which he did. Later she divorced him and moved HIM out the house HE bought and moved her parents and brother in. He was even warned by black men but to no use did he listen.
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Re: Don’t Marry Black Women!
Post by TyHigs on Oct 30, 2005, 11:36am

Yup, all she has to do as a woman is accuse the man of domestic abuse. The cops will most likely remove him from his own home. If he bought the house within a year of the wedding, or if he lives in a community property state, then the house is a marital asset. And even in an “equitable distribution” state, the equity built from the day of the wedding until the day of the divorce is half hers.

Gotta love it!
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Re: Don’t Marry Black Women!
Post by Yet Another Guest on Oct 30, 2005, 1:45pm

Men, no matter what color you are, society looks at you and treats you like n*****s. That means that you are second-class citizens who are wrong even when you are right.

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Re: Don’t Marry Black Women!
Post by mikeash on Oct 31, 2005, 1:09pm

Women of every race are shitting on us decent guys who are stable but just not exciting enough or rich enough to suit them.

There are worse fates than being single, spending time with good friends, and having the money to do the things you love.
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Re: Don’t Marry Black Women!
Post by Willie Molson on Nov 1, 2005, 9:21am

Welcome aboard IndependentBlackMan. Black Man and Richie, I really have to take issue with your proposition that Black Women are worse than White ones. I think the reason you both make your claims is that you haven’t dated White Women extensively. I have. By the way, I am Black myself.

White Women, especially Italian ones are the most materialistic, mind-fucking women around. Where do you think Black Women got the paradigm for their misandric, materialistic views? Remember too that, while the courts screw men when any woman’s well-being is at stake, they are particularly solicitous in screwing the guy if the woman is White.

From my experience, and it is considerable, the best women for non-marital relationships, surprisingly, are American WASPs, or White Women who have emigrated to the U.S. from Great Britain. Because their social class is the paradigm to which other social classes tend to aspire to, they seem to have more self-confidence and are less preposterously defensive about themselves and their personal qualities. Just my $.02.
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Single in America…..Thank God….
Post by logic101 on Nov 1, 2005, 9:44am

Oct 31, 2005, 1:09pm, mikeash wrote:
There are worse fates than being single, spending time with good friends, and having the money to do the things you love.

Exactly. Life is actually good in 2005 when a squared away man is safe, sane, financially stable, healthy and single.

-Logic 101

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Re: Don’t Marry Black Women!
Post by Elf on Nov 1, 2005, 10:32am

Nov 1, 2005, 9:21am, Willie Molson wrote:
White Women, especially Italian ones are the most materialistic, mind-fucking women around. .

I agree with this too. I don’t know much about black women’s behavior, but I say if it is worse than white women, then black women deserve a medal for worst behavior. White women are indeed the most materialistic, conniving, psychologically messed up, angry, entitled women out there. One thing I have noticed about a lot of them, is that they love expensive cars(contrary to Latino women who love expensive clothes). Around here where I live, almost all expensive cars are driven by white women. Put two and two together and I am sure they love rich men too. They love to parade wealth and status, usually at some poor slob’s expense. The thing I have experienced with white women, though, over the years, is that they almost always have serious psychological issues.

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Re: Don’t Marry Black Women!
Post by Richie Rich on Nov 1, 2005, 11:09am

I think the reason you both make your claims is that you haven’t dated White Women extensively
-Willie Molson

…Well Willie, I cant speak for the other guy but my perceptions are just based on what my eyes see. I am sure his views are based on attitudes of black women as well. As for dating white women, I have not dated an American version because I see they have a whole different set of bulls#@t coming with them too. I have seen the reality of how some white women are and they are as repugnant as well. Even the most desperate white men would avoid them because of the chaos they are advertising. It was not until I went to a university which had many White women that I saw what the white guys were putting up with as well. I now know why many white males seek Oriental women abroad!!!

However, I have lost count with the amount of black women I have seen in public who behaved downright disgraceful toward their men with derogatory comments about his looks and most famous, the lack of penis size to further belittle him. Maybe it is just the abundance of crude, low class and harlot minded women in this city I live. I understand him but WE are certainly not an anomaly. Go to ANY black oriented website and you see men the saying the same thing there.

