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Legal Question-Wife pregnant-not mine

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Legal Question-Wife pregnant-not mine
Post by support on Feb 13, 2006, 12:59pm

I just found out my wife is pregnant to a man she has been having an affair with. We will keep the baby because I’m against abortion. Can I sue him for support? He makes more than I do.

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Re: Legal Question-Wife pregnant-not mine
Post by JimP on Feb 13, 2006, 1:01pm

Other than being a masochist, is there any particular reason why you want to stay married to your wife?

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Re: Legal Question-Wife pregnant-not mine
Post by support on Feb 13, 2006, 1:05pm

I’m thinking I will divorce her. I’m worried about having to pay support though. I need to see an attorney about this. He would have to pay for the child since it is his (I think). I will get a DNA test when the baby arrives then might just divorce her.
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Re: Legal Question-Wife pregnant-not mine
Post by Lee Raconteur on Feb 13, 2006, 1:06pm

Why would you want to rear another man’s cast off progeny, making you a cuckold and fool, and your wife an adulteress?

The law in the U.S. is still based mostly upon Lord Mansfield’s Rule of English Common Law.

If that child is born while you are still married, you will legally be its father.

Do not do this.
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Re: Legal Question-Wife pregnant-not mine
Post by nemo on Feb 13, 2006, 1:07pm

It depends on which state you are in (at least in the USA).

In most states, a principle of law known as Lord Mansfield’s Rule applies. A child born to a wife is automatically the responsibility of the husband. There are some exceptions in some states. A *few* states allow paternity to be challenged by DNA tests.
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Re: Legal Question-Wife pregnant-not mine
Post by support on Feb 13, 2006, 1:12pm

Well, she’s won’t allow an abortion even if I wanted it. She was very clear about that. Lord Mansfield’s Rule ?? What is this? If he got my wife pregnant, he will have to pay her support, then I’ll likely divorce her. Since DNA will prove her an adulterous, I will get custody of my daughter. She can have custody of her child from the affair.
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Re: Legal Question-Wife pregnant-not mine
Post by nemo on Feb 13, 2006, 1:17pm

Sweet Lord in heaven, my poor fellow, you are in for the rudest awakening of your life when your lawyer explains paternity law to you.

I hope that you are lucky enough to live in one of the *few* states which allow a DNA test to determine paternity after a child is born to a married couple.
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Re: Legal Question-Wife pregnant-not mine
Post by InMichigan on Feb 13, 2006, 1:22pm

Now we see how men get trapped. She has an affair and now her husband wants to wait until the child is born, I figure you love her and don’t want her to try to go through pregnancy by herself but I will tell you now she will not care who she scams for the child support and if you wait then in all likelyhood it will be you paying. Get the divorce now stop rewarding women that can’t take responsibility for their lives. You hold the cards right now since she cheated on you plus it gives you a better chance to get your daughter’s custody.
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Re: Legal Question-Wife pregnant-not mine
Post by nemo on Feb 13, 2006, 1:37pm

If you live in a state with a “no fault” divorce law, the fact that she committed adultery may not make any difference at all with respect to the settlement or child custody. She could end up with your house, both kids, and most of your money.

You MUST call a lawyer TODAY and get the ball rolling on your divorce.
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Re: Legal Question-Wife pregnant-not mine
Post by openeyes on Feb 13, 2006, 1:44pm

Feb 13, 2006, 1:12pm, support wrote:Lord Mansfield’s Rule ?? What is this?

According to the rule, any child born within a marriage is the legal responsibility of the husband, regardless of who the biological father may be.

While I’ve found that this law has technically been repealed in all but a few states, you need to talk to a lawyer now, as others have said, to see what action you must take BEFORE the child is born. Otherwise YOU could very well be the one paying child support the next 18 years.
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Re: Legal Question-Wife pregnant-not mine
Post by Niall CBB on Feb 13, 2006, 1:46pm

Assuming this isn’t a troll because this guy is beyond naive.

LAWYER NOW! DIVORCE BEFORE CHILD BORN! DO IT NOW!
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Re: Legal Question-Wife pregnant-not mine
Post by billb on Feb 13, 2006, 1:49pm

Feb 13, 2006, 1:12pm, support wrote:Well, she’s won’t allow an abortion even if I wanted it. She was very clear about that. Lord Mansfield’s Rule ?? What is this? If he got my wife pregnant, he will have to pay her support, then I’ll likely divorce her. Since DNA will prove her an adulterous, I will get custody of my daughter. She can have custody of her child from the affair.

You think the USA anti-male pro-feminist family court crime syndicate uses logic and reason when it comes to making decisions about ass-raping men?

They are anything but logical and reasonable!

WAKE THE FUCK UP!
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Re: Legal Question-Wife pregnant-not mine
Post by celibateforlife on Feb 13, 2006, 1:54pm

Get a lawyer.

NOW.

Get off this board, pick up the phone, and call a lawyer.

And DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH THAT WOMAN! Your lawyer will tell you that, I’m telling you now from experience. Do *NOT* succumb to seduction or temptation!

Only in America can a woman cheat on her husband and he STILL has to give her half of everything they own. Now you’re looking at potential endentured slavery via child support for a child that isn’t even yours.

You may be in for a rude awakening. Support, support.
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Re: Legal Question-Wife pregnant-not mine
Post by nemo on Feb 13, 2006, 1:59pm

One thing which helps you is that the other fellow makes more money than you do. This makes him a more attractive target for child support. You should point this fact out to your wife. This will give her an incentive to make him pay for their baby.

I realize that it sounds a little heartless to discuss such a painful subject in purely financial terms, but you need to do whatever you can to minimize your legal responsibility. The other two people in this love triangle are the villains. You have no moral responsibility for her unborn child. Do everything you can to avoid the *legal* responsibility for that child.
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Re: Legal Question-Wife pregnant-not mine
Post by Pomgran on Feb 13, 2006, 2:15pm

Get a Lawyer, drain your joint accounts, and divorce the sluts ass.

You will be so much better off. Most states do consider adultry a reason for divorce, and if you were married in a church, she broke your contract. don’t forget, marriage is a contract, being faithful is part of deal for most. Sue her and take all the assets. Then sue the man too.
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Re: Legal Question-Wife pregnant-not mine
Post by King Karan on Feb 13, 2006, 3:02pm

Assuming this guy is real, it seems he needs first to absorb reality. He is probably shocked that she screwed somebody else to begin with, and is emotionally shaken.

Now the world under his feet is crumbling as he realizes he is in the Fem-Matrix (and he believed the “old rules” — fall in love, get married, happily ever after, dignity and equitable divorce, blah, blah).

He needs to unplug from the Matrix (and fast) while at the same time get a lawyer. Man I can see a case of skinning if he succumbs …

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Re: Legal Question-Wife pregnant-not mine
Post by Lurker on Feb 13, 2006, 3:31pm

Good advice here. Def get a lawyer Original Poster.

She’s probably telling you that she really loves you and that she knows she made a mistake right? She’s probably saying that she will do better in the marriage and this will make you two a stronger couple right?

Wrong!

If you wait until that child is born, you will likely end up paying support regardless of paternity.

You should read everything you can on this forum and then check other forums out.

The reason I replied is this: Possession is very important in divorces. When you found out about her cheating you should have kicked her out of the house, changed the locks and then got a lawyer.

Don’t give up your kids unless you are ordered to by the gov’t. Make sure you document everything. My god man, if you’re really as naive as your posts lead to believe, I feel for you. Its a rude day in court.
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Re: Legal Question-Wife pregnant-not mine
Post by Lee Raconteur on Feb 13, 2006, 3:36pm

Feb 13, 2006, 1:12pm, support wrote:Well, she’s won’t allow an abortion even if I wanted it. She was very clear about that. Lord Mansfield’s Rule ?? What is this? If he got my wife pregnant, he will have to pay her support, then I’ll likely divorce her. Since DNA will prove her an adulterous, I will get custody of my daughter. She can have custody of her child from the affair.

You simply do not understand.

Some states allow indefinite paternity challenges.
Maryland, for one that I know of. In that you can challenge paternity for as long as you wish.

Many, many states do not allow this. You may have 6 months, a year or 2 years, but if you do not test the child before time is up, you will be presumed the father.

Lord Mansfield’s Rule is from 1756 or so, and is used to assign paternity.

It states that if your wife has a child, and you are married to her at the time, then you are presumed the child’s father.

What this means in practice is that when this child is born, your wife will be able to put any name she wishes on the birth certificate as the father. She likely will put you down, and under Mansfield you will be presumed the father unless you immediately contest this.

You will need to get a lawyer, for it is still likely that you will be forced to pay support for this child, in the name of preserving the family unit.

You are about to discover the brunt end of the Feminist Court and Child Support System in the U.S.

Good luck, for you will need it.
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Re: Legal Question-Wife pregnant-not mine
Post by AppleJack on Feb 13, 2006, 5:21pm

If you’re living in New York state, you can use DNA testing to prove your not the father.
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Re: Legal Question-Wife pregnant-not mine
Post by ATG on Feb 13, 2006, 6:00pm

Original Poster – GET A DNA TEST – THEN GET A LAWYER – FILE FOR DIVORCE NOWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!!!

RIGHT NOW – DO NOT WASTE ANY PRECIOUS TIME AS SHE’S TRYING TO TRICK YOU AS WELL AS DELAYING WHICH WILL GIVE HER A GREATER ADVANTAGE IF YOU DELAY DOING THIS TOO LONG!!!!

CAN’T STRESS THIS ENOUGH AND WHY THE CAPS IN THIS RESPONSE
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Re: Legal Question-Wife pregnant-not mine
Post by Lee Raconteur on Feb 13, 2006, 6:10pm

Dear Support -

You should get a Divorce Attorney, now, TODAY.