Now that I look at the whole debate, I see American women regardless of skin color or ethnicity are very much alike than they are different. AW are seriously dysfunctional compared to women in other countries from my personal encounters. The word “Irony” should be renamed American women. AW can be very beautiful in all their variations but they are among the most horrendous in the world!!!
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Re: Don’t Marry Black Women!
Post by IndependantBlackMan on Nov 2, 2005, 1:25pm

Nov 1, 2005, 9:21am, Willie Molson wrote:Welcome aboard IndependentBlackMan. Black Man and Richie, I really have to take issue with your proposition that Black Women are worse than White ones. I think the reason you both make your claims is that you haven’t dated White Women extensively. I have. By the way, I am Black myself.

Thanks for the gracious welcome aboard. I believe I have dated, befriended, or worked with enough of both Black and White women to credibly compare the two. Truth be told, I view American black and white women with equal disdain, albeit for different reasons. Some basic problems I have with white women are fickleness, lack of candor, obsession with attaining masculine attributes, and lack of independant thinking. Black women have “candor on steriods,” skewed expectations, combativeness, and delusions of grandeur. I would choose neither to marry, but the black women would destroy my good life far more than the white ones.

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Re: Don’t Marry Black Women!
Post by AverageJoe on Nov 12, 2005, 4:49pm

The late great Daniel Patrick Moynihan alluded to much of this in his controversial Dept. of Labor study back in the 60’s. It was called “The Negro Family: A Case for National Action.” He was highly criticized for it back then, but as the years went on, it seemed that he was on to something.
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Re: Don’t Marry Black Women!
Post by Lee on Nov 12, 2005, 6:10pm

Nov 12, 2005, 4:49pm, AverageJoe wrote:The late great Daniel Patrick Moynihan alluded to much of this in his controversial Dept. of Labor study back in the 60’s. It was called “The Negro Family: A Case for National Action.” He was highly criticized for it back then, but as the years went on, it seemed that he was on to something.

He did this study during the Kennedy & Johnson Administrations, and most conclusions from it were accurate and true.

He got the future right, although no one wanted to listen or accept his conclusions.
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Re: Don’t Marry Black Women!
Post by Mamonaku187 on Jan 2, 2006, 8:46am

Nov 2, 2005, 1:25pm, IndependantBlackMan wrote:
Nov 1, 2005, 9:21am, Willie Molson wrote:Welcome aboard IndependentBlackMan. Black Man and Richie, I really have to take issue with your proposition that Black Women are worse than White ones. I think the reason you both make your claims is that you haven’t dated White Women extensively. I have. By the way, I am Black myself.

Thanks for the gracious welcome aboard. I believe I have dated, befriended, or worked with enough of both Black and White women to credibly compare the two. Truth be told, I view American black and white women with equal disdain, albeit for different reasons. Some basic problems I have with white women are fickleness, lack of candor, obsession with attaining masculine attributes, and lack of independant thinking. Black women have “candor on steriods,” skewed expectations, combativeness, and delusions of grandeur. I would choose neither to marry, but the black women would destroy my good life far more than the white ones.

Preach on brotha man!

I have always known on a subconcious level, that in my lifetime, I could never marry a Black woman.

That thought makes me sad, because I think most Black women are beautiful. Being an ass man, it’s a damn shame all of that will go to waste!

Sometimes I can’t understand why things have to be this way. Black women have no excuses… as the vast majority of girls my age were brought up in the church, and they should know better.

Woman came from my rib, not the other way around.

But… I guess this is the way it is. Life goes on.
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Re: Don’t Marry Black Women!
Post by The Author on Jan 2, 2006, 10:33am

> black woman said the reason for the high divorce rate is because men choose women based on women’s looks,

She’s right.
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Re: Don’t Marry Black Women!
Post by Richie Rich on Jan 2, 2006, 11:47am

***black woman said the reason for the high divorce rate is because men choose women based on women’s looks, ***

How does the broad explain 70% + of divorces are filed by women??
How does the broad explain the …

Never mind, I am done with trying to reason with these retarded ass AW !!!
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