You cannot delay 24 hours. If you let her convince you to raise this bastard, you will be paying for her indescretion and another man’s child for 18-24 years.

Change the locks, kick her out, record all phone conversations, tap her phone lines (purely for recon – you will not be able to admit this in court), get her to admit on tape/and/or in front of witnesses that she cheated and the child is another man’s.

This will cost you several hundred thousand dollars, and will likely break your spirit if you have to endure this for 18 years.

Save yourself, you have the tools and the time.

Do it NOW!
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Re: Legal Question-Wife pregnant-not mine
Post by Guest on Feb 13, 2006, 7:06pm

Here’s is just another fine example of why American women ARE NOT marriage material! And we can no longer just shrug our shoulders and say “well, most women aren’t this way.” In today’s America, most women ARE this way. Marrying an American woman has a least an 85% chance of failure — either ending in divorce, being cuckolded, being stuck in a sexless marriage, etc. And here is just another example of what is likely a good man having his life fucked up by some worthless whore who he loved and cared about. American women are just garbage, plain and simple. They are raised to be like this from the time they are preteens. The Garbage Generation.
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Re: Legal Question-Wife pregnant-not mine
Post by JimP on Feb 13, 2006, 7:19pm

Feb 13, 2006, 12:59pm, support wrote:I just found out my wife is pregnant to man she has been having an affair with. We will keep the baby because I’m against abortion. Can I sue him for support? He makes more than I do.

I know it’s hard, and I know you won’t believe me, but women are a very cheap commodity on the world market; do yourself a favor, dump the untrustworthy lying bitch and move on.

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Re: Legal Question-Wife pregnant-not mine
Post by nemo on Feb 13, 2006, 8:45pm

I hate to bring this up, but you should have your daughter’s DNA tested to see if your wife has cheated on you more than once.

She has admitted that she is an adulteress. You can no longer assume that anything she has ever done or said is the truth.
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Re: Legal Question-Wife pregnant-not mine
Post by Richie Rich on Feb 13, 2006, 10:27pm

**Assuming this isn’t a troll because this guy is beyond naive**

…I thought I was the only who suspected this!!!
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Re: Legal Question-Wife pregnant-not mine
Post by Pomgran on Feb 13, 2006, 11:21pm

It’s either a troll or one of those Mangina’s Prof Adams wrote about, the guy who said he was ok with his wife cheating because they have a solid friendship. Only a mangina would say shit like that.
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Re: Legal Question-Wife pregnant-not mine
Post by Dan on Feb 15, 2006, 7:54am

It was my understanding that even children conceived up to a few months to a year AFTER divorce were also assumed to be the husbands/ex-husbands children.
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Re: Legal Question-Wife pregnant-not mine
Post by Niall CBB on Feb 15, 2006, 8:53am

Good catch Nemo. The daughter should also be DNA tested pronto although on mommy support the ship has probably already sailed whatever the result.
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May 21, 2007 at 4:26 pm

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  1. I have had the same thing happen. I returned for R&R from Afghanistan to find out my wife is pregnant and its not mine. Did you come to any solution?

    MIller

    June 12, 2010 at 8:23 am

  2. Recently I ran into an old friend of my wife and I when visiting the state we used to live in.
    Very much to my surprise she came forth with some information she thought I should know.

    It turns out that my wife, who I have now been married to for 25 years, had several affairs between our sixth and tenth years of marriage.

    During one of the affairs she became pregnant. This friend went with her to the doctors visit to verify the pregnancy, and went with her the day she had the pregnancy aborted.

    I now know the story is true as I have been able to verify it by a second party. The scary thing is the second party told me about a second abortion about 18 months after the first.

    And I recall her being unusually wild sexually during the time in question, often being very aggressive in bed. And I recall coming home to her cleaning house completely nude which I found very odd at the time. Now I wonder if perhaps someone ran out the back door as I came in the front.

    Now my wife has no idea that I have this information, which I’ve only had for about six weeks now.

    I feel partly devastated, but not as much as I think I should after finding out something as shocking as this. I can only think it must be because this happened more than fifteen years ago.

    But now I’m wondering, if all this happened when we were first married before we moved, who knows what she’s been doing all the years we’ve been in our new state.

    It’s still hard for me to believe, as she’s been a good wife and a great mother to our three kids. Still, obviously there’s a side to her that I don’t know and it fills me with uncertainty for our future together.

    Thank goodness she didn’t keep the kid(s) and try to pass them off as mine. I never would have known and all these years I would have been thinking I was their biological father. I guess in a twisted way that’s about the only good thing she did do.

    JoeJoe Dancer

    May 4, 2011 at 9:00 pm

    • Brother do you have an email address? i am in similar situation, i need to talk to you for advises. email me at scottie_pippen@gmx.com

      Anonymous

      June 6, 2012 at 10:56 pm

  3. This whole nation is just for the women even most of the churches… who can find a virtuous woman yeah and every one lies for the rest also… the man is the last to know and cant do anything about it…

    notasdumbsabefore

    January 17, 2014 at 3:40 am


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